Suh mi chat tuh wan ex

[MarieK]

and mi ask fi di wife and him seh him a divorce her, mi seh it cyaan work out wahmek. Him tell mi seh di ooman gain weight, suh mi seh but mi gain weight tuh, wanda if mi man a guh leff mi , him seh no baby fi yuh weight a likkle weight I was [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/shocked.gif[/img] suh mi seh how much, him seh she is wayyyyy ova 300 pounds and she nuh duh nutt'n but nyam suh him leff.

Is that cruel???????????? Mi tell him seh yes, but him seh him try fi help her and she nuh want if get up an duh nutt'n juss laydung an watch tv (she neva wuk). She neva likkle when dem married but him figga seh a plus or minus 15 lbs him cna deal wid, she was a size 18 when dem married.

so now him feel conflicted. Seh him feel bad fi leff but him couldn't stand looking at her any longer (dem have one pickney). Him seh if dem guh pan vacation, him had wuz fi buy chree seats one fi him two fi she, him think seh di post partum depression was the problem but she neva want counselling, him seh hm enroll her in a gym an seh cuss seh him nuh want har and puddung wan piece a show suh him leff.

y'all htink this is cruel

[Kurlie]

Re: Suh mi chat tuh wan ex

cruel to herself fi gain all dat weight? yes
cruel fi him fi left her? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70374-lipsrsealed.gif[/img]

[Suesumba]

Re: Suh mi chat tuh wan ex

no, it's not cruel. she's not the same person he married. people gain weight. it's not a perfect world.
bla bla and all that. but what did she expect? and this isn't about "in sickness" "what if she got cancer" crap. this is about looking out for number 1, which is what most people do. who the hell wants to toss up with someone they find physically unattractive. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]

[BlessedLadyOfZion]

Re: Suh mi chat tuh wan ex

Mi cyaan blame him. And is not like him neva try wid har and express how him was feeling.

She tek it too personal and neva mek no attempts fe do nutten bout it. SO a good fi har

PPD?? How old is the baby?

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: Suh mi chat tuh wan ex

good for him, that superficial [censored]. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img] hope him wife get GBP an slim dung an married smaddie richa an betta looking dan him [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

[Kurlie]

Re: Suh mi chat tuh wan ex

hey Marie...mine im a try fi slida im wey ina you baggie

[MarieK]

Re: Suh mi chat tuh wan ex

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: LadyZ</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Mi cyaan blame him. And is not like him neva try wid har and express how him was feeling.

She tek it too personal and neva mek no attempts fe do nutten bout it. SO a good fi har

PPD?? How old is the baby? </div></div>

I'd say the baby is around 5 at least but no more than 7.

[BlessedLadyOfZion]

Re: Suh mi chat tuh wan ex

well, PPD and baby fat ain't an excuse [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img]

mek shi go lose de weight an fine nedda man an dem ting deh den. But if mi deh wid smaddy an a tell dem seh mi fine dem unatractive an mi a try work wid dem fi a a year (s) fi lose weight (fi my eyes and fi dem health an fi de relationship) an dem nuh cayta bout mi den I am stepping. betta him honest to himself and her an leff har instead a gi har bun.

ETA: yuh a talk months or yrs fi de baby??

[MarieK]

Re: Suh mi chat tuh wan ex

lol years Z

[Kimberley24]

Re: Suh mi chat tuh wan ex

He's not being cruel he actually waited pretty long. Pass 200 and i would be looking for the pen to sign the divorce papers. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/throwstone.gif[/img]

[applepie]

Re: Suh mi chat tuh wan ex

Losing weight is not easy and to have someone badgering you to loose it dose not help either. My sister was a size 8 when she got married and she ballon up to a 16 in 6 years of marriage and a baby. Her husband does not like the weight but him tell her say him still love her anyway cause a no just outward appearance him marry her for.........as a matter a fact she more upset bout de weight dan him..........together she down to a 12 now and holding.

[rufian]

Re: Suh mi chat tuh wan ex

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">no, it's not cruel. she's not the same person he married. people gain weight. it's not a perfect world.
bla bla and all that. but what did she expect? and this isn't about "in sickness" "what if she got cancer" crap. this is about looking out for number 1, which is what most people do. who the hell wants to toss up with someone they find physically unattractive. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]
</div></div>
she was the same weight gainer it seems an he apparently like women with some weight

[Gen]

Re: Suh mi chat tuh wan ex

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mrs. MarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body">and mi ask fi di wife and him seh him a divorce her, mi seh it cyaan work out wahmek. Him tell mi seh di ooman gain weight, suh mi seh but mi gain weight tuh, wanda if mi man a guh leff mi , him seh no baby fi yuh weight a likkle weight I was [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/shocked.gif[/img] suh mi seh how much, him seh she is wayyyyy ova 300 pounds and she nuh duh nutt'n but nyam suh him leff.

Is that cruel???????????? Mi tell him seh yes, but him seh him try fi help her and she nuh want if get up an duh nutt'n juss laydung an watch tv (she neva wuk). She neva likkle when dem married but him figga seh a plus or minus 15 lbs him cna deal wid, she was a size 18 when dem married.

so now him feel conflicted. Seh him feel bad fi leff but him couldn't stand looking at her any longer (dem have one pickney). Him seh if dem guh pan vacation, him had wuz fi buy chree seats one fi him two fi she, him think seh di post partum depression was the problem but she neva want counselling, him seh hm enroll her in a gym an seh cuss seh him nuh want har and puddung wan piece a show suh him leff.

y'all htink this is cruel </div></div>

she needs to see a shrink. meds for depression. why isn't she working ? smaddy can juss siddung a day time suh ? she isn't interacting with anyone, not using her mind suh she nuh muss mad ?