am I over-reacting?

[Kurlie]

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img]Mi been planning mi wedding now fi almost a year, mi have mi colors, favors, theme every blasted ting set and line out. One a mi girlfriend just get engage but she decide fi get married in three months (before me) She doing the same favors as me and pick me color. and yes she know sey a dat mi doing for my favors and dat is my color.

Nung, am I over-reacting?

[MarieK]

Re: am I over-reacting?

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad.gif[/img] No you are NOT. Dat happen tuh mi [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img]

but what I'd do is go to her wedding and make yours more spectacular. What colors are you choosing

[Kurlie]

Re: am I over-reacting?

mi nah tell you cause you a go tief it too...oh..but you married already.

mi choose burnt orange and Sage and gold trimings.

[kia027]

Re: am I over-reacting?

Tek it as a compliment and low ar afta all you know you dun plan u scheme more time.. Memba seh u will be de most spectacular bride pon dat deh day and nobady can tek it away from you.

[Bandana]

Re: am I over-reacting?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kurlie</div><div class="ubbcode-body">mi nah tell you cause you a go tief it too...oh..but you married already.

mi choose burnt orange and Sage and gold trimings. </div></div>

That sounds beautiful!!

Now I just need to find someone to marry [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bannana_purple.gif[/img]





Seriously Kurlie, thats not right [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad.gif[/img]

I would feel the same way...

Can you talk to her about how you feel??

[Bandana]

Re: am I over-reacting?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Tek it as a compliment and low ar afta all you know you dun plan u scheme more time.. Memba seh u will be de most spectacular bride pon dat deh day and nobady can tek it away from you. </div></div>

Kia [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

[Nunya]

Re: am I over-reacting?

Mi oodn tek it as no compliment! She too redyeye an no ha orginality. Mi like yuh colours dem, dem soun quite rich... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

But no matta how yuh say yuh a go mek yours more spectacular, everybady a go seet as a copy ting - dem a go tink say a you a copy har...

An de more time yuh tink bout it, de more it a go mek yuh day less special.

If a was mi, mi ooda gi har a piece a mi mind. Bou fren [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]

[Suesumba]

Re: am I over-reacting?

no, you're not over-reacting. my dear since you have time, just use your creativity and come up with something else.

will you be going to her wedding?

the reason mi noh kipp tummuch female fren

[BlessedLadyOfZion]

Re: am I over-reacting?

dam...that's effed up [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img]mi woodan more dan vex..

as a matta fack, mi woodan walk an tell everybody [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]

[Kurlie]

Re: am I over-reacting?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">no, you're not over-reacting. my dear since you have time, just use your creativity and come up with something else.

will you be going to her wedding?

the reason mi noh kipp tummuch female fren </div></div>

we are both going to each others and mutual friends will be at both.

Like you said Sue...try an come up with something different and kibba mi mouth.

One sistren suggest keep the colors because mi already buy things in the colors and incorporate some african tradtions and find some way to put some African/kente cloth into it.

[Kurlie]

Re: am I over-reacting?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: LadyZ</div><div class="ubbcode-body">dam...that's effed up [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img]mi woodan more dan vex..

as a matta fack, mi woodan walk an tell everybody [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] </div></div>

mi vex so till mi tink mi heart was a go pop out a mi chess.

[Kurlie]

Re: am I over-reacting?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Mi oodn tek it as no compliment! She too redyeye an no ha orginality. Mi like yuh colours dem, dem soun quite rich... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

But no matta how yuh say yuh a go mek yours more spectacular, everybady a go seet as a copy ting - dem a go tink say a you a copy har...

An de more time yuh tink bout it, de more it a go mek yuh day less special.

If a was mi, mi ooda gi har a piece a mi mind. Bou fren [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] </div></div>

she nuh feel sey it should matta

[BlessedLadyOfZion]

Re: am I over-reacting?

hell, mi bringle ya now an annuh mi it a happen to.

wuss eva happen to mi a when mi go shoppin wid some ooman an dem walk backa mi an pik up EVERY blasted ting mi pick up. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad.gif[/img]

mi sure it woodan matta to her if u had done the same [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]

[Suesumba]

Re: am I over-reacting?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kurlie</div><div class="ubbcode-body">One sistren suggest keep the colors because mi already buy things in the colors and incorporate some african tradtions and find some way to put some African/kente cloth into it. </div></div>

keep the colours, but maybe change up the theme. i'd be pist at her. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img] and i hold vicious grudges. i probably shouldn't be the one to advising you on how to go on with the friendship. whatever you decide, good luck. you seem pretty level headed. you'll do well.

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif[/img]

[MrsBlue]

Re: am I over-reacting?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kurlie</div><div class="ubbcode-body">mi nah tell you cause you a go tief it too...oh..but you married already.

mi choose burnt orange and Sage and gold trimings. </div></div> <span style="color: #3333FF">OOOOOH! I'm getting married soon and I want those to be my colors!

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img]

No, you're not overreacting, I'd be [censored] off. If it was a coincidence, maybe, but she knew. I'd go beat her @ss on her wedding day. Try matching a black and blue eye! [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img]</span>