he husbWhat do u think would force you to

[MarieK]

just pack up and leave and when I say leave, I mean job kids house husband every single thing.

Here's the scenario.

Jill married Tom 23 years ago, the relationship has always been abusive, physically and mentally. They have 3 children together and the children too are abusive to their mother and treats them like their father does. She takes them to counselling and tries to bond with them but they treat her like garbage.

So Jill decided one day to leave and does just that but she leaves with 1/2 the bank account and is never heard from for roughly 1 year until she contacts two friends who she knows will not say anything to her family.

[diabolical_Tanya]

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Good for Jill...I hope she is very happy [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

[Suesumba]

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the children mirror the behavour, i have a ____ who calls his mother _itch, caz that's what the dear father used to call har. even when the man leff di bway still a gwan soh. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img]

shi seh before shi murda him and police and haul and pull har, shi pack him up and sen him to children's aid. after he got the message and counselling him meek and mild and now back at home.

good for Jill.

whispering to self seh is wah kinda headline dat MrsM put pan di post - shi mussi gih up extra letters fi lent

[gullygirl]

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Very courageous woman..

I know someone who walked away after 16yrs..He always thought she would never leave.. when she did, he said she would be back, because she wouldn't make it on her own.. It's been over a year, and she seems to be doing well..


wish mi madda fren di have di courage fi left dat deh frigga weh shi married tuh.. a mussi 3yrs now him nat even chat tuh har... an shi a wash, cook an clean sed way....

[MarieK]

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lol sue sometime di cursa jump up tuh di tike pawt an mi couldn't badda fix ie [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/laugh.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/laugh.gif[/img]

My aunt on the paternal side left her husband in such a unique way. He used to cheat, beat and curse her this went on for over 14 years well she came to the US and divorced him and went back to live with him all this time he had no clue he was divorced. She then came back to the US, got married to a guy, she went back to Jamaica bought a piece of land and secretly started building a huge house. She then left for the third time to come to the US to finalize her papers and returned to JA when he was at work and moved out the furniture.

Last I saw him he looked so shocked and it has been 6 years now.

[fraggie]

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Yep she had enuff of the bull crop too long and the time come for her to make her move. Most woman in simular position would do the same thing but they remain on till the kids grow older.

[CeaBee]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mrs. MarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body">lol sue sometime di cursa jump up tuh di tike pawt an mi couldn't badda fix ie [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/laugh.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/laugh.gif[/img]

My aunt on the paternal side left her husband in such a unique way. He used to cheat, beat and curse her this went on for over 14 years well she came to the US and divorced him and went back to live with him all this time he had no clue he was divorced. She then came back to the US, got married to a guy, she went back to Jamaica bought a piece of land and secretly started building a huge house. She then left for the third time to come to the US to finalize her papers and returned to JA when he was at work and moved out the furniture.

Last I saw him he looked so shocked and it has been 6 years now.
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good fi her...but mi kinda pondering why she divorce him and gone abroad and den come back to him fi pretend seh dem still married.

[MarieK]

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CB - she lived there until she could afford to finish her house which is a mansion in comparison to what the husband is left with.

I think it hurts most because she was there and divorced and didn't tell him.

[Fyah]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mrs. MarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body">CB - she lived there until she could afford to finish her house which is a mansion in comparison to what the husband is left with.

I think it hurts most because she was there and divorced and didn't tell him. </div></div>

Well, unique indeed, and lucky.

Some men would have made it their duty to find such a woman, bunn the house down and chop her to pieces....just out of GP. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bubble.gif[/img]

Hurt is a painful thing, that many people can't deal with so prevention is better than cure in such situations.

Again, Unique, but Stupid.

[applepie]

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Good for her.

[MarieK]

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lol Rundung he is a smart man, anyone who knows that side of the family wouldn't try that.

[Hush Darlin]

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MarieK mi still a try fe figga out the title of this thread

[MarieK]

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wah di baxcova yuh nuh tap badda mi an guh sen di picha come, yuh a wait fi Bre fi tun 20 before mi see har.



it should read what do you think would force u to leave your family behind.

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How bre

[Hush Darlin]

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Marie you kno sey when mi a type the post mi mine tell mi sey u did a go come cuss mi bout the picture
awrire hear wha you do
pm mi wid you mailing address and mi wi sen you more pictures dan you can look at