No! Seriously NO!!!

[FrenchTickla]

Sue I've not encountered anyone so crass online. Maybe it's the male vs. female thing.


Peasie, if dem pic nuh look righted mi not even read di profile. is when them contact mi and mi look closer that mi normally get skeeved out.

Here's one message 4 a clock dis manning from a different one. She a try too hard ... and too forward. We had never even had an exchange before ... she a try advertise or is she saying 'hey look at me'?

Dearest you,
I'm up late tonight and can't sleep much so I thought I'd write. How was your day today? I had a very eventful and full day with Thrive -- that's where I work: an organic health cafe that I founded and is on the brink of some major expansion. What did you do?

Have you always wanted a big family? Did you ever watch "Parenthood" (the show?) it's an inspiring tale of family, and some great storylines.

What will you do tomorrow? What is your name?

I'm Monika. Hello, and nice to "meet" you.

Be well and have a joyful day!

By the way mi Neva she nutten bout big family

[Nunya]

Maybe she prips de boad an si whe yuh a talk bout having a nedda pickney...

[UKBlackLady]

he explained that he simply love licking black ****y

I've also had this response on more than one occasion. Maybe the succession rate of that little sentence has had more success than we think...

[FrenchTickla]

so I still dipping mi toe in .

di latest one I agreed to meet. she seems fine on paper and she has good grammar, punctuation and came at me right in her greeting which is a plus. she also has a beautiful smile if that counts for anything.

BUT ... I had decided to stay away from people "in the medical field" because when I meet them, they are normally dull and uninteresting - anywhere from granola to just straight up on-life-support. she says she is a doctor - most people may be impressed but I am hesitant. mi a guh meet har still and see.

blu, you want to share your thoughts on these new developments?

Granola she was. Exactly like the last 3 dates with ppl in the "medical field". I could see hints of her profile picture in her face IRL but I have concluded that the pic is at least 7 years old . MI prips har as mi a walk to di meeting spot and mi had was to hide beside di building caw mi instinct just a say mi fi tun rung and nun waste mi time. Bad dressing and just look like she a come from di farmers market. Bad posture, bad teeth, hint of a beautiful smile, mom jeans and general frumpy look. I need to embrace di fact that I am in the northwest then I won't be so disappointed in how some of these folks present themselves. the conversation was ok but within 45 mins we called it good!

now for the 'sorry, I didn't feel a connection email'.