Alright peeps, what unno think I should do....???

[Bandana]

Re: Alright peeps, what unno think I should do....???

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smirk.gif[/img] </div></div>

Come with the advice Nunya, mi ready [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img]

[jaith]

Re: Alright peeps, what unno think I should do....???

i think you should pull a boundbrook on him....beat the living poop right outa him

[jaith]

Re: Alright peeps, what unno think I should do....???

hey....poop ain't censored!!!! [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[ILP]

Re: Alright peeps, what unno think I should do....???

OK...mi nuh play daht atall. Im is dyam renk ahn outa ardah [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]
if im gwine flirt and mek comments im muss say dem in front of his wife [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img]

mi wouldan say anyting to im wife, but mi not gwine to be alone wid im eidah. Some women mek tings like daht di "innocent" woman fault when dem ketch dem husband.

[swedishrasta]

Re: Alright peeps, what unno think I should do....???

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[R00TS]

Re: Alright peeps, what unno think I should do....???

I think you oughta tell im "You been giving me the impression that you whore around on my friend" "dam,never would
have thought it man" [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img]

[Yvonne N.]

Re: Alright peeps, what unno think I should do....???

Tell him that his cutesy comments are making you uncomfortable and that yu'd prefer if he not make them.

Who knows, Janice may be watching you out of the corner of her eye as he may have already told her that he 'feels' that you are coming on to him.

Sometimes people use strange methods to perk up a marriage. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

[sistacaf]

Re: Alright peeps, what unno think I should do....???

oh hay ole yeh, that is Flirting

Just SO, as miss ILP said.

if it was just some innocent goofy fun [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] he woulnd't be sayin them kinda things 'only' when is you two alone.

yuh nah see how him keepin it "just" this side of "serious" .... like him not "really" messin wit yuh,,,,,,, so if him do get ketch him can say "oh gosh I was just makin joke" - ??

watch out for that one bandulu. Dem kine is the WUSTESSSESSESSSSSST ones cause they are sneaky and manipulative and and cover dem behine and will make your behine look like the wrong one. Dem is the ones whose wives are always running after single women wit the machete hollerin about "stayu stay away fram my man u witch!" - when really it was hubby instigatin the whole thing.

yes, you could mek sure to never be alone with him, not even with kids in the room; i mean not with you and he the only 2 adults in a de room. If yuh fine yuhself in that setup, walk inna the other room immediately. i could suggest that, but why mus YOU be uncomfortable and feel like you must constantly have to be avoiding something? HE's the one with no behaviour, not you. why must you now haffi burden yuh mind with figuring out how to fix a situation caused by HIM?

If it was me I would want to keep my own personal space and well-being free and clear, and not ever haf to give one thought to a situation like that. I would begin to feel like saying "EWW!" any time i was over there, and you don't want that. You mussi nip it in the bud.

if it was me, next time he made a lil remark like that I would address it right there, to his face; and say somehting like: "Jerry, we're friends and I respect that, because I know i can talk straight up to you. I dont think this is funny and I am asking nicely that you don't joke like that around me, please, and thanks." Or something to that effect. Now me being me, I might also add that it's an insult both to me AND to Janice. don't know if you wanna go there, but I sure would. (but that's my own personal pet peeve - the married men who mussi think I am some kinda dawg. They must, if they think i'm gonna get with them, behind them wife's back, i mean do they actually think it's some kind of [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] compliment to me, when they do that??? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img] EEEDIATS - but sorry, i digress)

he may be testing the waters to see if you goh bite - so you be pro-active and make sure he knows with his first little tries that homie do NOT play that...... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img]

[Phatty]

Re: Alright peeps, what unno think I should do....???

Just avoid him as much as possible. And ignore his remarks because if he has a pinch of dignity left he will shut up.
I used to have a best friend until her boyfriend kept on hitting on me and making flirty remarks. When I told him I didn't feel comfortable it became more intense. With that I went to my "friend" and told her, but, I turned into the jealous b****. So the farthest i'd go dear is confronting him about his remarks. Let him know you feel uneasy.

[sistacaf]

Re: Alright peeps, what unno think I should do....???

well IMHO, 'avoiding' is a burden she should not have to bear.

it's not HER problem that HE cannot act right; she should be free to not feel any way.

he must back off, and act like a respectful, respectable man figads sake. Bandido should not have to lower herself to his high-school behavior and have to avoid him like "Ooooh, Sally, can I use your locker today so Joey doesn't see me after school?". nah man, that is juvenile

[Nanook]

Re: Alright peeps, what unno think I should do....???

I was bartending for a husband wife owner years ago and the husband started hitting on me like that. It was so creepy and uncomfortable and finally when he followed me into the liquor room once and got too close I just told him if he EVER came near me again I'd tell his wife. It stopped right away. Well, I think it did. About 2 weeks later the place mysteriously burned to the ground.

[JM1]

Re: Alright peeps, what unno think I should do....???

You are not this first and you won't be the last. There is no way to "fix" this situation. He is not going to leave you alone and you will be blamed, somehow, when the dolly house mash up. Any way yuh tun makka juck yuh...Nothing good can come out of this.

You're going to have to cut them off and stop going around there.

[Gen]

Re: Alright peeps, what unno think I should do....???

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: JM1</div><div class="ubbcode-body">You are not this first and you won't be the last. There is no way to "fix" this situation. He is not going to leave you alone and you will be blamed, somehow, when the dolly house mash up. Any way yuh tun makka juck yuh...Nothing good can come out of this.

You're going to have to cut them off and stop going around there. </div></div>


my sentiments exactly. No way around it and I HATE being uncomfortable suh mi woulda juss tek mi pickney and galang bout mi business. (right after I kick out 2 a him teet cause essentially what the jancrow did was juss mess up the whole chemistry in the business relationship they all have as well as mess up her daycare situation [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad.gif[/img])

I don't know why some men think it's cool to do that crap. I don't find it flattering more like insulting, but thankfully I haven't had that happen to me in a longggggggg time.

[Bandana]

Re: Alright peeps, what unno think I should do....???

Hey sistacaf, thanks for the response, I feel the same way...

Is how him mek joke out of it, see if I'll bite [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad.gif[/img] I was thinking the same thing as you, next comment I am saying something..

And you are right I should not be put into this situation, I almost said something with the last "you're cute" comment but I was shocked, and also Janice is right in the next room [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/shocked.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]

I did not know how to handle it...

I want to be better prepared next time...

I have so many reasons why it would be hard to just grab up my pikney and find another place... All the stress I went through last month showed me how much Janice does for me...

Now Jerry try fi ruin it [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad.gif[/img]


Phatty that is a scary thought... I would hope if it comes to that, Janice will know it's not me... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek.gif[/img]


<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">About 2 weeks later the place mysteriously burned to the ground. </div></div>

Remind me never to mek Nanook mad [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img]

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JM1 why are you so sure that he's not going to leave me alone? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

Maybe if I just tell him that I feel uncomfortable and would never do anything to jeapordise someones marriage, let alone my day care situation that I am very thankfull for. That I wish he would just stop with the comments.... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img]


Geneva You feel mi!!!??? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/crybaby.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bexbad.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/crybaby.gif[/img]

[JM1]

Re: Alright peeps, what unno think I should do....???

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">JM1 why are you so sure that he's not going to leave me alone?</div></div>

Because I am a man.