One of my preferences when I decide to have kids is that they have the softest hair as possible. Like not-so-nappy. My hair is extremely nappy and while I love being black I am not fond of having to perm and the hard to comb hair. I think like a thick hair type would be nice. I'd still like my child to be around my color though.
I told someone and she kinda jokingly chided me that I wanted kids only that had pretty hair. Am I self-hating? I think of myself as actually accepting myself or is wanting kids that have softer hair self-hating?
I told someone and she kinda jokingly chided me that I wanted kids only that had pretty hair. Am I self-hating? I think of myself as actually accepting myself or is wanting kids that have softer hair self-hating?
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