Should I or should I not??

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

Re: Should I or should I not??

Shi fi get ketch caws shi sloppy.

How yu ah gi yu man bun an have di next man ah basically live ah yu yawd.

Nuh listen to Tanya......nuh seh nuttin yu ere.

Weh yu ah get outa tellin har....yu seh yu an shi ah nuh big fren.....

[Jazz]

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nuh tell har bout de proposal - btu mi tink u should fine a way fe prips har seh de man may pop up... if de girl nah live right dat muss come out yuh nuh - plus de man fe do him prapa research before im propose to har.

There is not a man on yah who woulden tell im breddrin if the situation was reversed even if ah nuh dem tite tite bredrin - ah jus so man roll - an I wish we women would tap sell out we wan anedda...

some seh anedda man ah go get bitta - well, him did ah dish it out to wid im baby madda - wat goes around comes around...

my vote is to tell her.

[CeaBee]

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If it was my friend me tink me would mention someting.

[BlessedLadyOfZion]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TLC_29</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

Weh yu ah get outa tellin har....yu seh yu an shi ah nuh big fren..... </div></div>Not anymore since de miscarriage ting shi kinda stop talk to ppl weh shi did deal wid before an weh know bout de pregnancy...but we was cool before dat

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: LadyZ</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TLC_29</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

Weh yu ah get outa tellin har....yu seh yu an shi ah nuh big fren..... </div></div>Not anymore since de miscarriage ting shi kinda stop talk to ppl weh shi did deal wid before an weh know bout de pregnancy...but we was cool before dat </div></div>

Well mi nuh memba dah story deh....but mi stil nuh tink ah yu place fi seh nuttin...

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body">If it was my friend me tink me would mention someting.

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If it was my friend....I would not think twice about telling her.

[CeaBee]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TLC_29</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body">If it was my friend me tink me would mention someting.

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If it was my friend....I would not think twice about telling her. </div></div>

u confusing me tlc..so u would tell your friend?

[Nylah]

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take a different approach:

LadyZ even though u dont chat to her like u did before, do you consider her a friend or not?

If you do and you are worried about her getting hurt given what she went thru last yr, then tell her.

If not, then I still dont think it's your place to say. Like I said, I did this once about 12 yrs ago and for some reason they both hated on me for doing it. So that's where I'm coming from.

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TLC_29</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body">If it was my friend me tink me would mention someting.

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If it was my friend....I would not think twice about telling her. </div></div>

u confusing me tlc..so u would tell your friend? </div></div>

Yes I would, but this doesn't sound like the case here from what i'm reading.

All of my friendships are 15+ years, not an e-mail or text friendship. What I'm getting from Zed is that they were cool before the baby thing, but now they RARELY even speak.

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
take a different approach:

LadyZ even though u dont chat to her like u did before, do you consider her a friend or not?

If you do and you are worried about her getting hurt given what she went thru last yr, then tell her.

If not, then I still dont think it's your place to say. Like I said, I did this once about 12 yrs ago and for some reason they both hated on me for doing it. So that's where I'm coming from. </div></div>

Exactly... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

[BlessedLadyOfZion]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
take a different approach:

LadyZ even though u dont chat to her like u did before, do you consider her a friend or not?

If you do and you are worried about her getting hurt given what she went thru last yr, then tell her.

If not, then I still dont think it's your place to say. Like I said, I did this once about 12 yrs ago and for some reason they both hated on me for doing it. So that's where I'm coming from. </div></div>How would they both be mad at me?? I'm not telling her chitown man anything, so him won't find out from me. AN mi a give har a warning...simple as dat. Mi an di man is no kinda fren, so i could care less wah him feel.
Plus I'm not telling her about the proposal, jus that the an gwaan pay a surprise visit @ that time.

[diabolical_Tanya]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jazz</div><div class="ubbcode-body">nuh tell har bout de proposal - btu mi tink u should fine a way fe prips har seh de man may pop up... if de girl nah live right dat muss come out yuh nuh - plus de man fe do him prapa research before im propose to har.

There is not a man on yah who woulden tell im breddrin if the situation was reversed even if ah nuh dem tite tite bredrin - ah jus so man roll - an I wish we women would tap sell out we wan anedda...

some seh anedda man ah go get bitta - well, him did ah dish it out to wid im baby madda - wat goes around comes around...

my vote is to tell her. </div></div>


<span style='font-size: 23pt'>Di only one in here wid sense [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/notworthy.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/notworthy.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img] </span>

[Nylah]

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i'm just saying my case. the man tell the woman what I said when they decided to kiss and make up. Now they are divorced and the girl and me are friends after a decade of her not speaking to me.....

up to you. do what u want.

[CeaBee]

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ok so if they rarely speak now, it won't be a big deal when the girl gets mad at her later [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img]

If I knew something like that, about a friend or someone that used to be a close friend, I think that I would say something.

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

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Mek mi aks yu sumting den.....

if yu ah guh gi har ah warning seh im ah come, why yu nah guh tell har bout di proposal?

Just curious.....