ILP Have a DearK delimma...sigh....

**ILP** · 04-01-2007, 10:19 PM

Re: ILP Have a DearK delimma...sigh....

OK mi break finish...

OK so T interested inna dis new [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70377-loveeyes.gif[/img] but she wont admit it. ILP just prays that she isnt doing her [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70374-lipsrsealed.gif[/img] in front of Babygirl A. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70384-praying.gif[/img] T doesnt talk much about [email protected] and she doesnt talk much about her activities at the swingers club, which is a good thing in my book. I think all is "OK"...no major habaloos, right? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

Mmm, suh oonu tink, eei?

Over dinner many months later with Babygirl A (who is now getting ready to enter high school), mi hear Babygirl A refer to [email protected] as "uncle"... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70374-lipsrsealed.gif[/img] Now mi is [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bexbad.gif[/img] fi real. Di current mr. ilp seh mi shouldan bizness wid daht, but mi couldan help it. I mean wah mek [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] Is backwuds smaddy mi hear refer to dem S/O as Aunt & Uncle fi real.

Mi sarry, but mi did haffi ask T point blank wah di "uncle" ting was about. She explain that is was no big deal, she and [email protected] was just "kickin it". Mi did haffi ask har wah "kickin it" mean. She mek mi figga daht one out [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] mi point blank tell har daht she did dead wrang fi have dis man inna har house wid Babygirl A, while she was "kickin it" and that she was setting no kind of example. Ahn daht she was dyam nasty and irresponsible. She assured me that Babygirl A didnt know everything about her escapades with [email protected] but she did "talk" to Babygirl A about it. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]

Mi gawd [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] Ah di crucial age dis enuh, di crucial age [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img]

Mi ask if [email protected] did still have the girlfriend that I met. All now T nuh ansa. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]

mi gawn fi eat some ghirardelli chocolate...mi tink mi deserve some right now.

**Shine_Eye_Girl** · 04-01-2007, 10:28 PM

Re: ILP Have a DearK delimma...sigh....

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: iluvportland</div><div class="ubbcode-body">OK mi break finish...

OK so T interested inna dis new [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70377-loveeyes.gif[/img] but she wont admit it. ILP just prays that she isnt doing her [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70374-lipsrsealed.gif[/img] in front of Babygirl A. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70384-praying.gif[/img] T doesnt talk much about [email protected] and she doesnt talk much about her activities at the swingers club, which is a good thing in my book. I think all is "OK"...no major habaloos, right? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

Mmm, suh oonu tink, eei?

Over dinner many months later with Babygirl A (who is now getting ready to enter high school), mi hear Babygirl A refer to [email protected] as "uncle"... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70374-lipsrsealed.gif[/img] No mi is [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bexbad.gif[/img] fi real. Di current mr. ilp seh mi shouldan bizness wid daht, but mi couldan help it. I mean wah mek [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] Is backwuds smaddy mi hear refer to dem S/O as Aunt & Uncle fi real.

Mi sarry, but mi did haffi ask T point blank wah di "uncle" ting was about. She explain that is was no big deal, she and [email protected] was just "kickin it". Mi did haffi ask har wah "kickin it" mean. She mek mi figga daht one out [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] mi point blank tell har daht she did dead wrang fi have dis man inna har house wid Babygirl A, while she was "kickin it" and that she was setting no kind of example. Ahn daht she was dyam nasty and irresponsible. She assured me that Babygirl A didnt know everything about her escapades with [email protected] but she did "talk" to Babygirl A about it. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]

Mi gawd [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] Ah di crucial age dis enuh, di crucial age [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img]

Mi ask if [email protected] did still have the girlfriend that I met. All now T nuh ansa. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]

mi gawn fi eat some ghirardelli chocolate...mi tink mi deserve some right now. </div></div>

Yu deserve 2 [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/fight.gif[/img]

Yu tek so lang fi come wid di story an now yu wan guh pan break....yu nuh easy......

**kia027** · 04-01-2007, 10:34 PM

Re: ILP Have a DearK delimma...sigh....

from wha mi read mi kinda have a feeling dat wid babygirlA nearing HS the dilemma is huge [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70374-lipsrsealed.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70374-lipsrsealed.gif[/img]

**Jamerican_Gyal** · 04-01-2007, 10:35 PM

Re: ILP Have a DearK delimma...sigh....

But wait, mi must come out of lurkah status fi dis one...

Mi rush and drop off mi blockbuster movie dem, pick up mi dawta from work, in the rain, and rush back and read the next installment, and you deh pon break? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

I understand this is taking a lot out of you telling dis story, so I will just get my [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/popcorn.gif[/img] ready fi di next entry.

BTW, you truly have a big heart to be there for Babygirl A all these years - God surely knew she would need your stabilizing presence in her life.

Ok, back to lurking...

**HIMdaughta** · 04-01-2007, 10:37 PM

Re: ILP Have a DearK delimma...sigh....

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TLC_28</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

Yu deserve 2 [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/fight.gif[/img]

Yu tek so lang fi come wid di story an now yu wan guh pan break....yu nuh easy...... </div></div>

Bwoy TLC U not putting down dem gloves for di night huh? You juss finish bax up di bwoy and now ILP. I don't want to be the next victim. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/throwstone.gif[/img]

**Shine_Eye_Girl** · 04-01-2007, 10:41 PM

Re: ILP Have a DearK delimma...sigh....

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: HIMdaughta</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TLC_28</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

Yu deserve 2 [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/fight.gif[/img]

Yu tek so lang fi come wid di story an now yu wan guh pan break....yu nuh easy...... </div></div>

Bwoy TLC U not putting down dem gloves for di night huh? You juss finish bax up di bwoy and now ILP. I don't want to be the next victim. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/throwstone.gif[/img]
</div></div>

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

**ILP** · 04-01-2007, 10:42 PM

Re: ILP Have a DearK delimma...sigh....

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body">from wha mi read mi kinda have a feeling dat wid babygirlA nearing HS the dilemma is huge [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70374-lipsrsealed.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70374-lipsrsealed.gif[/img] </div></div>

yes Kia...das what a pop mi heart sting as mi a type dis. Babygirl A...lawd mi [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] ahn [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70384-praying.gif[/img] to gawd enuh? Mi will neva undastand why gawd let some people have children. Mi sarry, mi soon get cuss by smaddy, but mi juss haffi seh wah mi feel. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70361-embarassed.gif[/img]

Aye sah...gone go finish eat mi chocolate dem.

**Bandana** · 04-01-2007, 11:46 PM

Re: ILP Have a DearK delimma...sigh....

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: iluvportland</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> When I looked on the caller ID the phone number had Babygirl A's name on it [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bexbad.gif[/img] (Mi gwine come back to that in one minute [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] )

</div></div>

OH NO!!! [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/shocked.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bexbad.gif[/img]

and another [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bexbad.gif[/img]

gone to read the rest...

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad.gif[/img]

**ILP** · 04-01-2007, 11:58 PM

Re: ILP Have a DearK delimma...sigh....

OK fas forward to bout 2.5 years ago. yes T still inna di swingin club. she is still seein [email protected] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] or so mi guess. mi tell har mi nuh want to hear nuttin bout im. period [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img] Every now ahn den Babygirl A will make some reference to him [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]

T is still at the school and doin part time work at the Aquatics Center. she is still buying things wid credit under Babygirl A's name [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]

Well T got sick at this point. I mean really sick. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img] She developed fibriomialgia (sp?) di fibroid tings. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img] Of course cah T nuh tek tellin ahn she kinna backwuds, she neva seek treatment fah dem till dem did grow inna har ahn she was bleeding profusely one day while she was at work ahn they had to rush her to the hospital via ambulance. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img]

Mi haffi seh that the doctors did a awesome job wid T once she arrived. They were able to take out all of the fibroids and save her uterus (which seemed to be a big deal fah T). Babygirl A did frigten bad cah she neva know what was gwine happen wid har mother and she neva see har muddah inna no hospital [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek.gif[/img]

Babygirl A stayed with me for about 2 weeks, as T was in the hospital that long. It was crazy, but wi made it work. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img] Anyway, di entire time T was in the hospital, mi never saw [email protected] All the errands that needed to be run, I ended up doing, cah [email protected] was no were to be seen [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70456-eyebrows.gif[/img] mi neva ask T bout it cah T did too sick and one of har sisters asked bout him ahn T did look shame [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70361-embarassed.gif[/img] so I left it alone.

Anyway, T is released from the hospital. She is back at home. She is recouping. T has now gone into lost time at work. So money has become an issue again. ILP comes to the rescue again (with the basics...all for Babygirl A's benifit. All di naysayers, nuh boddah mek di comments...mi already know [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70374-lipsrsealed.gif[/img] )

Anyway, T goes back to work. She is getting better. Summer has come and gone. Babygirl A and I went to Peru and hiked the Inca Trail [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bannana_purple.gif[/img] and of course we went to Ja [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70371-jump.gif[/img] School is back in session. The day after Xmas 2005, mi call Babygirl A from Ja to see how xmas was going. She says [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img] you know how teenagers are [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/cool.gif[/img] anyway. I asked how T was doin and she said T was sick with the stomach virus or something. So mi neva pay it no mind ahn mi hang up fram di call.

Mi return fram Ja (dis is 2006) ahn mi call Babygirl A to see how things are going, T ansa di phone instead. Hear she now, "ILP, mi have someting fi tell you but pleeezzeee nuh tell anybody. I mean I dont want anyone to know. Not your mother, sisters, Babygirl A, no one."

Mi seh...what is dis now gawd... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/shocked.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/shocked.gif[/img]

**Hush Darlin** · 04-01-2007, 11:58 PM

Re: ILP Have a DearK delimma...sigh....

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: iluvportland</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body">from wha mi read mi kinda have a feeling dat wid babygirlA nearing HS the dilemma is huge [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70374-lipsrsealed.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70374-lipsrsealed.gif[/img] </div></div>

yes Kia...das what a pop mi heart sting as mi a type dis. Babygirl A...lawd mi [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] ahn [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70384-praying.gif[/img] to gawd enuh? Mi will neva undastand why gawd let some people have children. Mi sarry, mi soon get cuss by smaddy, but mi juss haffi seh wah mi feel. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70361-embarassed.gif[/img]

Aye sah...gone go finish eat mi chocolate dem. </div></div>
a so much chocolate you a nyam
is been more dan an hour u gone eat enno
cho
mek a go back a mi bed yah

**Hush Darlin** · 04-02-2007, 12:01 AM

Re: ILP Have a DearK delimma...sigh....

she dey breed again an she want you fe be de baby godmadda again

**Hush Darlin** · 04-02-2007, 12:01 AM

Re: ILP Have a DearK delimma...sigh....

the daughter must be in her high teens by now

**kia027** · 04-02-2007, 12:02 AM

Re: ILP Have a DearK delimma...sigh....

ok we up to 2006 [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bannana_purple.gif[/img]

soooo come quick or if u need smaddy fi type call mi and mi will type ie up quick quick fi u [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70371-jump.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70371-jump.gif[/img]

**diabolical_Tanya** · 04-02-2007, 12:03 AM

Re: ILP Have a DearK delimma...sigh....

T breed again wah dis abortion 4?

**Hush Darlin** · 04-02-2007, 12:04 AM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Aynat_SlvrTush</div><div class="ubbcode-body">T breed again wah dis abortion 4? </div></div>
no man she neva abort this one

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