ILP Have a DearK delimma...sigh....

**annshan2** · 04-01-2007, 05:18 PM

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**ILP** · 04-01-2007, 05:34 PM

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Yes man...N have one neddah gyal daht gaw ah im High School pregnant and im leavin fah di Army [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] ....sarry das not funny [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/blush.gif[/img]

Ahem...

Anyway...mi nuh even boddah laugh inna T face as mi saddened by the fact that she doesnt even see how pathetic she is. Mi juss beg har nuh fi let Babygirl A see har slackness. But how can I be sure, kids are very intellegent, especially Babygirl A. Dem can pickup all kinna tings daht wi nuh tink dem know. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bubble.gif[/img]

Anyway, time pass and it is getting to be the summer. As usual Babygirl A spends a lot of time with me. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bannana_purple.gif[/img] This particular summer, I had to go to England with my dad to look for his brother (family tings). Anyway, T said I could take Babygirl A with me to England, she also said I could take her to Ja as usual. So Babygirl A and ILP are off for the summer [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70371-jump.gif[/img][img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bannana_purple.gif[/img][img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70371-jump.gif[/img]

Summers are way to short...man. Boy did ILP and Babygirl A have fun. Mi gwine post (another time) how wi both got chased out of Holy Trinity Church in Stratford-Upon-Avon for taking pictures of Shakespeares grave [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] Anyway....

School is back in session and T called to say that she doesnt know if she can send Babygirl A back to soccer for the season. She is short on money [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] mi ask har how? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img] I mean she worked and the summer is where she get all kinna overtime at the Aquatics Center. Mi know cah mi use to wuk volunteer fah dem. She said she hadnt been feeling well so she didnt work the last few weeks of the summer. She is short on money, with all the other bills. Blah, Blah... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]

Mi ask is how much Soccer cost ahn mi juss pay it cah Babygirl A love di soccer and she have how much friend daht she play wid.

We get into October ahn I am back at T's house picking up Babygirl A for soccer and mi ah look pon T really hard [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/agood.gif[/img] she look tired and run dung and she seem to put on more weight dan before. Memba she did put on bout 75 pounds already. But mi nuh mention nuttin. Anyway, dis gwan fah bout 2 more weeks (di sick run dung ting). When me finally ask T strait up wah di hell wrang wid har.

Mi seh.... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/shocked.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/shocked.gif[/img] faint weh....

**damask** · 04-01-2007, 05:41 PM

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Don't tell me she is preggy [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img]

**Shine_Eye_Girl** · 04-01-2007, 05:47 PM

Re: ILP Have a DearK delimma...sigh....

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: iluvportland</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Yes man...N have one neddah gyal daht gaw ah im High School pregnant and im leavin fah di Army [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] ....sarry das not funny [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/blush.gif[/img]

Ahem...

Anyway...mi nuh even boddah laugh inna T face as mi saddened by the fact that she doesnt even see how pathetic she is. Mi juss beg har nuh fi let Babygirl A see har slackness. But how can I be sure, kids are very intellegent, especially Babygirl A. Dem can pickup all kinna tings daht wi nuh tink dem know. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bubble.gif[/img]

Anyway, time pass and it is getting to be the summer. As usual Babygirl A spends a lot of time with me. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bannana_purple.gif[/img] This particular summer, I had to go to England with my dad to look for his brother (family tings). Anyway, T said I could take Babygirl A with me to England, she also said I could take her to Ja as usual. So Babygirl A and ILP are off for the summer [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70371-jump.gif[/img][img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bannana_purple.gif[/img][img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70371-jump.gif[/img]

Summers are way to short...man. Boy did ILP and Babygirl A have fun. Mi gwine post (another time) how wi both got chased out of Holy Trinity Church in Stratford-Upon-Avon for taking pictures of Shakespeares grave [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] Anyway....

School is back in session and T called to say that she doesnt know if she can send Babygirl A back to soccer for the season. She is short on money [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] mi ask har how? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img] I mean she worked and the summer is where she get all kinna overtime at the Aquatics Center. Mi know cah mi use to wuk volunteer fah dem. She said she hadnt been feeling well so she didnt work the last few weeks of the summer. She is short on money, with all the other bills. Blah, Blah... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]

Mi ask is how much Soccer cost ahn mi juss pay it cah Babygirl A love di soccer and she have how much friend daht she play wid.

We get into October ahn I am back at T's house picking up Babygirl A for soccer and mi ah look pon T really hard [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/agood.gif[/img] she look tired and run dung and she seem to put on more weight dan before. Memba she did put on bout 75 pounds already. But mi nuh mention nuttin. Anyway, dis gwan fah bout 2 more weeks (di sick run dung ting). When me finally ask T strait up wah di hell wrang wid har.

Mi seh.... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/shocked.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/shocked.gif[/img] faint weh.... </div></div>

Look yah nuh ILP....don mek mi an yu hav nuttin enoh....[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/fight.gif[/img]

Come wid di ress ah di tory nuh man...... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/popcorn.gif[/img]

**Pepper** · 04-01-2007, 05:48 PM

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**ILP** · 04-01-2007, 05:52 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Pepper</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/popcorn.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/popcorn.gif[/img] </div></div>

Pepper you bring enough fah mi ahn you [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70365-flirt.gif[/img]

**annshan2** · 04-01-2007, 05:53 PM

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**ILP** · 04-01-2007, 06:22 PM

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ilp get up back fram di floor. di current mr. ilp bring har some smellin salts.....

Lawd mi head a hot mi....

T pregnant again..... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img] i mean.... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img]
mi ask fah who cah mi did sure seh N did lef fah Boot Camp. T seh is fah N. It happen after im did come back from Boot Camp and was on leave before he went to his 1st duty station. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] Mi had was to ask har if it was di sed N daht have one neddah baby already. Di sed one weh give har PID, di said one weh im mother threaten fi call di police [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] Ah di sed one [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img] she said

T went on to explain that she was tired because she was spending all her time trying to "get in contact with N, so that I can let him know about the baby" [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70361-embarassed.gif[/img] "but I am having a hard time". Mi ask har what she was going to do. She said she wasnt sure, as she wanted N to have a say. I will admit that the jury is still out on ILP with that one as I dont think N should have had a say. Di current mr. ilp seh daht is mi next mistake. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smirk.gif[/img] daht of course N should get a say. Onnu tink di current mr. ilp right about daht?

Anyway, she frantics, she going to all the doctors appointments, she is hardly working at the Aquatics Center. She is taking prenatal vitamins. Bills are really starting to pile up. Her phone got disconnected by the phone company. When I went to pay the bill (yes...I know...I am [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70392-silly.gif[/img] ) mi did [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/scareyuh.gif[/img] fi hear how much it was, so mi neva pay daht one. It never take long (a month maybe) for T to call me from her home to give me a new number. When I looked on the caller ID the phone number had Babygirl A's name on it [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bexbad.gif[/img] (Mi gwine come back to that in one minute [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] )

Anyway, shortly after the phone is back on, T calls me to ask advice on what she should say to N when he comes to see her. Mi seh wah, N coming home already? Apparently, she is all excited because N got sent home to handle his "family issues" after T called his commanding officer about her being pregnant. Mi woulda ring har dyam neck if mi di him, but is not so. I told T I had no advice to give. All that I ask is that she doesnt let Babygirl A hear anything. I even offered to take her until the "convo" was over. She said it wasnt necessary, she would do it while Babygirl A was in school.

N arrives later that week and the convo went like how all convos with T go when it comes to baby's. She got told where to go and how to get there [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img] T was really upset about this one. I mean she was really rocked to the core over this...I really could NOT understand it. I mean this was a young boy. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/crazy.gif[/img] She was crying and all. I can only imagine what she expected.

Anyway, T decided to have abortion #2. She asked me again if I could go with her. I said no. I volunteered to take Babygirl A, while she did the deed. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img]

End of Part II.....soon come mi tyad now [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img]

**mella72** · 04-01-2007, 06:44 PM

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ILP mi a look a best friend like yu so mi can go live carefree life... yu a enabler ILP ....

wha yu husband say about you helping paying so much bills, mi husbsnd would a dun have a million fit already.

**CeaBee** · 04-01-2007, 06:46 PM

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oh i can answer that question for ilp...she noh have noh husband

dats why she call har man "di <u>current</u> mr. ilp

**annshan2** · 04-01-2007, 06:58 PM

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dis ya wukless gal nu hear bout condom, mi tink a she get pregnant pon spite fi see if de bwoy wi stay wid har

**Gen** · 04-01-2007, 07:05 PM

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I don't see where he should have a say...if she insists on NOT using protection then mek she galang have abortion and mash up har baddy [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]

I wouldn't go as far as to say that ILP is an enabler...if BabyA was not in the picture, then yes she would be an enabler..but ILP has bonded with the little girl and is not like she can tun har back pan the likkle girl's "wellbeing" ..and that si where I would be torn

Who knows what kinda foolishness T a gwaan wid in front a the likkle girl and mi pray she nuh pick up har ways [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70384-praying.gif[/img]

By the way ILP mi know smaddy like that we tek out card/phone and every striking ting using dem pickne SS#..so when the pickney dem get big dem credit sheg up \0/

**ILP** · 04-01-2007, 07:07 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: millee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">ILP mi a look a best friend like yu so mi can go live carefree life... yu a enabler ILP ....
wha yu husband say about you helping paying so much bills, mi husbsnd would a dun have a million fit already. </div></div>

mi hear wah you seh millee. mi tink das what di current mr ilp mean when im keep pointin out what im feel is di mistakes mi have made along the way.

btw: di current mr ilp is not my husband...

**ILP** · 04-01-2007, 07:10 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Geneva</div><div class="ubbcode-body">By the way ILP mi know smaddy like that we tek out card/phone and every striking ting using dem pickne SS#..so when the pickney dem get big dem credit sheg up \0/ </div></div>

mi seh G dis is where mi is wid tings...mi neva want to fas forward too much inna di part III (as mi nuh begin daht part yet), but Babygirl A credit salt [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img] already.

**Hush Darlin** · 04-01-2007, 07:35 PM

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mi tink is my time fe bring the popcorn now
so here goes

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