Am I brainwashed?

[Serenity82]

Re: Am I brainwashed?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

it isnt white ppl you hate Serenity, it's yourself.

i actually feel sorry for you now. </div></div>

Who said I hated white people?, I said they were racist and hateful where I live.

[Serenity82]

Re: Am I brainwashed?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TLC_29</div><div class="ubbcode-body">S82, yu show all ah di symptoms of lackabuddyitis...... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] </div></div>

I haven't' had such an accurate diagnoses in years! Kudos! [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

[Serenity82]

Re: Am I brainwashed?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Emperah_dahJah</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Serenity82</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Am I self-hating? I think of myself as actually accepting myself or is wanting kids that have softer hair self-hating? </div></div>

yes [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img] </div></div>

We can still have one child. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img]

[kia027]

Re: Am I brainwashed?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Serenity82</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Emperah_dahJah</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Serenity82</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Am I self-hating? I think of myself as actually accepting myself or is wanting kids that have softer hair self-hating? </div></div>

yes [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img] </div></div>

We can still have one child. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img] </div></div>

I dont think so.. u just lost your slot with dahjah

[Nylah]

Re: Am I brainwashed?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Serenity82</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

it isnt white ppl you hate Serenity, it's yourself.

i actually feel sorry for you now. </div></div>

Who said I hated white people?, I said they were racist and hateful where I live. </div></div>

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]

i love how you side step my point.

you ask if you a brainwashed. well who would be responsible for your brainwashing? white ppl? and if they are so hateful and racist why do u believe whatever you think it is they say to you?

Or is your point that other blakk ppl brainwashed you into thinking you are not good enuff cause of the texture of your hair?

i pity u if the issue of hair texture factors into whether you have kids. how will u treat them if, despite all your efforts to breed with some light-skinned, good hair man, they still have your hair texture?

what are u gonna do, ask for a refund?

that's some serious self-hatred if u buy into that kind of nonsense.

[Nylah]

Re: Am I brainwashed?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Serenity82</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Emperah_dahJah</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Serenity82</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Am I self-hating? I think of myself as actually accepting myself or is wanting kids that have softer hair self-hating? </div></div>

yes [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img] </div></div>

We can still have one child. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img] </div></div>

that involves actually having sex [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bubble.gif[/img]

[dahjah]

Re: Am I brainwashed?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Donnika</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Emperah_dahJah</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Serenity82</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Am I self-hating? I think of myself as actually accepting myself or is wanting kids that have softer hair self-hating? </div></div>

yes [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img] </div></div>

lawd, she lost you now. poor ting... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img]

hey, how di one jahlou couldnt even say hello? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img] </div></div>

jah lou nevah si yuh, and him did leff fi guh sumweh aftah de lass time yuh hear him vice.

[Magician]

Re: Am I brainwashed?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Serenity82</div><div class="ubbcode-body">One of my preferences when I decide to have kids is that they have the softest hair as possible.</div></div>

Breed wid Blu. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img]

[LiteBlonde]

Re: Am I brainwashed?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Serenity82</div><div class="ubbcode-body">One of my preferences when I decide to have kids is that they have the softest hair as possible. Like not-so-nappy. My hair is extremely nappy and while I love being black I am not fond of having to perm and the hard to comb hair. I think like a thick hair type would be nice. I'd still like my child to be around my color though.

I told someone and she kinda jokingly chided me that I wanted kids only that had pretty hair. Am I self-hating? I think of myself as actually accepting myself or is wanting kids that have softer hair self-hating? </div></div>

You are only saying what a lot of people think.

There are very few who would admit that hair texture is important to them when they meet a man/woman. It is only obvious in the way many would opt to die for the lite, brite damn-near white entertainers and shun others who are dark and more skillful.

There is a level of self-hate there that need to be addressed, but the first step is to admit it. Many would not ask that type of question in fear that they would learn the truth about themselves, but trust me, more than you'll ever know, they are thinking it and acting on it.

If people would only be honest with themselves, they would admit to thoughts they've had or the fact that they know people who would rather marry a racist and cut off all contacts with their friends and family, just to have a child with "pretty hair".

[julie*mango]

Re: Am I brainwashed?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Magic</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Serenity82</div><div class="ubbcode-body">One of my preferences when I decide to have kids is that they have the softest hair as possible.</div></div>

Breed wid Blu. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img] </div></div>



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[julie*mango]

Re: Am I brainwashed?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Geneva</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Donnika</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TLC_29</div><div class="ubbcode-body">S82, yu show all ah di symptoms of lackabuddyitis...... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] </div></div>

yuh know me always wonder how unnoo rate buddy summuch like it's all dat? it's only ok, it can cause tummuch problems </div></div>



[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img] yes sometimes it can cause problems. </div></div>

Buddy nuh cause no problem is just the owner [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img]

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

Re: Am I brainwashed?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelly</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Geneva</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Donnika</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TLC_29</div><div class="ubbcode-body">S82, yu show all ah di symptoms of lackabuddyitis...... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] </div></div>

yuh know me always wonder how unnoo rate buddy summuch like it's all dat? it's only ok, it can cause tummuch problems </div></div>



[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img] yes sometimes it can cause problems. </div></div>

Buddy nuh cause no problem is just the owner [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img] </div></div>

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] yu rite enoh Skelly

[Boopie2]

Re: Am I brainwashed?

A real woman would be focusing of the health of the baby instead of it's hair texture. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] Even if a health problem exists a real woman will step up to the plate and learn to live with that as well, to make her child's life the best she can make it.

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

Re: Am I brainwashed?

Someone earlier said that this is whats on most peoples mind, but they're just afraid to admit it.

Who would really have something as insignificant as hair texture on their mind as far as a baby concerned? Like Boopie said, there are far more important things to think about in terms of having a child.

Shame on the people who even ponder such a ignorant thing.... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img]

[Stormmey]

Re: Am I brainwashed?

Shame on you all [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img]

S82 doan have no problems it's just those yt racist people. just keep right on posting those stories bout those people being nasty to you get it out of your system girl. I will keep right on reading [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bannana_purple.gif[/img]