Alright peeps, what unno think I should do....???

[Bandana]

Re: Alright peeps, what unno think I should do....???

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: JM1</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">JM1 why are you so sure that he's not going to leave me alone?</div></div>

Because I am a man. </div></div>

I'm sorry.

[Nanook]

Re: Alright peeps, what unno think I should do....???

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> Quote:
About 2 weeks later the place mysteriously burned to the ground.


Remind me never to mek Nanook mad
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NOOOOO Bandi.....not me....HIM! It was midnight and the band was playing and sudddenly the power kicks out. On the biggest night he had so far. And a little while later he came creeping up from teh basement. We all left around 2am and the place went poof
Everyone thinks he did it. He was an all around worm kinda guy, yuk.

Anyway...you could just tell this jerk what you think of his ways and how she is your friend and what not and he might stop hitting on you. The problem for your friend is...he would just go hit on someone else sooner or later.

[Bandana]

Re: Alright peeps, what unno think I should do....???

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nanook</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> NOOOOO Bandi.....not me....HIM! It was midnight and the band was playing and sudddenly the power kicks out. On the biggest night he had so far. And a little while later he came creeping up from teh basement. We all left around 2am and the place went poof
Everyone thinks he did it. He was an all around worm kinda guy, yuk.</div></div>

I know you would not do that Nanook [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] it just sounded funny the way you said it [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nanook</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
Anyway...you could just tell this jerk what you think of his ways and how she is your friend and what not and he might stop hitting on you. The problem for your friend is...he would just go hit on someone else sooner or later. </div></div>

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[Nanook]

Re: Alright peeps, what unno think I should do....???

when all else fails kick im where it hurts hehehe [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[applepie]

Re: Alright peeps, what unno think I should do....???

You need to say something to him and find another daycare.

[julie*mango]

Re: Alright peeps, what unno think I should do....???

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: sistacaf</div><div class="ubbcode-body">oh hay ole yeh, that is Flirting

Just SO, as miss ILP said.

if it was just some innocent goofy fun [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] he woulnd't be sayin them kinda things 'only' when is you two alone.

yuh nah see how him keepin it "just" this side of "serious" .... like him not "really" messin wit yuh,,,,,,, so if him do get ketch him can say "oh gosh I was just makin joke" - ??

watch out for that one bandulu. Dem kine is the WUSTESSSESSESSSSSST ones cause they are sneaky and manipulative and and cover dem behine and will make your behine look like the wrong one. Dem is the ones whose wives are always running after single women wit the machete hollerin about "stayu stay away fram my man u witch!" - when really it was hubby instigatin the whole thing.

yes, you could mek sure to never be alone with him, not even with kids in the room; i mean not with you and he the only 2 adults in a de room. If yuh fine yuhself in that setup, walk inna the other room immediately. i could suggest that, but why mus YOU be uncomfortable and feel like you must constantly have to be avoiding something? HE's the one with no behaviour, not you. why must you now haffi burden yuh mind with figuring out how to fix a situation caused by HIM?

If it was me I would want to keep my own personal space and well-being free and clear, and not ever haf to give one thought to a situation like that. I would begin to feel like saying "EWW!" any time i was over there, and you don't want that. You mussi nip it in the bud.

if it was me, next time he made a lil remark like that I would address it right there, to his face; and say somehting like: "Jerry, we're friends and I respect that, because I know i can talk straight up to you. I dont think this is funny and I am asking nicely that you don't joke like that around me, please, and thanks." Or something to that effect. Now me being me, I might also add that it's an insult both to me AND to Janice. don't know if you wanna go there, but I sure would. (but that's my own personal pet peeve - the married men who mussi think I am some kinda dawg. They must, if they think i'm gonna get with them, behind them wife's back, i mean do they actually think it's some kind of [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] compliment to me, when they do that??? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img] EEEDIATS - but sorry, i digress)

he may be testing the waters to see if you goh bite - so you be pro-active and make sure he knows with his first little tries that homie do NOT play that...... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img] </div></div>


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[swedishrasta]

Re: Alright peeps, what unno think I should do....???

((((B)))))

This is a sticky situation...sorry that you are going through this. I just wanted to agree with what JM1 said....he might not leave you alone. Look at the fool that has been chasing me for 3 years now with wife and two pickneys. What makes him believe that I would ever go for that drama is beyond me. Idiot!

[ReggaeGirl2000]

Re: Alright peeps, what unno think I should do....???

What he is doing/saying is wrong... so I'd tell him, take him aside and say someting like "I don't appreciate your hidden agenda and if you don't stop I will tell the wifey".

[JM1]

Re: Alright peeps, what unno think I should do....???

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">"...if you don't stop I will tell the wifey."</div></div>

She knows already.

[Bandana]

Re: Alright peeps, what unno think I should do....???

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: JM1</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">"...if you don't stop I will tell the wifey."</div></div>

She knows already. </div></div>


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She watched Imanni on Tuesday so I could go see Greogry (who canceled) and Tuesday morning when I droped Imanni off Jerry was there...

As I am leaving she says don't do anything too bad or something, and I said: Nah, me??? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img] I am an angel remember [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img]

She says: Oh, those are the WORST kind [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smirk.gif[/img]
He Says: No those are the BEST kind [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/shocked.gif[/img]

Right in front of her.....

Now he has been upstairs every day when I come to get my son [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

[Bandana]

Re: Alright peeps, this ish is still happening!!!

I am so fed up with this guy!! [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bexbad.gif[/img]


About a month ago I called to say I would be a little late picking up Imanni, and Janice told me her husband would be there, but she had to go to a doc. apt. *sigh* ok, I will get there A.S.A.P. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img]


Just as I am entering the town I call to say I will be there in a couple minutes...

Jerry answred the phone:

"Hello"

"Hi it's Danna I am almost there"

"Where have you been?"

"I had something to take care of after work, I called Janice to say I'd be late"

"No worries, I just miss you" [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/shocked.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]

"Look Jerry I don't know what you mean by those kind of comments, but you have been saying things like that a lot lately, and it makes me uncomfortable, would you please stop"

"Sorry"

"I will be there to get Imanni in a few minutes"



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So we hang up, I go get my son. He does not say a word about the conversation, and neither do I [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]


Then there were 2 weeks where Imanni stayed home with his Dad because Janice was ill...


Now he has been back with Janice one week, and the ish start up again [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img]

[BlessedLadyOfZion]

Re: Alright peeps, this ish is still happening!!!

record it and play it fe de wife

[BlessedLadyOfZion]

Re: Alright peeps, this ish is still happening!!!

wondering how cums mi dis a ketch dis thread [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

[julie*mango]

Re: Alright peeps, this ish is still happening!!!

if it makes u uncomfortable and you can afford to, by all means find another sitter.

[CeaBee]

Re: Alright peeps, this ish is still happening!!!

lawks (((Bandi))))

me noh know what fi tell u cause is not like u noh seh nuttin to him..

me memba JM saying that the man would probably not stop, look like him might be right [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img]