Where are all the good men?

[Nylah]

Re: Where are all the good men?


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BUT even those green flags dont speak to the state of his heart.

Man can have nice house, open car door and still be a jackass. Been there and done that.

mi is still tinking

[Nunya]

Re: Where are all the good men?

Nutn wrong wid getting excited... unless yuh jus get excited ova nutn... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

So wha mek yuh excited?

An yeah, Nylah right, nuff man wi opn door an bring yuh flowas an dem is nutn but a bag a [censored]... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]

[tsophra]

Re: Where are all the good men?

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/notworthy.gif[/img] to de woman of ja.com....i thought fa sure this was gonna be an "all men are rotten..good fe nutten..so and so" thread [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] was i pleasantly surprised [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/desdentado.gif[/img]

[Nunya]

Re: Where are all the good men?

We tryna tread a fine line fi appease eerbady: beans & tlc pon one side, an eerbady else pon de adda [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/fight.gif[/img]

[Nylah]

Re: Where are all the good men?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jaded</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/notworthy.gif[/img] to de woman of ja.com....i thought fa sure this was gonna be an "all men are rotten..good fe nutten..so and so" thread [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] was i pleasantly surprised [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/desdentado.gif[/img] </div></div>

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I'm not into the man bashing thing either. My brother and my daddy are good black men so I cant find it in my spirit to say black men are bad.

Especially cause I have been with a few good ones in the past. Just need to find the right one for the future. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/yahoo.gif[/img]

[Q3210]

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An investment for retirement? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img]

[MarieK]

Re: Where are all the good men?

U sure him nuh deh front a yuh.

Who knows

[Nylah]

Re: Where are all the good men?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mrs. MarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body">U sure him nuh deh front a yuh.

Who knows </div></div>

Nah, I'm sure. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img]

Only man that has the qualities I want in a man I like is a friend who is already married. And I will never ever go there cause I am worth more than that.....

[blugiant]

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bredrens wey ave too woree bout golddiggas. y iss itt oomen chattinn bout man packet soo much. oonoo a look fii man fii mine oonnoo

[Nylah]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> oonoo a look fii man fii mine oonnoo
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I dont know who you are basing that comment on but I said nothing of the sort.

I have enough education and run my own likkle company that I dont need a man to pay my way thru life. That's not what it about.

[Suesumba]

Re: Where are all the good men?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Especially cause I have been with a few good ones in the past. </div></div>

... and they're in the past because? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70456-eyebrows.gif[/img]

a) the grass is greener syndrome?
b) you didn't recognize a good man till he's gone?
c) your criteria has changed and what was once a mediocre man is now seen as a good man?
d) you were a bad woman?

[Suesumba]

Re: Where are all the good men?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: blugiant</div><div class="ubbcode-body">bredrens wey ave too woree bout golddiggas. y iss itt oomen chattinn bout man packet soo much. oonoo a look fii man fii mine oonnoo </div></div>

you're a real twat [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/notworthy.gif[/img]

[Nunya]

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[ZaraJah]

Re: Where are all the good men?

There are good men everywhere...but good for who?

As I grow up and look back, I have had men who were good for the moment and although I probably could have been a little bit more patient, I certainly do not regret ending those "good" relationships.

If it is meant to be, it will be.

For those who are serious about finding their own "good" man, my advice would be to identify YOUR good points, and go out on a mission to find your match. LEAVE NO STONES UNTURNED!

Hit the museums, churches (not only the one you always attend, but others in the neighborhood) parks, clubs, supper bars, etc., ask your friends, family anyone you respect and admire, if they know anyone who is single and fit the profile that you have identified.

It works! That is what people in other cultures do, and they are not ashamed to go for "who" they want.

Why the heck would you want to settle for a short, lite, doctor when what you REALLY want is a tall, dark, construction worker? You got to go for what YOU want. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

Re: Where are all the good men?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Zarah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">There are good men everywhere...but good for who?

As I grow up and look back, I have had men who were good for the moment and although I probably could have been a little bit more patient, I certainly do not regret ending those "good" relationships.

If it is meant to be, it will be.

For those who are serious about finding their own "good" man, my advice would be to identify YOUR good points, and go out on a mission to find your match. LEAVE NO STONES UNTURNED!

Hit the museums, churches (not only the one you always attend, but others in the neighborhood) parks, clubs, supper bars, etc., ask your friends, family anyone you respect and admire, if they know anyone who is single and fit the profile that you have identified.

It works! That is what people in other cultures do, and they are not ashamed to go for "who" they want.

Why the heck would you want to settle for a short, lite, doctor when what you REALLY want is a tall, dark, construction worker? You got to go for what YOU want. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img] </div></div>


Well said girl....thanks!!!