The other woman

[Boopie2]

I was visiting 2 of my friends yesterday, when she finally put the kids down for bed she broke down and us about the new goings on of her husband. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img]

The idiot took their 2 kids out of town with him yo spend the weekend with his other woman. She had no idea until her boys came asking her about whether their dad was married to this White woman. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] Because they saw thier dad and the woman kissing and being touchy feely with each other. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/vomit.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/vomit.gif[/img]

Lord, I didn't know what to say, he did have the nerve to say to me on his way out that he would see me in the next two months cause I hadn't been there in quite a while. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]

[sistactry]

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flipping scum~~

so wha de 2months ting?? dat me never get???

[Kurlie]

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what she going to do about it? stay in the marriage?

[sistactry]

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a nuff ooman stay inna marriage fe one reason or another, but getting the kids involve inna dem way deh...im waan ded, [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img]

[MarieK]

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ok dis story true? How can him gawn wid nedda ooman aneven crass di door step much less come back eeen.

Oh and by the way, he can do it because she lets him I think men know what they can get away with with who yuh nuh.

[dr. bones]

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Is this your friend that married and is waiting on her papers? That's why she thinks she has to put up w/ this? Get rid of this guy. The kids will lose respect for her if she lets hubby get away w/ taking them around other women, then lets him come home. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]

[MarieK]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: dr. bones</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Is this your friend that married and is waiting on her papers? That's why she thinks she has to put up w/ this? Get rid of this guy. The kids will lose respect for her if she lets hubby get away w/ taking them around other women, then lets him come home. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] </div></div>

if he brings home AIDS will the papers be worth it?

[dr. bones]

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The papers aren't worth the disrespect, let alone AIDS or any other STD the man might bring home. She could divorce his sorry behind, explain what happened at the interview, and still get her papers. Why is she putting herself through this?

[Boopie2]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SistaCtry</div><div class="ubbcode-body">flipping scum~~

so wha de 2months ting?? dat me never get??? </div></div>

Just one of his snide remarks I guess. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]

[Boopie2]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: dr. bones</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Is this your friend that married and is waiting on her papers? That's why she thinks she has to put up w/ this? Get rid of this guy. The kids will lose respect for her if she lets hubby get away w/ taking them around other women, then lets him come home. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] </div></div>

Yes the same one, he is worst than scum, still not contributing to the household at all. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img]

[Boopie2]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: dr. bones</div><div class="ubbcode-body">The papers aren't worth the disrespect, let alone AIDS or any other STD the man might bring home. She could divorce his sorry behind, explain what happened at the interview, and still get her papers. Why is she putting herself through this? </div></div>

Her papers came through so no problems there, I thought this was the hold up in the first place but this is too much. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] She sleeps on the sofa and refuses to sleep with him. I can't see him going anywhere, nasty bum.

[rie]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: dr. bones</div><div class="ubbcode-body">The papers aren't worth the disrespect, <span style="color: #3366FF"> </span> of couse the papes ae woth it!!!! let alone AIDS or any other STD the man might bring home. She could divorce his sorry behind, explain what happened at the interview, and still get her papers. Why is she putting herself through this? </div></div>

Her papers came through so no problems there, I thought this was the hold up in the first place but this is too much. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] She sleeps on the sofa and refuses to sleep with him. I can't see him going anywhere, nasty bum. </div></div> Why does it boother you where they sleep in the house.??If He is sponsoring her, she should be looking for work so she can move out and buy her own bed. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/discosmilie.gif[/img]


[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] I wonder how many people are out there in this very situation. Getting a visa is very important to Jamacain people. I believe we americans take it forgranted at times that we are free to travel the world. Growing up in Jamaica I was able to see the desire most Jamaicans have to 'go foriegn'. And believe me I have witness with me own 2 eye what people are willing to do or say for a visa.

I say if the 2 parties agree it's for a visa fine.

My cousin is in one of these 'sticky' [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] situations right now, ongly she has 2 beds. She took de man for an aids test right away,since he was quite the gigolo in Jamaica. I could care less if they sleep together.

Why you so worried?

[julie*mango]

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Now all she needs is a white boyfriend and it would make a perfect foursome. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70371-jump.gif[/img]

[Boopie2]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tishamae</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: dr. bones</div><div class="ubbcode-body">The papers aren't worth the disrespect, <span style="color: #3366FF"> </span> of couse the papes ae woth it!!!! let alone AIDS or any other STD the man might bring home. She could divorce his sorry behind, explain what happened at the interview, and still get her papers. Why is she putting herself through this? </div></div>

Her papers came through so no problems there, I thought this was the hold up in the first place but this is too much. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] She sleeps on the sofa and refuses to sleep with him. I can't see him going anywhere, nasty bum. </div></div> Why does it boother you where they sleep in the house.??If He is sponsoring her, she should be looking for work so she can move out and buy her own bed. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/discosmilie.gif[/img]


[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] I wonder how many people are out there in this very situation. Getting a visa is very important to Jamacain people. I believe we americans take it forgranted at times that we are free to travel the world. Growing up in Jamaica I was able to see the desire most Jamaicans have to 'go foriegn'. And believe me I have witness with me own 2 eye what people are willing to do or say for a visa.

I say if the 2 parties agree it's for a visa fine.

My cousin is in one of these 'sticky' [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] situations right now, ongly she has 2 beds. She took de man for an aids test right away,since he was quite the gigolo in Jamaica. I could care less if they sleep together.

Why you so worried? </div></div>


I'm not worried about where she sleeps at all. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] Just answering the questions about Her possibly catching Aids. As a friend I worry about him physically abusing her, so far he hasn't touched her again but I think it's just a matter of time if she's not sexually involved with him he's going to blow.


So to you it's fine to go through hell mentally and physically to get ones papers on the sole fact that they agreed to marriage? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] It wasn't a pre arranged anything, in that case I don't even think she would have gotten pregnant in the first place.


Number one read my post again, she is working and paying every blastid thing he doesn't give her one cent towards their household. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img] Number 2 she's the one who bought the bed in the first place, he's the one who should be sleeping on some sofa. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img]

Speak for yourself about the "we Americans taking this situation for granted" [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] She isn't the first of my friends who have gone through simular circumstances. My other friend it was a agreement where she paid him x amount of money. She never slept with him so no kids, she went through hell do to the fact he was into some shady things. She got her papers, divorced him bought a house and is doing quite well.

My current friend has so much power that she doesn't even know it, her weakness is she's too quiet and don't want to cause waves. I guess she's trying to keep the family together, but she's doing more harm with that idiot being around.

[Boopie2]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Hell_a_Top</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Now all she needs is a white boyfriend and it would make a perfect foursome. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70371-jump.gif[/img] </div></div>


I doubt that very seriously,for having a boyfriend forget it for being a white boyfriend forget it as well. She doesn't sleep around even when she was single, she has only been with her husband. This is why she's emotionally sick of the whole mess. If she stooped that low she would be doing the same thing he's doing.