Alright peeps, what unno think I should do....???

[Bandana]

Re: Alright peeps, this ish is still happening!!!

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: LadyZ</div><div class="ubbcode-body">wondering how cums mi dis a ketch dis thread [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] </div></div>

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] LadyZ missed a thread [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img]

smaddy mark this on the callendar [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]


<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: LadyZ</div><div class="ubbcode-body">So why yuh nuh mek Imanni dad deal wid him case??

If that don't work, then take Imanni somewhere else.

Or maybe yuh like de likkle attn more time :shameu </div></div>

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bout like de attention [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]


and Imanni's dad is 600 miles away in Oregon, he cyaan watch the pikney... I had to pay to fly him down for 2 weeks to watch him when Janice went into the hospital [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70379-moneyeyes.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img]

He does want to move down here, but that would mean living with me...

I have considered it, but thats a whole other thread [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]

[Bandana]

Re: Alright peeps, this ish is still happening!!!

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Seveen</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i say just continue to diss him

if you tell the wife - she's gonna blame you

if you mess with him - he's gonna tell the wife you're after him

there's no way you can win </div></div>

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there's nothing i can add. </div></div>

OK...

so the past week that is exactly what I have done...

I have not said a WORD to the man, I address his wife, and I even avoid eye contact with him. When he says something cute I have rolled my eyes and left the room....

but the day when all that ish went down with my boss and the hourly thing I was upset and was talking to Janice about it. when I went to leave he followed me outside [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img]

He went to his truck first while I was putting Imanni in the car seat, and when I stood up he was right behind me...

"are you going to be ok?"

"yes, I am gonna be fine" - I say as I am opening my door to get in my car..

"you need to quit flirting with me" he says [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/shocked.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad.gif[/img]

"Look Jerry, I told you before that it bothers me and YOU need to leave it alone"

"Well I guess I can't talk to you then" [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img]

"That is ridiculous... I gotta go" and I go in my car and left...


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[BlessedLadyOfZion]

Re: Alright peeps, this ish is still happening!!!

so weh yuh a cuss mi fah??? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

nuh know wah mek yuh an daddy leff but go work it out wid de man an unu gwaan go live happily ever.... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bubble.gif[/img]

[Seveen]

Re: Alright peeps, this ish is still happening!!!

don't cry - you told him right

next time ask Janice to walk you to the door - give her something to carry

i think janice is aware of his behavior - but to bring it up to her will make her face it

she probably needs you as a friend - he's probably run everyone off

stay strong - he's not touching

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[Bandana]

Re: Alright peeps, this ish is still happening!!!

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Seveen</div><div class="ubbcode-body">don't cry - you told him right

next time ask Janice to walk you to the door - give her something to carry

i think janice is aware of his behavior - but to bring it up to her will make her face it

she probably needs you as a friend - he's probably run everyone off

stay strong - he's not touching

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[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] if the man touch mi I will bax im dung fi real!! [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/fight.gif[/img]

thanks Seveen [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img]

[swedishrasta]

Re: Alright peeps, this ish is still happening!!!

Ditto what Seveen said.

Eloquent and to the point as usual! [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img] Bandy.....it will all work out. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/icon_hug.gif[/img]

[julie*mango]

Re: Alright peeps, this ish is still happening!!!

*Skelly waits patiently for that other thread* [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bubble.gif[/img]

[Yvonne N.]

Re: Alright peeps, this ish is still happening!!!

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Bandanna</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">[quote=Seveen]i say just continue to diss him

if you tell the wife - she's gonna blame you

if you mess with him - he's gonna tell the wife you're after him

there's no way you can win </div></div>

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<span style='font-size: 17pt'>"you need to quit flirting with me" he says [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/shocked.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad.gif[/img]</span>

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I told you from a long time ago that this is where he was headed...he is going to find a way to set her on you because you have refused him...

Somehow he has a feeling that you are game.

Why don't you just risk it and (laughingly) tell her in front of him that he's making you uncomfortable because he feels that you have a crush on him?...

...and if he says, "Well, don't you...?"

Laugh...and without being insulting say, "You are already taken...and I am not into leftovers..."
or

"The hardest instrument to play in an orchestra is the second fiddle"...

Anything to make the point <u>without being nasty.</u>

All the best.

[DearK]

Re: Alright peeps, this ish is still happening!!!

I agree w/ Shandra... no sense remaining in collusion w/ this man (by your silence to wife)...