How would you react if?

[Boopie2]

Maybe I'm crazy here but....

Let's say that your spouse or mate was going to have surgery, instead of being with him or her you send your mother in law and father in law to take him to the hospital while the surgery takes place. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img]

The reason that you don't go to the hospital is because one of your girlfriend from out of town is coming to spend the weekend. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70456-eyebrows.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] Then she tried to justify it by saying " I told my husband to reschedule his operation, [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] my friend had already bought her plane ticket and it's not fair to have her sitting up in the hospital on her visit!" [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img]

She was trying to get me to agree and be on her side, for me I can see that in some sense she's trying to get back at her husband for him working long hours and she being home stuck with the baby. Her friend is coming so her attitude is the hell with him I'm going to have my friend no matter what.

[CeaBee]

Re: How would you react if?

what kinda surgery? outpatient bizness.?

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[Boopie2]

Re: How would you react if?

Another friends boyfriend was rushed to the hospital "he had a stroke years back." She called me when I was in the grocery store shopping on my side of town. Well as soon as she told me I felt so bad and started to worry. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70384-praying.gif[/img] Last thing I heard from her was that she was going to the hospital to check on him abd she would call me back. This was Friday night.

I never heard from her so I'm getting worried and keep calling and calling her. Finally when she answered the phone Saturday mid day, she told me she was just waking up cause she went to a scrabble party and didn't get home until early in the morning.

I asked her to repeat what she just said cause I didn't believe it. Then she got kind of huffy when I told her I wouldn't even think about going to any party if my boyfriend was rushed to the hospital. He wasn't even my boyfriend and the whole evening I was worried sick. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70361-embarassed.gif[/img] Anything could have happened cause the doctors couldn't figure out what was wrong with him.

[Boopie2]

Re: How would you react if?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body">what kinda surgery? outpatient bizness.?

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This is his second serious knee surgery, the first time they couldn't wake him from the anesia.(sp?) Yes, I just think that she is selfish and if she was in the same situation and he tried to do the same thing there would have been a war. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img]

His parents had to bring him home, her and friend came in for a while left the baby with him while they went to get their nails done and have dinner. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]

[CeaBee]

Re: How would you react if?

well it look she juss noh really care.

[tsophra]

Re: How would you react if?

yeah man.sounds kinda [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/cold.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bubble.gif[/img]

[Compry]

Re: How would you react if?

She just doesn't care.

My friend's son got admitted to the hospital last night with a major problem. This morning, his mother went to an amusement park while her son lays in the hospital. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img] Don't care.

[JM1]

Re: How would you react if?

Pay back for some real or imagined sin on his part.

[Boopie2]

Re: How would you react if?

See Compry that's what I'm talking about. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] I would be on pins and needles worried to death. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70361-embarassed.gif[/img]

[Boopie2]

Re: How would you react if?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: JM1</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Pay back for some real or imagined sin on his part.

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Pay back could be in store for her, you never know.