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Dear Pastor,
I am a 21-year-old male who has been having a relationship with my girlfriend for almost two years. We are parents of a 14-month-old son. Our relationship is really good and loving.
Anyway, for the last three months something has been happening from my side that will threaten our relationship. I must say that I am not in this sort of thing, but I was approached by another guy at my workplace where I am employed as a security officer. This guy told me one evening after working hours, when no one else was around, that he had been watching me for several weeks. He said he wanted to tell me something, but he didn't know how. He said he really likes me and he could really 'help me out' if we became lovers. I asked him what he really meant by that. He said I wouldn't have to work anymore because I could live with him and he would support me and my family.
Pastor, at first I thought I should punch this guy down. The long and short is that although I still work at the office where this guy is a manager, some evenings I have to go home with this guy and we have sex. I feel guilty seeing him everyday, but he is helping me to support my girlfriend and child and she is very pleased that I can provide for her and my son. The greatest fear I have now is that I am falling in love with this guy because he is very kind to me and he says that he loves me.
Tell me, pastor, what should I do because I don't want my girlfriend or workers at the office to find out about our relationship.
A.E., St. Andrew, Jamaica
Dear A.E.,
You are employed and you should learn to live off what you earn or seek another job. If your male employer told you that he was in love with you and that he would support you if you had homosexual relations with him, you should have told him to get lost.
You got involved with this man because you wanted to. This man is shameless and the only fear that you have is that folks around you may find out about the relationship. Your behaviour is abnormal. If this man was going to support you totally, how is it that you are still working with him? Whatever is happening between you and this man is what you wanted to happen. Both of you are homosexuals and the money he is giving to you has made the relationship stronger.
Pastor
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