If you had the chance

[MarieK]

Re: If you had the chance

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: loops</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i've been at this for 24 years now </div></div>

ok mek mi tek mi likkle chree year one mont two week an five day guh siddung wan side [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/laugh.gif[/img]

[loops]

Re: If you had the chance

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mrs. MarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Laundry my way

Black
White
Light colors
Dark Colors

Laundry fi unu way

Fi him Black
Fi yuh Black

fi yuh WHite
Fi him white

Fi yuh dawk colors
Fi him dawk colors

fi yuh light
fi him light

is double dat.

mi juss neva hear bout disya arrangement betwix marrid peeple before. Dat soun dlike roomate wid benefits.


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yep...double the hampers...but HALF of my time. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/yahoo.gif[/img]

[MarieK]

Re: If you had the chance

suh who do di yaad work, mow lawn, trim hedges an wash di cyar, check di oil an fill up pon gas?

[loops]

Re: If you had the chance

he mows...i do most of the weeding...and that's ALOT. he washes his car...i was mine..occasionally. i get my own gas...get my own oil changes. I DID recently hold out for months, struggling to start my car...waiting for him to get me a new battery...which he finally did after i guilted him into it.

if i were to tally up the chores tit for tat...he's still got it made.

[MarieK]

Re: If you had the chance

oh ok. well fi mi system is

Inside - Me

Outside - Him

Cyar - him
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but mi outsource some a di wuk. Ironing guh tuh di cleaners or dem come pick it up an cleaning service come eeen whenever a deep cleaning is necessary [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/laugh.gif[/img] suh mi have ie easier

[Boopie2]

Re: If you had the chance

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mrs. MarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: loops</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i've been at this for 24 years now </div></div>

ok mek mi tek mi likkle chree year one mont two week an five day guh siddung wan side [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/laugh.gif[/img] </div></div>

8 years here. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[Kurlie]

Re: If you had the chance

well mi nuh married yet but mi and mi snugums live togetha..and I must admit I have it good. Mi nuh do nuthing fi di car and mi nuh do nuting outside...sometimes mi doant even wash and cook (cook every Sunday).

note to self..go home and tell him how much mi lub and appreciate him.

[Boopie2]

Re: If you had the chance

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mrs. MarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Laundry my way

Black
White
Light colors
Dark Colors

Laundry fi unu way

Fi him Black
Fi yuh Black

fi yuh WHite
Fi him white

Fi yuh dawk colors
Fi him dawk colors

fi yuh light
fi him light

is double dat.

mi juss neva hear bout disya arrangement betwix marrid peeple before. Dat soun dlike roomate wid benefits.


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So you mean to tell me your husband doesn't help you out around the house? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] It isn't going to kill him to do a couple loads of laundry, if anything happened to me who would do it?

[Boopie2]

Re: If you had the chance

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kurlie</div><div class="ubbcode-body">well mi nuh married yet but mi and mi snugums live togetha..and I must admit I have it good. Mi nuh do nuthing fi di car and mi nuh do nuting outside...sometimes mi doant even wash and cook (cook every Sunday).

note to self..go home and tell him how much mi lub and appreciate him. </div></div>


Every marriage isn't a cookie cutter blue print for all marriages. I was visting one of my friends last week and she's 75 and divorced. She said her ex husband came over for something and she was shocked to see how his clothes were mis matched.

She said when they were married she even used to iron everything including his drawers and sheets. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] If I leave the house before he does he also makes the bed. Now that is what I call love, we both work and for him to try and throw everything my way is very selfish if you ask me.

[MarieK]

Re: If you had the chance

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mrs. MarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Laundry my way

Black
White
Light colors
Dark Colors

Laundry fi unu way

Fi him Black
Fi yuh Black

fi yuh WHite
Fi him white

Fi yuh dawk colors
Fi him dawk colors

fi yuh light
fi him light

is double dat.

mi juss neva hear bout disya arrangement betwix marrid peeple before. Dat soun dlike roomate wid benefits.


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So you mean to tell me your husband doesn't help you out around the house? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] It isn't going to kill him to do a couple loads of laundry, if anything happened to me who would do it? </div></div>

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] is what yuh a read? I take care of inside which I manage quite well, I don't do outside work neither do I do anything to the cars other than drive it. Then again, it isn't a bother for me as I stated before because some a di wuk get outsourced.

[Boopie2]

Re: If you had the chance

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mrs. MarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body">oh ok. well fi mi system is

Inside - Me

Outside - Him

Cyar - him
\
but mi outsource some a di wuk. Ironing guh tuh di cleaners or dem come pick it up an cleaning service come eeen whenever a deep cleaning is necessary [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/laugh.gif[/img] suh mi have ie easier </div></div>


[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] You mean you don't iron? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] Now that really sounds like a roommate situation to me. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img]

[MarieK]

Re: If you had the chance

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kurlie</div><div class="ubbcode-body">well mi nuh married yet but mi and mi snugums live togetha..and I must admit I have it good. Mi nuh do nuthing fi di car and mi nuh do nuting outside...sometimes mi doant even wash and cook (cook every Sunday).

note to self..go home and tell him how much mi lub and appreciate him. </div></div>


Every marriage isn't a cookie cutter blue print for all marriages. I was visting one of my friends last week and she's 75 and divorced. She said her ex husband came over for something and she was shocked to see how his clothes were mis matched.

She said when they were married she even used to iron everything including his drawers and sheets. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] If I leave the house before he does he also makes the bed. Now that is what I call love, we both work and for him to try and throw everything my way is very selfish if you ask me. </div></div>

well that's the problem, she do too much, see him cudda neva married mi for mi nuh iron suh long as di service coem pick ie up or di cleanas open dats where all ironing will be done

[MarieK]

Re: If you had the chance

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mrs. MarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body">oh ok. well fi mi system is

Inside - Me

Outside - Him

Cyar - him
\
but mi outsource some a di wuk. Ironing guh tuh di cleaners or dem come pick it up an cleaning service come eeen whenever a deep cleaning is necessary [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/laugh.gif[/img] suh mi have ie easier </div></div>


[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] You mean you don't iron? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] Now that really sounds like a roommate situation to me. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] </div></div>

BOAL yuh a mad smaddy, no mi nuh iron, not even fi mi clothes, funny enuff mi married smaddy weh hate iron suh all our clothes go to cleaners.

Washing yuh owna clothes and having yuh owna furnicha now dats strange

[MarieK]

Re: If you had the chance

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kurlie</div><div class="ubbcode-body">well mi nuh married yet but mi and mi snugums live togetha..and I must admit I have it good. Mi nuh do nuthing fi di car and mi nuh do nuting outside...sometimes mi doant even wash and cook (cook every Sunday).

note to self..go home and tell him how much mi lub and appreciate him. </div></div>

u seet dowe [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70377-loveeyes.gif[/img]

some weekend mi wi chrow dung ennuh Kurlie, big spread and invite ova family an ting but if him off pon a Sunday, mi cook breakfast (yawd style) an den we spend di day togedda doing something or another..

[BlessedLadyOfZion]

Re: If you had the chance

unu have too much rules