My biggest <Pain>

[R00TS]

This is my 1st cry for help in K&J in 3year and its my biggest pain in my <s>a </s>life. Some of yous gonna gasp [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/shocked.gif[/img] and some gonna see me.

alittle backround
when I was 3, I was snatched away and eventually left in a dog kennel locked in a cage.
also
we had a dog, a hunting dog that we were not allowed to even talk to cuz it would 'mess em up'. Kept out back in a kennel.


phone call brb

[Suesumba]

Re: My biggest &lt;Pain&gt;

that sounds hot [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/inlove1.gif[/img]

with all apologies to any mental anguish which may have have resulted from such a contrived childhood, mine included [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70361-embarassed.gif[/img]

[Kurlie]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: R00TS</div><div class="ubbcode-body">This is my 1st cry for help in K&J in 3year and its my biggest pain in my <s>a </s>life. Some of yous gonna gasp [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/shocked.gif[/img] and some gonna see me.

alittle backround
when I was 3, I was snatched away and eventually left in a dog kennel locked in a cage. also
we had a dog, a hunting dog that we were not allowed to even talk to cuz it would 'mess em up'. Kept out back in a kennel.


phone call brb

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serious ting Roots?

[Nunya]

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Roots?????

[R00TS]

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I cant hang now, was asked to take on a baby for the day [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70377-loveeyes.gif[/img]

fer real Kurlie never associated till I thought of
the backrouns sitch ie No dogs in the house growin up.

So here in lay the thing I HATE a dog in my house! matter of fact, hate dont cover the feeling on the thing. Mind you I said MY house. Doesn't bother me a bit anywhere else.
Mr Rts could be compared to our own Nanook with his love for the beast.
[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] They can never meet up or I would loss him to her [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smirk.gif[/img]
anyway I have put up with this for 20 odd years and am considering baleing out[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img]

btb
dont hate the dawg, not her fault she sheads,stinks and covets my man

[Nunya]

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I'm just confused

[Nylah]

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Same here [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

Roots, is that you want to leave your husband? And is the reason cause of the dog or the dog issue is a side issue to all it?

[R00TS]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
Same here [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

Roots, is that you want to leave your husband? And is the reason cause of the dog or the dog issue is a side issue to all it? </div></div>

No Idont wanna leave him I love him terrible
but I'm sick up and fed
I just hate the dog dirt...dander,hair,carpet stains,ruined cloths,baracading furniture and
I'm jealous to boot. Cant go near him because the dog goes balistic and I dont entertain like I've always been accustomed.

I cant take it no mo

[Nunya]

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Are you on supm? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] I mean, 'I'm sick up and fed'??? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70456-eyebrows.gif[/img]

[Nylah]

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Well who the hell he said vows to, you or the dog?

He cant see that the dog goes off when you come near him?

He cant see nothing wrong with that?

Give me your number and I'll cuss him for you.

That is pure madness that the dog runs your household.

[Yvonne N.]

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[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img]Roots[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img]
Try...try...to love the dog...or watch Dog Whisperer for any help you can use.
Try to love the dog and keep your husband.
All the best...((((Roots)))).

[R00TS]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Are you on supm? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] I mean, 'I'm sick up and fed'??? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70456-eyebrows.gif[/img]
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[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/crazy.gif[/img] no man i'm off it all..casional V [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]
just a play on words nunya, hope I didnt offend yer sensibility

[R00TS]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

Well who the hell he said vows to, you or the dog?

He cant see that the dog goes off when you come near him?

He cant see nothing wrong with that?

Give me your number and I'll cuss him for you.

That is pure madness that the dog runs your household. </div></div>

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/iluvu.gif[/img]

[loops]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I'm just confused </div></div>

i am too.

and i'm really not sure whether to laugh or cry.

roooooooooooooooooooootz...you don't like the doggy? what kind of beast are we talking?

[Nanook]

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Ah Rootise, I am so sorry for your angst. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img] Maybe you and Honey will have to figure out a compromise like using a crate for the dog and off limits areas like keeping her in a kitchen and not allowing her on furniture. The dog can learn new behavior and so can hubby.

How often is she outside? I would be looking in the papers for a used outdoor chain link kennel with a dog house. She wouldn't have to live in it all of the time but for nice afternoons and such, it would give you some relief and dogless times.

A kitchen gate perhaps. Regularly scheduled times when she is allowed to come in the room and visit with hubby. Small things like that could make a big difference! When I get overwhelmed with the fur kids they go in crates or they would be driving me nuts too!

Oh, and how about Hubby start takign the dog to the park for play time or something along those lines, time they can spend together and give you a break?

No worries on me ever meeting hubby, I am so not interested cause I don't have any room in my house for anyone but me and my fur kids! [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]