ILP Have a DearK delimma...sigh....

[kia027]

Re: ILP Have a DearK delimma...sigh....

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Aynat_SlvrTush</div><div class="ubbcode-body">T breed again wah dis abortion 4? </div></div>

whe u mean .. is only 2 mi count so far..

run gawn read again

[Hush Darlin]

Re: ILP Have a DearK delimma...sigh....

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Aynat_SlvrTush</div><div class="ubbcode-body">T breed again wah dis abortion 4? </div></div>

whe u mean .. is only 2 mi count so far..

run gawn read again </div></div>
memba sey Tanya backwerd so she cant count [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[diabolical_Tanya]

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naw man noh ILP mi spreadsheet have wid a fren dat did do late term abortion..or did want to need to [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] or is smaddie else

[ILP]

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OK...mi sit dung fi hear wah T haffi seh. Mi heart deh beat fas fas, enuh [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] She seh, "ILP, I'm pregnant"

Mi sarry, but di honest truth is daht mi did [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] (OK mi shame now fi daht).

Mi ask har who di faddah was cah mi did prepare fah har to say [email protected] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] but hear she "That's it, I dont know who the father could be" Mi seh wah [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/shocked.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70374-lipsrsealed.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] mi ask har if it smaddy at di swinging club. She have the nerves fi seh, "I am careful at the club" [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img] She goes on to say that she thinks it may be for this guy at the Aquatics Center, it could be for [email protected] but she wasnt sure.

Mi did too disgust. Dis time for real. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] Di current mr. ilp ahn I had been talking about moving in together by this time and we had agreed that we would put my house on the market and begin looking for a house. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/inlove1.gif[/img] While I was on the phone mi hear miself seh, "I'm moving, so you are on your own with this one. You are really sickening T." Mi did [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/shocked.gif[/img] fi hear miself seh it, but mi did [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70361-embarassed.gif[/img] Mi ask har if she nuh shame fi har behavior. If she nuh see daht Babygirl A is now inna high school? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/crybaby.gif[/img] mi was juss too shock ahn disgust.

Anyway, di house sell by the end of that month (January). di current mr ilp ahn I went to closing on this new house 2/27/06 ahn I moved 2/28/06 [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bannana_purple.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/inlove1.gif[/img]

As with all of T's pregnancies [email protected] cussed har and seh di chile was not fi im. Mi fine out daht im was still with the gyal im was dating when mi did first get introduce to him [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] im tell har im neva bizness wah she did wid di pickney cah it wasnt fah im. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] men...eesie? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] di man at di Aquatics Center cussed har too. Him did seh dats wah im did get fi have one night stand. Im life was ova if di chile come out fi im... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] mi figga what im reaction did about.

By March T decided daht she was gwine keep dis baby.... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/dizzy.gif[/img] Mi found out that is August 2006 she was gwine deliver.

oonu can see mi delimma now.... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img]

[CeaBee]

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ummm....no not really....

[kia027]

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but u did tell ar no awreddy bout de godmodda bizness.. is more dan dat now? she want u fi grow de baby fi ar? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/shocked.gif[/img]

[ILP]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body">ummm....no not really.... </div></div>

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img] (((CB)))

[Gen]

Re: ILP Have a DearK delimma...sigh....

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body">but u did tell ar no awreddy bout de godmodda bizness.. is more dan dat now? she want u fi grow de baby fi ar? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/shocked.gif[/img] </div></div>

which part she tell har dat she not gwine be god madda ? oh neva mind if a the same girl den yes mi think a suh it guh [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

[Jamerican_Gyal]

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[Bandana]

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You sure know how to tell a story ilp... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70458-applaud.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/popcorn.gif[/img]

Mi did [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/shocked.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/sick.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img]

The help you give for BabyGirl A makes a huge difference in her life [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/notworthy.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70384-praying.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/notworthy.gif[/img]

I have to go tend to mi pikney now... Be back in a few...

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70384-praying.gif[/img] ilp

I am sure you will know the right way in your own heart when you done tell the story... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img]

[Boopie2]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body">ummm....no not really.... </div></div>

I'm just getting in and I agree with Coolbeans I don't see what you are fretting over. No, I wouldn't be the God mother for this child. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img] Let her help herself out of this mess, some people just don't learn. Sorry, I would have to cut her off at this point. I prayed to God to help me make a decision concerning letting my best friend go. She had changed so much,lies after lies on top of lies. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img]

The exact day that I cut her off it felt like a weight and burden had been lifted from my shoulders and life. Like Mary J. sings about "no more drama" I had reached that point. Emotionally her actions were causing me to be anxious and worried all of the time like she was my child.[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/vomit.gif[/img]

I would continue to be baby girl's Godmother but as far as T and baby number 2. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img]

[ILP]

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Mi cyan believe seh some ah oonu nuh see di dilemma daht is pon di horizon. oonu nuh know Life already?....sigh [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img]

so mi done move in wid di current mr ilp. ahn tings are [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bannana_purple.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70371-jump.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bannana_purple.gif[/img] di summer is coming and T continues to call with "updates" about di new baby (mi will call di baby PT fram now on). Anyway, she would call unda di guise of "just want to let you how Babygirl A is doing" [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] like she did eva do daht before. Like mi nuh get daily text messages fram Babygirl A already [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]

Anyway, T was physically assaulted by one of the kids of [email protected] (yes, das wah mi seh...assaulted), she claims. When she went to let them know she was pregnant wid PT. She got into several screaming matches includin one pon har job [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] wid di girlfriend of cravindiman@address. com [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/cry.gif[/img] Each time she would call me wid di latest di more mi get [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] wid har. Mi juss beg har nuh fi let Babygirl A see any of it. di current mr. ilp seh mi is wrang here cah mi was tryin fi distance miself ahn it was too late, especially after all dis time... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70361-embarassed.gif[/img]

She called a few more times askin me if mi did tink it wise to sit dung wid di girlfriend of [email protected] ahn to have "talk" wid har. Mi juss [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] cah at dis point mi ask har "talk for what? the woman has already let you know her thoughts about you already. she has already approached you on your job." T seh, "I just want her to understand that I didnt do this on purpose." [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70374-lipsrsealed.gif[/img]

You tink T lissen wah mi seh.... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]
Mi soon come....

[Hush Darlin]

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u betta hurry up and come

[Boopie2]

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Yes we do know life well but I'm thinking most of us wouldn't have put up with T's mess for very long. She's not even my friend and I feel exhausted from just reading this. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/fight.gif[/img] She's done everything under the sun and then some. The only things I can think of at this point are.

A. She wants to move in with you and mister
B. She wants to give you the baby to raise
C. She wants you to be the Godmother of the second baby
D. She's found out that she has Aids.


She's the one that should be using the word "dilemma" and after all of her nastiness she shouldn't be able to use this word at all. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img] You have a choice to get off of this "train wreck" at any moment. Delimma shouldn't be in your vocabulary concerning this nasty heffa. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]

[Kimberley24]

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I am being superficial here since size doesn't matter but is T attractive or something, how she manage to sleep with so much men? Or is it a case of they are just using her for sex so it doesn't even matter how she looks?