should she worry

[tsophra]

aight..so my nabes..togedda 20 yrs....she's older than im...not married (her choice)

is best friend/business partner died bout 3 weeks ago..he's really grieving..
im tell har seh de friend may not have left a pension for his widow..so everyone's (she and im) will have to tighten dem belts to make sure she's (the widow) taken care off..this did not sit well with her....they're not exactly swimming in dough "hubby's" known this people fe 40 yrs or so [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bubble.gif[/img]

then this....the other nite they took the widow out for her wedding anniversary...

she told them they had to take her back home awfta dinna..so they rented a car and did so..
they got to her home and it turns out they have to escort her into the apt..."hubby" starts to park the car..."wifey' seys "wacha doing..we not staying"...'hubby" says "lets stay for a few minutes"

when dem get upstairs..the widow announces that

1)she's gonna put awn har nitey
2)dem gonna put her to bed
3) they're both gonna get into bed with her until she falls asleep

wifey is -------> [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/shocked.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] <-------- "wth"
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turns out "hubby" knew and had agreed to the plan...

wifey is now furious and wandering if this woman (younger than her) is trying to tief hubby...(widow was, also,chatting bout how she gotta have a man)..she's mad at "hubby" an talking bout leaving im

hubby seys she's just grieving an its his best friends wife so he's gonna be dere fe har.."hubby" is an extremely caring, nurturing person in general



she was asking me if me tink de woman's behaviour was appropriate..i had to say it was inappropriate..but me tell har fe keep har cool while "hubby" grieving..but she gwine have to draw a line eventually

[LINDA]

Re: should she worry

what the.....? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/feelsick.gif[/img]

[tsophra]

Re: should she worry

what making yu sick? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bubble.gif[/img]

[CeaBee]

Re: should she worry

hubby usually put har to bed when wifey not around? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

ahhmm...yes she should worry

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: should she worry

Yes she should worry [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] 1 an 2 noh really dat bad but 3 [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] abnormal...nex ting yu know wifey ago get inna di miggle of a chreesome [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/vomit.gif[/img]

[RichD]

Re: should she worry

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body">hubby usually put har to bed when wifey not around? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

ahhmm...yes she should worry </div></div> that what i was thinkin too

sound like him did a tek care of her from time

[tsophra]

Re: should she worry

a dat me a wanda to, CB [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bubble.gif[/img]

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] EA, yu dun knoe..wifey starting to wanda if hubby used to swing wid dem back in the day [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] she made a similar comment about the 3some [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

she said awfta de woman get into bed..

she (wifey) sat on a chair in the bedroom while hubby sat on the bed

the women took all these happy prescription drugs an started rolling round on the bed chatting bout " i feel so delicious" at that point she get up and tell hubby sey dem leaving [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] when de woman seh dem haffi wait till she asleep..she tell har seh she so doped up she'd be out in a minut

[Suesumba]

Re: should she worry

i think hubby has tucked in the widow before [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/whatever.gif[/img] ah mean, talk about taking an *interest*!!! do they not have a social safety net for people like her? chat bout tighten belt. i'd tighten it around his neck. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/whatever.gif[/img]

[tsophra]

Re: should she worry

the interesting ting is the woman has an adult dawta with whom she's close and who lives not to far....but she doesn't want her to know how she's taking this loss.."she doesn't want her issues..to intrude on her dawtas life" so she act like everyting is alright...but she has no compunctions bout intruding on my nabe..calling them at 5AM in mawing bawling..

me tell "wifey" dat "hubby" need fe have a chat wid de dawta on the DL bout har madda's unhappiness...but ie look like im nu waan dweet [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bubble.gif[/img]

[Suesumba]

Re: should she worry

5AM, a mussi loops dat a call yu after har 3 minute mawning sex [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

wifey needs to put a stop to that ish [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]

[tsophra]

Re: should she worry

but its only bin 3 wks since de man died and "hubby" feels she should be more understanding dats why me tell har fe geet a couple more weeks fore she put har foot down

[Suesumba]

Re: should she worry

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jaded</div><div class="ubbcode-body">but its only bin 3 wks since de man died and "hubby" feels she should be more understanding dats why me tell har fe geet a couple more weeks fore she put har foot down </div></div>

okay i hear you. patience and all.

[BlessedLadyOfZion]

Re: should she worry

Awwww helll naw [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bexbad.gif[/img]

[tsophra]

Re: should she worry

aignt..up dat..me neva mention fore dat its an interracial relationship cause it wasn't relevant...but now me nabes worried caused dat de cause de woman white (an younga) she might have an edge an har [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70456-eyebrows.gif[/img] an she tink dem treating har like de likkle n-word [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] its crazy that after 20 yrs togedda it comes down to this..but honestly I think its more about her inferiority complexes

so next question.."wifey" seh "hubby" tell "i love Susan..I've always loved Susan" (he's known her since de 9th grade)

me nu know but dat sounds more like a romantic dan platonic love to me..wha oonu ting?

[MsExced]

Re: should she worry

If hubby say him always love Susan then the wife have every reason to be worried and it has nothing to do with her inferior complex


<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jaded</div><div class="ubbcode-body">aignt..up dat..me neva mention fore dat its an interracial relationship cause it wasn't relevant...but now me nabes worried caused dat de cause de woman white (an younga) she might have an edge an har [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70456-eyebrows.gif[/img] an she tink dem treating har like de likkle n-word [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] its crazy that after 20 yrs togedda it comes down to this..but honestly I think its more about her inferiority complexes

so next question.."wifey" seh "hubby" tell "i love Susan..I've always loved Susan" (he's known her since de 9th grade)

me nu know but dat sounds more like a romantic dan platonic love to me..wha oonu ting?

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