So I met this guy online....

**Bandana** · 03-21-2007, 05:46 PM

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BTW:

I spent my lunch mailing a package that should have gone out 2 weeks ago... so if you're reading this, the package done sent [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/cool.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/wink.gif[/img]

You can thank my "date" [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] your "therapy" soon come [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

**Bandana** · 03-21-2007, 05:49 PM

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And I should never listen to my horoscope, cause todays got me all excited:

Sweeeeet! All things love-related are likely to go extra-double-super well for you right about now. All your finest qualities are first and foremost, so put your best foot forward and go get what you want.

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**Bandana** · 03-21-2007, 05:52 PM

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[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/wavey.gif[/img] HELLO [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/wavey.gif[/img]

Yes you....

So what do you think????

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**Bandana** · 03-21-2007, 05:58 PM

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*sigh*

I know you must all be very busy composing your heartfelt response to my question!???? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-idea.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img]

**Compry** · 03-21-2007, 06:08 PM

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LOL...stuff happens. If you are able to, meet him after work. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif[/img]

**Bandana** · 03-21-2007, 06:19 PM

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[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70371-jump.gif[/img] Compry [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70371-jump.gif[/img]

Thanks, I think I will meet him... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70384-praying.gif[/img]

SO now that is decided, I have another question...

I remember Marilyn posting a "top ten questions to ask" or something like that years ago...

I never seem to ask the right things when meeting people...

So when you're getting to know someone, what are the top ten questions you want answered??? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

**LINDA** · 03-21-2007, 06:19 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Bandanna</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/wavey.gif[/img] HELLO [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/wavey.gif[/img]

Yes you....

So what do you think????

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/wavey.gif[/img] OK, you got me with this...I lurk toooo much [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/blush.gif[/img]

I would tell him that you would LOVE to meet after work, however you already have plans-what he doesn't know won't hurt him, PLUS it makes you more intriguing as you ARE a busy lady....

THEN, reschedule for whenever you feel comfortable-make him wait a couple of days if you feel like it....

Remember YOU are the prize, NOT him.

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**Daoud4** · 03-21-2007, 06:26 PM

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You're probably gone by now, but I agree with Compry. Besides, I'd like to hear what happened when the two of you met. Hope it went well.

My girlfriend had a similiar situation 2wks ago, talked for a few wks, loved each others convo, made each other laff, shared pictures online. The time came, made a time and place to meet, she called him when she was leaving the house, he said he was leaving his at the same time. She got there, waited an hour and 30 minutes. He never showed up, she got on the train and took the hour train ride back home, all now haven't heard from him [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70456-eyebrows.gif[/img]

If I wasn't her friend it would seem kinda comical (nah it was comical)..that's bad I shouldn't have said that.

**Daoud4** · 03-21-2007, 06:27 PM

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Bee, when is the last time you went on a date?

**Bandana** · 03-21-2007, 06:29 PM

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[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/yahoo.gif[/img] LINDA came out of lurking [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/yahoo.gif[/img]

thanks for your thoughts... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/notworthy.gif[/img]

I look so good today, I think I will tell him we can meet but I just have about 10 minutes to say hi then I gotta go [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/wink.gif[/img]

**Compry** · 03-21-2007, 06:29 PM

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[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] I am not the appropriate person to answer that one Bandanna. I'll do a google search and see what I can come up with.

**Bandana** · 03-21-2007, 06:34 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TeeTee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">If I wasn't her friend it would seem kinda comical (nah it was comical)..that's bad I shouldn't have said that. </div></div>

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

no, it's not funny, but the way you said it was... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smirk.gif[/img]

I guess I should be thankful he did not stand me up totally [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] and that he still wants to meet [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

It's been 4 months since my last "real date"

why did that feel like confession??? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

**Compry** · 03-21-2007, 06:37 PM

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Here you go:

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">1) What is the sort of relationship you are looking for and why
This is according to some relationship experts the most important question to ask on a first date. Once this is asked, it is out there, making it evident to you what you are getting into. You put your profile on the dating site. In your profile you clearly mention that you are looking for a committed relationship. Now after you meet some who are positive, you have to pop the big question nonchalantly into the conversation. Your tone must not be inquisitional or confrontational. After you get the answer you must double check by asking, why? These are good questions on the first date because you don’t want to go on a boat ride with both rowing in opposite directions.

2) What do you think is the biggest mistake that men/women make in their relationships?
The answer to this question will reveal what are the things that turn him/her off about people and what are his/ her ideas about men and women.

3) What are the qualities of your ideal relationship
it is one among the good questions to ask on a first date? Men and women reveal what they are looking for in life, what kind of relationships that they expect out of each other and the ideal dates and marriages that they dream of.

4) Have you ever had your heart broken?
The more attractive/defensive the person the more likely the answer is, no. But majority of honest individuals will claim yes. This may reveal their humility.

5) What scares you the most about opening your heart to your partner?
This is a question to break the defenses of your date and lay his/ her feelings bare, so you grow closer emotionally.

6) Has any book or Movie made an impact on you?
Book and movies are important influences of popular culture and you can have an interesting and animated discussion on books and movies that inspired or influenced you. Good questions to ask on a first date.

7) What is the most annoying thing that someone could do to you?
You could share a laugh about what annoys you in other people and get to know better others likes/ dislikes.

8)If you could have any job in the world, what could it be?
Helps you discover what drives him or her- money/ adrenaline/domestic bliss.

9) What do you like to do for fun?
This will help you to know if you can share leisure activities. Also whether he/she is an indoor/ outdoor person.

10) What is the biggest mistake that people make on a first date?
Lets you into trade secrets of the opposite gender.

11) What do you look for in a guy/ girl?
These questions along with the previous one are good questions to ask on a first date. It will reveal the dreams and romantic aspirations of the person… But some may deflect honest answers by saying the usual like,” good looks, sense of humor”. Etc.

12) Define a truly successful relationship
An ideal answer would be one where both men and women share responsibility/credit for success.

13) What happened with your relationship?
You can look for danger signs like blaming and whining rather than owning up half the responsibility for the doomed relationship, which reveals a lot about the person’s nature.

Here are some unique, fun and good questions to ask on your first date:

14) What were your life changing moments?

15) What is the weirdest thing about you?

16) Are you cheap or thrifty?

17) Which is the one book that has really impressed you?

18) Would you have plastic surgery done on your body?

19) What was your most embarrassing moment?

And

20) Tell me about your family/ best friend?

These are some good questions to break the ice on your first date and lead you to possibly a second, third and more dates. After a few dates, the conversation will flow smoothly!!
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**annshan2** · 03-21-2007, 06:44 PM

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