Why????

[diabolical_Tanya]

Daily Love Candy Tips: Don't Go There!
by: Tasha Cunningham, CEO, DontDateHimGirl.com

That cute guy from HR has finally asked you out on a date. Lucky you! Now here are the three subjects to avoid at all costs on that very important first date.

(1) Your Ex - It seems obvious, but you?d be surprised how many people bring up their romantic pasts on a first date. Trust me on this one! You don?t want to bring up and ex on a first date because it may seem to your new cutie that you?re not completely over your ex, since you can?t seem to shut up about him. Save the details on the ex-factor for Date #6, when you?ve gotten to know each other a little better or better yet, wait until he asks you about it.

(2) Your Romantic Escapades - No one wants to hear about that time you bedded <span style="color: #990000">that handsome stranger in Jamaica</span>. A girl should never reveal those things to a potential date lest she be judged and we wouldn?t want that now would we?

(3) Sex - Ladies, you shouldn?t bring up sex on the first date. Play coy if he asks you questions about sex, as well. If sex is the dominant topic on a first date, you want to reexamine what you think his motives are for taking you out.

For more advice on romance and relationships, check out DontDateHimGirl.com today - and get your shop on at the DontDateHimGirl.com Store!

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/crybaby.gif[/img] WHY???? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[Suesumba]

Re: Why????

have you done all those things Anyat? even if smaddy asks about my kids, i steer them clear of the topic, telling them that should things progress they will find out ALL in due time [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/wink.gif[/img]

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: Why????

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">have you done all those things Anyat? even if smaddy asks about my kids, i steer them clear of the topic, telling them that should things progress they will find out ALL in due time [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/wink.gif[/img] </div></div>sue I pretty much disagree with all her points/advice. Can't be bothered with the "play coy" and fake BS. Right up there with ordering salad on a date to make him think you don't eat much. No way not me!

[Kurlie]

Re: Why????

Why Aynat? Why would you do that?

[MarieK]

Re: Why????

why shi shudd'n bring up sex. what if dat is her ultimate goal [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/shocked.gif[/img]

disclaimer: mi nuh rooks pan fuss date an mi nuh lick nobaddy fi force dem fi rooks mi pan fuss date

[Suesumba]

Re: Why????

Anyat, while i'm not gonna order a leaf of lettuce and steer clear of the wine, i'm definitely not gonna reveal too many personal things and definitely nothing of a sexual nature. don't know about you but i get skeeved out when men get sexual too early, even talking. i'm not that special. i don't want to know. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70390-shhh.gif[/img]

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: Why????

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kurlie</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Why Aynat? Why would you do that? </div></div>Why Kurlie? why would I do what?

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: Why????

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Anyat, while i'm not gonna order a leaf of lettuce and steer clear of the wine, i'm definitely not gonna reveal too many personal things and definitely nothing of a sexual nature. don't know about you but i get skeeved out when men get sexual too early, even talking. i'm not that special. i don't want to know. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70390-shhh.gif[/img] </div></div> Oh trust me, I am not advocating personal revelations, I'm just saying the being fake and pretending to be what you are not is icky. Clearly DDHG's article is geared towards younger women or more naive women or perhaps [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/crybaby.gif[/img] women who are just not me check see if mi still have di assetts [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[Suesumba]

Re: Why????

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Aynat</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Clearly DDHG's article is geared towards younger women or more naive women or perhaps [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/crybaby.gif[/img] women who are just not me check see if mi still have di assetts </div></div>

they are marketing to their demographics. as evidenced by this winner here:

"He was born in Georgetown, Guyana. He is a cross between Portuguese, Black and Indian. He lives with his grandmother in Parkdale (crack town) in downtown Toronto. He smokes weed, cigarettes on occasion, beats women, cheats, steals and has a drinking/gambling problem all of which he lies about to his family and multiple girlfriends.

He met me at school and pursued me nonstop. We dated for 2 years. He had asked me to have his child, move in with him, and be his wife throughout the relationship and I wouldn't allow it. I've had 2 abortions for him, both of which he forced me to have. He has been to jail for aggravated assault and was bailed by his father who he lied to about nearly ending my life. I just wanted to get out and he wouldn't have it so he locked me up and tortured me in my bedroom. I was pregnant at the time and lost the baby shortly after.

I tried to end the relationship on several occasions. I finally got my chance when he illegally went to the states with a couple of buddies to sell drugs. He is now vacationing in California talking to a girl named Amanda and a girl named Sarah. All of this he tells me via text message as he plays them. From what he says, he has no respect for both of them.


I will give birth to our son in August. A son he denies. What kind of guy denies his unborn child? Surprising. I have the phone calls and text messages to prove he's full of crap. All lies are revealed in time. When he's found out, his family and the girls he's playing now will be quite shocked. Any girl who thinks he's a faithful, sweet, and handsome guy is so wrong. I'VE SEEN EVERY SIDE OF HIM AND BELIEVE ME THERE'S WAY BETTER! He might be gay so..use protection."




clearly a lot of these women are either REALLLLY young, but judging from the amount of 50-60 year old men i see profiled there i doubt it, or really gullible women.