What did you say and did you share them with each other prior to the ceremony? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/iluvu.gif[/img]
Did you write your own vows?
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Re: Did you write your own vows?
Yes. I wrote my own vows after this man who'd been married for 67 years told me that the main reason why his marriage lasted as long was because he wrote what he FELT about his bride and vowed to live it everyday.
I wrote two paragraphs and memorized it detailing Why I wanted him to be my husband for life, and surprised him with it at the ceremony.
I spoke first and after I was finished there was not a dry eye in the church (I was told and was evident on the video). [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/cool.gif[/img]
He then decided to tell me the same and was BRILLIANT! It has worked for me after being married for 28 yrs and we plan to live happily ever after. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/discosmilie.gif[/img]
Vows written by someone else can't possibly speak YOUR truth can it?
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Re: Did you write your own vows?
(((sistagirl))) [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif[/img]
I had to hunt for the file on an old disk, but reading the words again now-- it seems like just yesterday.....
Take this day we give each other, share it's moments close with me,
Cherish it and make it's meaning, part of all our days to be.
Take this hand I freely offer, hold to it and we'll be strong,
Trust in it, feel safe in knowing, this is right where you belong.
Take this promise that I'm making, keep it always in your heart,
Believe in it through all to come and we will never be apart.
Take this love I gladly give you, build on it and help it grow,
And from it's warm and gentle caring, all our future joys will flow.
Take this life, my life, forever, join with it your life as one,
Share with me, through each tomorrow, this life together we've begun.
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Re: Did you write your own vows?
Awww that is so sweet Rundung and you are right, no vows written by another could express what I need and want to say that day. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70377-loveeyes.gif[/img]
I can imagine the tears all over the place when you got to say your vows.
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Re: Did you write your own vows?
((((Lacy)))) I should have known that you wrote your own vows you are such the writer and all.
Your vows are very beautiful, I remember your stories of your special day many years ago. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img]
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Re: Did you write your own vows?
I wish I had. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] I would have thrown in
(1) Thou shall not let pesky family members move in and only when they start to pluck his nerves they are served their walking papers.
(2) Thou shall be able to cook at least 2 times a week, cause I'm sick of trying to figure out what to buy or cook for dinner. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bexbad.gif[/img]
(3) Thou shall have a electric shock every time he spills something and doesn't clean it up. Turn his hands into a giant sponge and soap to help him along the way. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bannana_purple.gif[/img]
(4) Thou shall have more voltage when his alarm clock goes off way earlier than he's suppose to wake up in the first place. In crease voltage every time he hits the snooze button. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img]
(5) Thou shall not be allowed to have a bleach bottle in his possession. Some way or another it will end up on my colored clothes or new colored towels.
(6) Thou shall not be able to record on the DVR while he's not home. The couple of chances you get to have the plasma for yourself position yourself on the sofa and in the middle of your show the stupid recording button flashes. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img] Meaning you'll have to stomp up the stairs fussing all the way only to miss 10 minutes of your show cause you forgot which channel the freaking show is on. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img]
Maybe in my next life [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/popcorn.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/popcorn.gif[/img]
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Re: Did you write your own vows?
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: phoenix</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I've been thinking about it and when we do the deed next year I have decided to just go for yes or no answers. </div></div>
Yes but what will the questions be? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]
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Re: Did you write your own vows?
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: sistagirl</div><div class="ubbcode-body">BOAL [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] Boopie those are not vows but the 6 commandments! Ha!!!
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