Need some advice

[dr. bones]

At one of my practice locations I rent office space to a massage therapist, and an audiologist. Yesterday the LMT calls and tells me that she caught the hearing aid guy having sex in one of my treatment rooms. They were on my table, using my towels.... during regular business hours. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/sick.gif[/img]

Obviously I cannot have this person in my office b/c he disrespected my things, and I can't have him spreading his DNA around in a health care environment. Besides, my LMT is uncomfortable, and she wants all of her stuff locked up so he can't taint it too.

Here is my dilemma. Another guy can work and do the hearing aid checks for the remainder of their lease, but do you think I should call the owner of the company and let him know what happened? The guy who got caught will have to explain to his boss why he is no longer welcome at my office, but I doubt he will tell the truth, and I think his boss has a right to know. Why do I have to deal w/ this junk? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/cry.gif[/img] Get it on at home, and if you're cheating get a hotel.

[loops]

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sounds mean...but i'd call his boss and explain the situation. otherwise...he'll just be doing same at the next place he lands.

people need to be made accountable for their actions...why should you cover for him when he disrespected your place of business like that? you cover...you become part of the problem.

[CeaBee]

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you have the lease agreement with the boss? if so, then yes call the boss and explain the situation.

[Suesumba]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: loops</div><div class="ubbcode-body">sounds mean...but i'd call his boss and explain the situation. otherwise...he'll just be doing same at the next place he lands.

people need to be made accountable for their actions...why should you cover for him when he disrespected your place of business like that? you cover...you become part of the problem. </div></div>

sounds reasonable. not mean. besides without a doubt, anything he tells his boss about why he's not welcome at your place is bound to paint you in a bad light.

[dr. bones]

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I have never spoken to the boss, just did business w/ this guy- manager, and working out of several offices. I am going to call him first, and get his side of the story, but it's looking like I may have to call the owner.

If this girl was not his fiance (wedding in November), even more drama can start. I can't have stories going around that this stuff happens at my office. Plus, he begged the LMT not to tell me, so who knows how long this has been going on.

[Kurlie]

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Dr. your business place is exactly that...keep it professional. If you choose to talk to him first do so. Depending on how the conversation goes then you can decides if he stays or not. Who knows, maybe by him getting caught and it being put to your attention he will not do it again.

[dr. bones]

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Doubt he will do it again Kurlie, but he never should have done it in the first place. Do I have to install nanny cams and have him wear a chastity belt while at my office to prevent future outbursts (pun intended )? I shouldn't have to check up on a grown man to make sure he is not using my equipment to sex people.

Wonder if he strategically placed the electric stim pads for increased pleasure. Has he used my towels for sex before, then put them back so I can place them on patients? Is he acting like he is the Dr? Now my entire office needs to be sanitized.

[julie*mango]

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I say call a meeting with both of them at the same time and express your disgust and anger.

[CeaBee]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: dr. bones</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

Wonder if he strategically placed the electric stim pads for increased pleasure. Has he used my towels for sex before, then put them back so I can place them on patients? Is he acting like he is the Dr? Now my entire office needs to be sanitized. </div></div>


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[Kurlie]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: dr. bones</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Doubt he will do it again Kurlie, but he never should have done it in the first place. Do I have to install nanny cams and have him wear a chastity belt while at my office to prevent future outbursts (pun intended )? I shouldn't have to check up on a grown man to make sure he is not using my equipment to sex people.

Wonder if he strategically placed the electric stim pads for increased pleasure. Has he used my towels for sex before, then put them back so I can place them on patients? Is he acting like he is the Dr? Now my entire office needs to be sanitized. </div></div>

oh no..when you put it dat way Dr..ship him out

[dr. bones]

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Good points everyone, thanks for the advice. I will deal w/ this today, and let you all know what happens.

[dr. bones]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: loops</div><div class="ubbcode-body">sounds mean...but i'd call his boss and explain the situation. otherwise...he'll just be doing same at the next place he lands.

people need to be made accountable for their actions...why should you cover for him when he disrespected your place of business like that? you cover...you become part of the problem. </div></div>

sounds reasonable. not mean. besides without a doubt, anything he tells his boss about why he's not welcome at your place is bound to paint you in a bad light. </div></div>

That is one of my concerns, that he will take the focus off himself, and somehow make me look bad. But what's wrong w/ you 2 today that you didn't give me some humor & sarcasm for this situation.

[sistagirl]

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Dr can you please explain the electric stim pads? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bubble.gif[/img]

[loops]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: dr. bones</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: loops</div><div class="ubbcode-body">sounds mean...but i'd call his boss and explain the situation. otherwise...he'll just be doing same at the next place he lands.

people need to be made accountable for their actions...why should you cover for him when he disrespected your place of business like that? you cover...you become part of the problem. </div></div>

sounds reasonable. not mean. besides without a doubt, anything he tells his boss about why he's not welcome at your place is bound to paint you in a bad light. </div></div>



That is one of my concerns, that he will take the focus off himself, and somehow make me look bad. But what's wrong w/ you 2 today that you didn't give me some humor & sarcasm for this situation. </div></div>

sorry. i'm slacking...

[dr. bones]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: sistagirl</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Dr can you please explain the electric stim pads? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bubble.gif[/img] </div></div>

You're a newlywed, and you still need a visual [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70373-kiss.gif[/img]

Electric stimulation is used for pain modulation and muscle relaxation. It feels like a tingly sensation, or you can turn it higher until the muscles jump around slightly. Just hoping he wasn't using my equipment to stimulate anything [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/sick.gif[/img]