Jealousy

[Magician]

Re: Jealousy

A true. Jealousy is related to selfishness.

Are you jealous of other siblings when it comes to your mom, or just her friends in general? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

[turtledude]

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...I think jelousy is some wierd emotion based in fear...usually something you got that you are afraid of losing, or something you think you deserve, but can't get....I agree with Aynat... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/popcorn.gif[/img]

[tsophra]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Emperah_dahJah</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SweetSsop</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compry</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Is it something you are born with? Can you get rid of it? Does everyone experience it? </div></div>
God is jealous </div></div>

exactly, if it is an atribute in God how can it not be in us or we get rid of it? </div></div>

what about people or culture's who don't belive in "God' [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

[tsophra]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Is it something you are born with?
Can you get rid of it?
Does everyone experience it? </div></div>

I believe its innate to human nature.

I believe it can be controlled..

[MarieK]

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oh lord now you a guh put me on a couch.

Ok here goes. I am the only child for my Mom. she is now married to a man that I simply adore and he has children, he has one son who is my age and when we all lived together I was not nice to him, my brother, infact I was very vicious and when I say vicious I really mean that. Of course now my brother and I get along because he is not as close to my mom because he has his own family to deal with.

Next comes my husband. My mother simply loves him, they get along just great however, I feel slighted when they talk. I feel like she's my mom and she's giving my attention away. He relates to my mom as a mother even though he unconditionally loves his own.

Next comes her kids. My mother is a teacher adn is a mother at heart. I have no idea how she has one child because she is so good w/ Kids. She teaches children that are less than unfortunate and she will do things to make them special especially around christmas time and I get really mad when she does that.

When it comes to her husband I don't feel slighted, I love to see them together and her friends are very much welcome.

I only feel slighted when she acts towards someone else in a motherly role.

The ironic thing however is her husband. He and i are so much alike it is eerie, we are born the same month, we get along great so much so unless I tell you you will never know he is not my father and I don't see my brother getting mad over that.

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I am very territorial and I get very jealous when I feel that I am losing otu on what should be mine.

I told you all that I was very selfish. But there is another extreme to me though [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/wink.gif[/img]

[Hush Darlin]

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what a way u love the couch eeh Marie

[Magician]

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Marie you shoula glad and thankful that your husband get along so well with your mother. You know the 'mother in law' jokes. They are a reflection of a lot of relationships between people and their spouses parents. You would have felt worse if your husband didn't like your mother.

I think it is ver nice what she does to the kids at school to make them feel special. Put yourself in the shoes of those kids, and imagine what joy she brings to them.

Sounds like you're lucky to have a great mom and husband. Yuh need fi appreciate dat fi real, and put fi yuh territorial instincts unda lock an key.

[MarieK]

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[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/nahtalktoyuh.gif[/img] now you sound like her.....

I think it is wonderful how well he blends in with ALL of my family members.

I am very much blessed though Magic thanks and yes I am working on it. Trust me.

[Magician]

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Zeen.

You've go all you could aks for then. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

[Compry]

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My ex-husband once told me that I was cold because I never got jealous when he spoke about his ex-girlfriend. I told him I didn't care (I didn't).

So, flip side question, is a little bit of jealousy in your relationship healthy?

[MarieK]

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Yes madam a little jealousy is necessary to keep the spark.

Tek Missa Marie for instant, di man wuk hawd, him carry home di money an spen nuff time wid mi but more time mi realise seh mi haffi mek up nize fi mek him feel wanted.

Valentines: Two weeks after valentines Mommy came to visit and brought us both valentine gifts. It was a little teddy bear w/ chocolate which mi beleive seh she teif fram di mad pickney dem but oh well, suh him puddung di teddy bear inna di cyar and quick fi hide ie when mi a come. mi nuh seh nutt'n nexx ting mi know di teddy bear "hide" inna mi underwear draw and him jump up di nexx mawnin when mi guh eeen deh fi tek out mi undies and seh "no don't go in there"

It was then mi realise seh him want mi fi mek up nize. Suh mi cuss and carry awn an galang bad and slam two door and fling dung two cushan awfa di footstool.

Mi kakafawt nexx time mi know mi deh a wuk an him seh "Marie, mi love yuh baby, yuh know mi nah gi yuh bun"

Mi seh weh ie come fram (all dis time mi a seh, lawd massy a when di game a guh done, mid di want fi buss him bubble but him was havin suh much fun mi decide fi play along"

Mi seh "a di plucky plucky fat gyal a yuh jab gi yuh" "no wait, a di gyal weh pull up side a yuh inna chraffic chree month aguh inna di benz, a shi yuh a leff mi fah eeeh" (of course di gyal in di benz was actually an older lady in Virginia when we went on a raod trip but bless him hawt him neva realise seh mi juss a play along.

Mi all guh suh far as tuh seh "wait a wan a di gyal dem a mi jab, yuh want mi bun dung di whole compiny" hear him "den Marie, baby, mi nah mine ooman yuh nuh suh a weh yuh a guh wuk"

hear mi "gweh, mi nah wuk yuh have time fi get teddy bear fram ooman yuh muss cyan mine mi, tideh tideh mi a leff di wuk and siddung home"

Anyway mi come home to flowas and wan helleva cyaad spellin out undying love.

Suh mi think di man realise a joke mi a mek, inna di night mi realize seh him more touches dan usual suh mi seh "baby a wah get up inna yuh tinite, come yah man [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/wink.gif[/img] "

Kakfawt inna di chroes of passion hear di man "suh yuh wudda really kill a ooman fi mi"

mi ansa seriously "how yuh mean, mi will buss shat fi yuh ennytime"

We will replay this in teh next 3 or so months.

yuh know seh mi shudda write a book

[Gen]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compry</div><div class="ubbcode-body">ReggaeGirl &amp; Tanya,

I recall when my daughter was born, my son wanting me to put her down so he could climb into my lap. I recall seeing how upset he was because I was nursing his sister and not giving him all my attention.

Wasn't that jealousy and how did he learn that behaviour at such a young age? </div></div>

I am not sure I would call it jealousy at that age..children depend on us..he saw his "mommy" being preoccupied with another..at that age children just want your attention [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

[Yvonne N.]

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You need fi get a job wid the soap opera company dem and lively up dem show dem...yu good missis...[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[Q3210]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mrs. MarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I think every human has the jealous streak. We are born with it, it is just more prevalent in some more than others.

It also depends upon what or who the object of jealousy is. I am not an envious person, I'll be the one who helps everyone (alwasy get burned in the end though, each and every time) however, I like attention from certain people and if I notice the attention is being diverted elsewhere it can be painful [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/laugh.gif[/img]

It is not a learned nor controlled behavior, you cannot determine what you are jealous about, hwoever, you can control your response one best way is to remove the object.
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Yu mean, kill him or de other woman?

[Compry]

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Lawd a massie...yuh mad enno. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]