Remember that Indian guy...

**Boopie2** · 07-28-2007, 12:32 AM

Re: Remember that Indian guy...

I agree, I sure wouldn't want to have anything to do with him period. I would tell him my Blackness and common sense may rub off on him if we continued being so called friends. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] His loss, I wouldn't lose sleep over that idiot. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]

**rufian** · 07-28-2007, 03:26 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mrs. MarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> hurts to be black or hurts to be told you are black?
a da mek yu a force pan indian?</div></div>

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same to you [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/laugh.gif[/img] how me fe know wa she a say if me na ask?
hits where it hurts cause smaddi say me black now ha new meaning.
yu live an yu learn.

**rufian** · 07-28-2007, 03:29 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Phatty</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: sukuna</div><div class="ubbcode-body">before me go enjoy me friday night [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bannana_purple.gif[/img]
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Growing up in Brooklyn I never had to encounter discrimination.</div></div>

cause yu 'so to say' never encounter discrimination you didnt know you were black?

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his mother didnt want us to date because I was black. So we broke up. That break up killed me becuz it kind of hit me where it hurts. </div></div>
hurts to be black or hurts to be told you are black?
a da mek yu a force pan indian?

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Anywayz, he came over last night just to talk. I always had doubts in the back of my mind about our breakup becuz his mother was so nice to me. It didn't seem like her to do that. So I asked him flat out. "Did you break up with me becuz that's what your mother wanted or becuz you wanted?"
"Phatty, long distance relationships are hard." he answered. I flipped my lid. You know how much animosity I held for his mom, even though we remained friends. I asked him why he didn't just tell me that becuz I would have taken it better. He didn't answer. I left him on my lawn. This morning he sent me texts of 'i'm sorry's' and etc. I don't want him as a friend. The fact that the lie he chose caused me to feel so disgusted, I don't think he's worthy of my friendship.
What do you guys think?
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so who you think discriminated you? him or de mother?
a bet yu never noticed that or you wouldnt come ask

me gone ya
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Hit where it hurts as in I was shocked. I was hit where I didn't build up a defense for.

I really don't understand where your coming from. What made you think I pushed myself on him. I didn't. He knew I was black when he came to me. I've dated all races I don't discriminate against my own. Find somewhere else to a ASSume
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didnt get the first part of your story perhaps. me naa assume notn seeing that it is very difficult to follow you. you cant date one race without discriminating the others anyways. why build up a defense for being black? i mean you knew of this possible exit just as he know you were black.

**Phatty** · 07-29-2007, 01:10 AM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: sukuna</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Phatty</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: sukuna</div><div class="ubbcode-body">before me go enjoy me friday night [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bannana_purple.gif[/img]
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Growing up in Brooklyn I never had to encounter discrimination.</div></div>

cause yu 'so to say' never encounter discrimination you didnt know you were black?

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his mother didnt want us to date because I was black. So we broke up. That break up killed me becuz it kind of hit me where it hurts. </div></div>
hurts to be black or hurts to be told you are black?
a da mek yu a force pan indian?

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Anywayz, he came over last night just to talk. I always had doubts in the back of my mind about our breakup becuz his mother was so nice to me. It didn't seem like her to do that. So I asked him flat out. "Did you break up with me becuz that's what your mother wanted or becuz you wanted?"
"Phatty, long distance relationships are hard." he answered. I flipped my lid. You know how much animosity I held for his mom, even though we remained friends. I asked him why he didn't just tell me that becuz I would have taken it better. He didn't answer. I left him on my lawn. This morning he sent me texts of 'i'm sorry's' and etc. I don't want him as a friend. The fact that the lie he chose caused me to feel so disgusted, I don't think he's worthy of my friendship.
What do you guys think?
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so who you think discriminated you? him or de mother?
a bet yu never noticed that or you wouldnt come ask

me gone ya
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Hit where it hurts as in I was shocked. I was hit where I didn't build up a defense for.

I really don't understand where your coming from. What made you think I pushed myself on him. I didn't. He knew I was black when he came to me. I've dated all races I don't discriminate against my own. Find somewhere else to a ASSume
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didnt get the first part of your story perhaps. me naa assume notn seeing that it is very difficult to follow you. you cant date one race without discriminating the others anyways. why build up a defense for being black? i mean you knew of this possible exit just as he know you were black. </div></div>

Sweetheart I don't know what part of the world you live in, but where i'm from and the lessons that I was taught we are all the same people. I never thought of race being a good reason to break up or a reason as a matter of fact. I am proud to be black and have loved and love black, white, hispanic and indian men without thought to their skin but to personality. I never dated just one race, so couldn't have discriminated against the other. My mother taught me that 'out of many one people' goes for the whole world not just for Jamaicans. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/proud_jamaica.gif[/img] My skin is Dark Brown like Coco and my hair is nappy, kept natural, my nose is broad and my lips are thick and I love it all. Who I date doesnt show discrimination.

BTW did anyone else have a problem understanding what I wrote?

**rufian** · 07-29-2007, 11:14 AM

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a so yu think. so if everybody same why all de call out? black, white, chinese, hispanic, arab, hispanic, irish, indian, wa else dem have?
[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] never mind me, life is too short, live you life.
the difference is bigger than skin colour. in other words, skin colour mean more than just that.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> My skin is Dark Brown like Coco and my hair is nappy, kept natural, my nose is broad and my lips are thick and I love it all. Who I date doesnt show discrimination.</div></div>
you see wa me did say? a yu mussa blind, is this indian man not showing discrimination? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/crazy.gif[/img]

**tsophra** · 07-29-2007, 11:43 AM

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[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] Sukuna..u deliberately misunderstandin har.. rite? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70456-eyebrows.gif[/img]

**rufian** · 07-29-2007, 12:07 PM

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yu done know

**sistacaf** · 07-29-2007, 02:15 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">so who you think discriminated you? him or de mother?
a bet yu never noticed that or you wouldnt come ask </div></div>

well yes, i think her whole point is that she did notice that. maybe she doesn't quite realize it yet herself but that's it. i can understand it's hard to believe somethin like that about someone you thought you 'knew.'

But - she only knows now cause she pressed him for the truth. That's the real problem - that he's too lame to be a decent man and speak truthfully in the first place. Him woulda too shame and it sure looks like him character too weak to take it.

so he blamed someone else. but now she knows its HE who is the racist, and not his mom.

So here he's pushin off the blame for his own feelings pon someone else, makin them look bad so himself can come off smellin like a rose? and wait, is who is he pushing the blame upon? his own MOM?????

making both him mom AND his woman feel small cause of himself own issues?? Now him can feel like big man, like that makes what he did somehow 'OK' cause after all, "it wasn't him"??

oh hayl no. phatty it's not just that "he lied" - it's not about what he did. Its about what kind of person he is, the content of his character. Weak selfish people who put off their ish on everyone around them rather than own up to them OWN runnings. dem whoal life is "it wasn't me", act like is evryone else fault but they own, for evrything.

them kinda people burn me up. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img]

you haf to ask yourself 'what kind of a person would do that?'
He made you feel small for himself to feel big. He damaged a good relationship between you and his mom, who didn't deserve to have her own character smeared by her own dyam son. he showed he doesn't give a rats patoot about her feelings or yours. He doens't care if he hurts others by makin up huge elaborate lies, as long as HE gets to feel good about himself by avoiding the truth. The way he did it is almost secondary - but come on now - usin his mom and makin it about race? That's makes it even worse. He coulda picked any topic to use for his lies, but no. His mind want to the MOST degrading, demeaning one with no regard for anyone's feelings but him own. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] 'Disrespectful' don't even BEGIN.

That he did that at ALL, to someone he wanna call a 'friend'? Please. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]

that's what makes him a spineless little fraction of a man. even if he's not your man, even a friend don't do another friend that way. He's not worthy of anything fram you, phatty.

**Night Nurse** · 07-29-2007, 06:46 PM

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**Boopie2** · 07-29-2007, 07:20 PM

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**Suesumba** · 07-30-2007, 10:00 AM

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i never understand why indians think they're better than blacks.

**Phatty** · 07-30-2007, 10:39 AM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: sistacaf</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">so who you think discriminated you? him or de mother?
a bet yu never noticed that or you wouldnt come ask </div></div>

well yes, i think her whole point is that she did notice that. maybe she doesn't quite realize it yet herself but that's it. i can understand it's hard to believe somethin like that about someone you thought you 'knew.'

But - she only knows now cause she pressed him for the truth. That's the real problem - that he's too lame to be a decent man and speak truthfully in the first place. Him woulda too shame and it sure looks like him character too weak to take it.

so he blamed someone else. but now she knows its HE who is the racist, and not his mom.

So here he's pushin off the blame for his own feelings pon someone else, makin them look bad so himself can come off smellin like a rose? and wait, is who is he pushing the blame upon? his own MOM?????

making both him mom AND his woman feel small cause of himself own issues?? Now him can feel like big man, like that makes what he did somehow 'OK' cause after all, "it wasn't him"??

oh hayl no. phatty it's not just that "he lied" - it's not about what he did. Its about what kind of person he is, the content of his character. Weak selfish people who put off their ish on everyone around them rather than own up to them OWN runnings. dem whoal life is "it wasn't me", act like is evryone else fault but they own, for evrything.

them kinda people burn me up. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img]

you haf to ask yourself 'what kind of a person would do that?'
He made you feel small for himself to feel big. He damaged a good relationship between you and his mom, who didn't deserve to have her own character smeared by her own dyam son. he showed he doesn't give a rats patoot about her feelings or yours. He doens't care if he hurts others by makin up huge elaborate lies, as long as HE gets to feel good about himself by avoiding the truth. The way he did it is almost secondary - but come on now - usin his mom and makin it about race? That's makes it even worse. He coulda picked any topic to use for his lies, but no. His mind want to the MOST degrading, demeaning one with no regard for anyone's feelings but him own. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] 'Disrespectful' don't even BEGIN.

That he did that at ALL, to someone he wanna call a 'friend'? Please. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]

that's what makes him a spineless little fraction of a man. even if he's not your man, even a friend don't do another friend that way. He's not worthy of anything fram you, phatty.

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I emailed your comment to him I thought he should hear what you had to say. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70458-applaud.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70458-applaud.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70458-applaud.gif[/img]

**BlessedLadyOfZion** · 07-30-2007, 10:40 AM

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u still a chat to him?? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/whistle.gif[/img]

**Phatty** · 07-30-2007, 10:41 AM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i never understand why indians think they're better than blacks. </div></div>

Might I add that his uncle owns a mechanic shop in da 'hood. Isn't the majority of his customers Black? We are basically feeding his family and putting clothes on their backs. The fact that their in America, blacks have already supported them.

**Phatty** · 07-30-2007, 10:43 AM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: LadyZ</div><div class="ubbcode-body">u still a chat to him?? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/whistle.gif[/img] </div></div>
No last night was the last I saw him. He used the fact that he had some DVD's to give me back to see me. He tried to talk to me, but I walked away after checking my DVDs.
I thought he still deserved a tongue lashing though so I emailed that to him.

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