Why aren't Black men and women....

**JM1** · 06-09-2007, 01:40 PM

Re: Why aren't Black men and women....

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Sisterhood? Ha...that is sooo funny.
Not to say that it doesn't exist, but its really hard to find. If I explain my reasoning, we will have gone off the topic once again.</div></div>

Gwaan tru man. Sounds interesting.

But this business of calling the house and creating chaos is so true. And the flip side is that I have never heard of man who ah get bun, calling his "competitor's" house or showing up at his workplace to trace him. Is this a woman thing ?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">In my opinion, these issues are so common in the black community its starting to become the norm. So normal, that women expect it and even boast about being the "wifey" and comparing themselves to the SP....believe me I have heard some convo's and it is quite disturbing.</div></div>

What I find disturbing is the number of women I know who are not just having babies with men who won't marry them, they are choosing not to marry them, even when the man wants to !

So the divorce rate amongst white couples is a fair point, but that may be at least some indication of a desire to be married. (granted, this is arguable, motives for marrying are legion)

**Dr.Dudd** · 06-09-2007, 02:39 PM

Re: Why aren't Black men and women....

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: JM1</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Sisterhood? Ha...that is sooo funny.
Not to say that it doesn't exist, but its really hard to find. If I explain my reasoning, we will have gone off the topic once again.</div></div>

Gwaan tru man. Sounds interesting.

But this business of calling the house and creating chaos is so true. And the flip side is that I have never heard of man who ah get bun, calling his "competitor's" house or showing up at his workplace to trace him. Is this a woman thing ?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">In my opinion, these issues are so common in the black community its starting to become the norm. So normal, that women expect it and even boast about being the "wifey" and comparing themselves to the SP....believe me I have heard some convo's and it is quite disturbing.</div></div>

What I find disturbing is the number of women I know who are not just having babies with men who won't marry them, they are choosing not to marry them, even when the man wants to !

So the divorce rate amongst white couples is a fair point, but that may be at least some indication of a desire to be married. (granted, this is arguable, motives for marrying are legion)</div></div>
You are missing an important point.
Women even the black ones are human first and whatever adjectives is added after.
They are not machines like computers,that function on logics. they are humanbeing that functions on emotions eventually.
you see with machines they use logics, while humanbeing uses emotion to as a final arbiter after they have used logics to make the primary aspect of decision making.
incidentally that behavior is comon to all races.

**JM1** · 06-09-2007, 02:50 PM

Re: Why aren't Black men and women....

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">You are missing an important point.
Women even the black ones are human first and whatever adjectives is added after.They are not machines like computers,that function on logics. they are humanbeing that functions on emotions eventually.you see with machines they use logics, while humanbeing uses emotion to as a final arbiter after they have used logics to make the primary aspect of decision making.</div></div>

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">that behavior is comon to all races</div></div>

We know this and this is not a point of dispute.

The question is why the rate at which black men and women marry is so much lower than that of other ethnic groups.

**MarieK** · 06-09-2007, 07:25 PM

Re: Why aren't Black men and women....

depends pan weh yuh live for dung yah every odda black man mi see a wear wedd'n ring. Mercy fawda is a good ting mi neva did plan fi come dung yah an look fi a pawtna else mi SOL.

**JM1** · 06-09-2007, 07:50 PM

Re: Why aren't Black men and women....

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">every odda black man mi see a wear wedd'n ring</div></div>

How many of these black men that you see are with (married to ?) black women ?

**MarieK** · 06-09-2007, 11:31 PM

Re: Why aren't Black men and women....

wait deh now yuh tek ie gawn some weh else. Black man HAFFI married black ooman?

Mi woulda like fi think seh dem can marrij ennybady dem choose.

But anyway, I see many many many black/black couples, complete with the kids and big house an nice lifestyle.

In fairness I've seen black men with white woman but what I also see are black WOMEN with white MEN.

**Boricua_papi** · 06-10-2007, 12:39 AM

Re: Why aren't Black men and women....

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Dr.Dudd</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
You are missing an important point.
Women even the black ones are human first and whatever adjectives is added after.
They are not machines like computers,that function on logics. they are humanbeing that functions on emotions eventually.
you see with machines they use logics, while humanbeing uses emotion to as a final arbiter after they have used logics to make the primary aspect of decision making.
incidentally that behavior is comon to all races.

</div></div>

What the hell are you saying? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] My gawd man, this is gibberish.

**JM1** · 06-10-2007, 06:43 AM

Re: Why aren't Black men and women....

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">wait deh now yuh tek ie gawn some weh else. Black man HAFFI married black ooman? Mi woulda like fi think seh dem can marrij ennybady dem choose.</div></div>

**sigh**

MMK, you are reading waay more into my post than is there. I thought it was a legitimate question only because the stats that I posted at the beginning of the thread did not seem to raise that as an issue when looking at marriage rates. I was not taking a position on mixed marriages.

Aye sah.

**ILP** · 06-10-2007, 09:37 AM

Re: Why aren't Black men and women....

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: B_P</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Dr.Dudd</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
You are missing an important point.
Women even the black ones are human first and whatever adjectives is added after.
They are not machines like computers,that function on logics. they are humanbeing that functions on emotions eventually.
you see with machines they use logics, while humanbeing uses emotion to as a final arbiter after they have used logics to make the primary aspect of decision making.
incidentally that behavior is comon to all races.
</div></div>

What the hell are you saying? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] My gawd man, this is gibberish. </div></div>

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ah weak.....weeeeiiiiiii

**Shine_Eye_Girl** · 06-10-2007, 09:55 AM

Re: Why aren't Black men and women....

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Dr.Dudd</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

You are missing an important point.
Women even the black ones are human first and whatever adjectives is added after.
They are not machines like computers,that function on logics. they are humanbeing that functions on emotions eventually.
you see with machines they use logics, while humanbeing uses emotion to as a final arbiter after they have used logics to make the primary aspect of decision making.
incidentally that behavior is comon to all races.
</div></div>

...Aye sah

**Gen** · 06-10-2007, 10:02 AM

Re: Why aren't Black men and women....

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: B_P</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Dr.Dudd</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
You are missing an important point.
Women even the black ones are human first and whatever adjectives is added after.
They are not machines like computers,that function on logics. they are humanbeing that functions on emotions eventually.
you see with machines they use logics, while humanbeing uses emotion to as a final arbiter after they have used logics to make the primary aspect of decision making.
incidentally that behavior is comon to all races.

</div></div>

What the hell are you saying? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] My gawd man, this is gibberish. </div></div>

eyewata

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**julie*mango** · 06-10-2007, 11:06 AM

Re: Why aren't Black men and women....

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Geneva</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: B_P</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Dr.Dudd</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
You are missing an important point.
Women even the black ones are human first and whatever adjectives is added after.
They are not machines like computers,that function on logics. they are humanbeing that functions on emotions eventually.
you see with machines they use logics, while humanbeing uses emotion to as a final arbiter after they have used logics to make the primary aspect of decision making.
incidentally that behavior is comon to all races.

</div></div>

What the hell are you saying? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] My gawd man, this is gibberish. </div></div>

eyewata

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**Dr.Dudd** · 06-10-2007, 02:50 PM

Re: Why aren't Black men and women....

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: B_P</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Dr.Dudd</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
You are missing an important point.
Women even the black ones are human first and whatever adjectives is added after.
They are not machines like computers,that function on logics. they are humanbeing that functions on emotions eventually.
you see with machines they use logics, while humanbeing uses emotion to as a final arbiter after they have used logics to make the primary aspect of decision making.
incidentally that behavior is comon to all races.

</div></div>

What the hell are you saying? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] My gawd man, this is gibberish. </div></div>
Yes I know.

**Dr.Dudd** · 06-10-2007, 02:56 PM

Re: Why aren't Black men and women....

It does not take much to illicit a laugh.
i am laughing too. only you can't se it
That is the first emotion babies show at birth.
Did you know that babies smile in reaction to a smile at birth??
I am wondering if people who post on BBs think that others really think theyir posted emotions are real?
It is entertainment,that's all.

**julie*mango** · 06-10-2007, 03:53 PM

Re: Why aren't Black men and women....

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> That is the first emotion babies show at birth.
Did you know that babies smile in reaction to a smile at birth??</div></div>

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img] This does not happen until the first few weeks after birth.

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