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by Rob Eagar
Fully discuss each of these 31 questions before you consider engagement to someone.
(Remember to develop rapport first before talking about these intimate issues.)
Spiritual Character
1. Who is Jesus Christ to you?
2. When and how did you become a Christian?
3. What is your spiritual gift?
4. Are you involved in a local church or Bible study?
Financial Character
5. Do you have any debt? If so, how much?
6. If you have debt, how long will it take you to get rid
of it?
7. Do you have a stable employment history?
8. How much do you have in a savings account?
Retirement account?
9. Do you consistently give money to the church or to the less fortunate?
Dating Character
10. Tell me about your past dating relationships.
11. Are you still involved in any other relationships?
12. Have you ever been engaged? If yes, why was it
called off?
13. Have you been divorced? If yes, why did your
marriage fail? Are children involved?
Sexual Character
14. Are you comfortable waiting for sex until
marriage?
15. Have you ever had sex? If yes, how recently?
16. Are you carrying any sexually transmitted
diseases?
17. Have you ever struggled with homosexuality?
18. Have you ever had an abortion?
General Character
19. What difficult circumstances have you endured?
20. What makes you passionate in life?
21. Have you ever broken the law?
22. In what ways are you involved in helping others?
Friends & Family
23. Who are your friends?
24. Do you get along well with your family? Why or
why not?
25. Is your family excited about our relationship?
26. What are your views about the roles of a husband
and wife?
27. Do you want to have children if you get married?
How many? How soon?
Addictions
28. Are you addicted to alcohol, substances,
pornography, or anything else?
29. Have you ever smoked, used drugs, or struggled
with an eating disorder?
30. Do you have family members who wrestle with
addictions?
31. Do you gamble or play the lottery?
--------------------------------------------------- [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]
by Rob Eagar
Fully discuss each of these 31 questions before you consider engagement to someone.
(Remember to develop rapport first before talking about these intimate issues.)
Spiritual Character
1. Who is Jesus Christ to you?
2. When and how did you become a Christian?
3. What is your spiritual gift?
4. Are you involved in a local church or Bible study?
Financial Character
5. Do you have any debt? If so, how much?
6. If you have debt, how long will it take you to get rid
of it?
7. Do you have a stable employment history?
8. How much do you have in a savings account?
Retirement account?
9. Do you consistently give money to the church or to the less fortunate?
Dating Character
10. Tell me about your past dating relationships.
11. Are you still involved in any other relationships?
12. Have you ever been engaged? If yes, why was it
called off?
13. Have you been divorced? If yes, why did your
marriage fail? Are children involved?
Sexual Character
14. Are you comfortable waiting for sex until
marriage?
15. Have you ever had sex? If yes, how recently?
16. Are you carrying any sexually transmitted
diseases?
17. Have you ever struggled with homosexuality?
18. Have you ever had an abortion?
General Character
19. What difficult circumstances have you endured?
20. What makes you passionate in life?
21. Have you ever broken the law?
22. In what ways are you involved in helping others?
Friends & Family
23. Who are your friends?
24. Do you get along well with your family? Why or
why not?
25. Is your family excited about our relationship?
26. What are your views about the roles of a husband
and wife?
27. Do you want to have children if you get married?
How many? How soon?
Addictions
28. Are you addicted to alcohol, substances,
pornography, or anything else?
29. Have you ever smoked, used drugs, or struggled
with an eating disorder?
30. Do you have family members who wrestle with
addictions?
31. Do you gamble or play the lottery?
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