What should he do/would you do?

[Yvonne N.]

Re: What should he do/would you do?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">He is wondering whether he should "risk it all" and tell his girlfried about it. He is not sure what her reaction will be but is willing to do it just to make "himself" feel better and come clean with her </div></div>

The nerve!

Why tell her? Does he not have a friend with whom he shares these 'sexrets'?

Why tell h er? To injure her deeply? Why? :kissteet:

[ZaraJah]

Re: What should he do/would you do?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Shandra</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">He is wondering whether he should "risk it all" and tell his girlfried about it. He is not sure what her reaction will be but is willing to do it just to make "himself" feel better and come clean with her </div></div>

The nerve!

Why tell her? Does he not have a friend with whom he shares these 'sexrets'?

Why tell h er? To injure her deeply? Why? :kissteet: </div></div>

I am...I don't...uhhm, [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] ...hmmmm, would you mind explaining yourself? I don't quite get it.

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] Do you or don't you approve of cheating and telling? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img]

[Suesumba]

Re: What should he do/would you do?

i think what Shandra means - and i don't dare mean to speak for Shandra [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/wink.gif[/img] - and i tend to agree. telling her is only going to hurt her. that doesn't mean that one approves of the beslubbering, beef-witted barnacle and his cheating ways. a little in the way of pain and heart ache can be spared the wife if it "just happened" and it's a one time thing. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif[/img]

[ZaraJah]

Re: What should he do/would you do?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i think what Shandra means - and i don't dare mean to speak for Shandra [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/wink.gif[/img] - and i tend to agree. telling her is only going to hurt her. that doesn't mean that one approves of the beslubbering, beef-witted barnacle and his cheating ways. a little in the way of pain and heart ache can be spared the wife if it "just happened" and it's a one time thing. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif[/img] </div></div>

Ohh, ok. Thanks Suesumba. That does make sense and I agree. I think he should continue to suffer, instead of telling her, then feeling better, if she forgives him...since the forgiveness is what he seems to be seeking. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70456-eyebrows.gif[/img]

[Suesumba]

Re: What should he do/would you do?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Zarah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">...since the forgiveness is what he seems to be seeking. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70456-eyebrows.gif[/img] </div></div>

forgiveness which usually means a licence to cheat again. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70390-shhh.gif[/img]

[Pepper]

Re: What should he do/would you do?

Sure he can tell her. Here is a good explanation.

This woman was walking past me, she fell and landed on my penis. That's how we ended up having sex. Totally by accident. I am so distraught this happened, and trust me I will never stand on a slippery floor with my penis hanging out of my pants again.

She will surely buy that and they will live happily ever after.

[gullygirl]

Re: What should he do/would you do?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Zarah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">...since the forgiveness is what he seems to be seeking. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70456-eyebrows.gif[/img] </div></div>

forgiveness which usually means a licence to cheat again. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70390-shhh.gif[/img] </div></div>

..and the next time he will be less guilt-ridden

[loops]

Re: What should he do/would you do?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Pepper</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Sure he can tell her. Here is a good explanation.

This woman was walking past me, she fell and landed on my penis. That's how we ended up having sex. Totally by accident. I am so distraught this happened, and trust me I will never stand on a slippery floor with my penis hanging out of my pants again.

She will surely buy that and they will live happily ever after. </div></div>

the ol inferior zipper excuse. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[applepie]

Re: What should he do/would you do?

Cheating is not a spur of the moment thing........so he knew what he was getting into.......what if the girl did not relocate?......letting current girlfriend know would only hurt her.........at least if he could not keep his pants zipped.......try keeping the mouth shut.