Alright peeps, what unno think I should do....???

[BlessedLadyOfZion]

Re: Alright peeps, this ish is still happening!!!

I think the main reason she still a deal with it is cause of Janice (the sitter) dealing with her and Imanni pretty well.

[Gen]

Re: Alright peeps, this ish is still happening!!!

yes Bandy did mention that Janice did an awesome job taking care of her son and to find another in home situation is iffy AND centers were very expensive.

still smaddy need fi just tun round and gie jerrry one rhatid bax mek him flattah weh

[BlessedLadyOfZion]

Re: Alright peeps, this ish is still happening!!!

Let babydaddy dweet

[Bandana]

Re: Alright peeps, this ish is still happening!!!

Yes Cools [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img] JM1 did say that [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img]

JM1 come back and tell me what to say fi get the man to leff mi [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/crybaby.gif[/img]


Yes the reasons I have not moved Imanni to another day care are many...

Janice is AWSOME with him and with me... she tek him late, she tek him early, she charge me half of what the daycare centers do, she feed the boy and me too sometimes... I really love her, but Jerry bout fi get bax dung [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad.gif[/img]


Mi soon come back with the latest ish from him [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad.gif[/img]

[BlessedLadyOfZion]

Re: Alright peeps, this ish is still happening!!!

So why yuh nuh mek Imanni dad deal wid him case??

If that don't work, then take Imanni somewhere else.

Or maybe yuh like de likkle attn more time :shameu

[julie*mango]

Re: Alright peeps, this ish is still happening!!!

You should you tell him the same thing you been telling him, tape him, take it home, make a copy, give it to a trusted friend for safekeeping. When him do it again play it back and tell him you have several copies in an undisclosed location and you will have it played for his wife during your loooong conversation. And tell him to call your bluff. Dare him.

[Seveen]

Re: Alright peeps, this ish is still happening!!!

i say just continue to diss him

if you tell the wife - she's gonna blame you

if you mess with him - he's gonna tell the wife you're after him

there's no way you can win

[Gen]

Re: Alright peeps, this ish is still happening!!!

quite frankly mi wouldan leff cause mi nuh have patience fi this. but I understand why she still there , it nuh easy fi find people fi leff yuh pickney wid weh yuh trust.

and who knows Jerry could be a certified nut deep down.

I would just start asking around and leave.

[BlessedLadyOfZion]

Re: Alright peeps, this ish is still happening!!!

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Just_Skelly</div><div class="ubbcode-body">You should you tell him the same thing you been telling him, tape him, take it home, make a copy, give it to a trusted friend for safekeeping. When him do it again play it back and tell him you have several copies in an undisclosed location and you will have it played for his wife during your loooong conversation. And tell him to call your bluff. Dare him. </div></div>sopranos get to yuh [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[swedishrasta]

Re: Alright peeps, this ish is still happening!!!

Ditto what Seveen said.

Babydaddy deal with this.....[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] THAT would be something!!!!!!


Personally, I would be fed up and I would probably tell the dude off not too nicely b/c he didn't get it when you told him nicely and unfortunately.....perhaps look into getting another care situation for Imanni. (I have a feeling and it's getting stronger that this is not the first time this idiot acts this way and the wife for whatever reason choses to not address it, ignore it or perhaps she is clueless and doesn't see it).


[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img] Bandy....

[Suesumba]

Re: Alright peeps, this ish is still happening!!!

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Seveen</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i say just continue to diss him

if you tell the wife - she's gonna blame you

if you mess with him - he's gonna tell the wife you're after him

there's no way you can win </div></div>

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there's nothing i can add.

[Gen]

Re: Alright peeps, this ish is still happening!!!

a who really a guh waan guh choo this pan a daily basis wid this dutty bway ? him juss sound like him teet dem yellow too. kissteet.

[DearK]

Re: Alright peeps, this ish is still happening!!!

I would probably say something w/ them both in the room- along the lines of 'your husband is an old school flirt/talks a good game' or 'i can see the silver tongue that got you 2 together'... just so he knows you dont take him seriously, but you're also not protecting him...

Maybe also mention an intimate relationship when you know he is in earshot.

[Seveen]

Re: Alright peeps, this ish is still happening!!!

hopefully continued rejection will calm him down - rejection via no conversation, minimal contact

[DearK]

Re: Alright peeps, this ish is still happening!!!

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Geneva</div><div class="ubbcode-body">a who really a guh waan guh choo this pan a daily basis wid this dutty bway ? him juss sound like him teet dem yellow too. kissteet.

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