Question for the Men: What questions should a woman ask to weed out the players?

[Tropicana]

Okay, let's try this again. Instead of me suggesting questions....

What questions should a woman ask before during and after the first date to::

- weed out the players?
- ensure that a few months down the road a man doesn't play one of the following cards;

[ ] "misunderstanding"?
[ ] "we're just friends"?
[ ] "I was never attracted to you"?
[ ] "you were just a booty call"?
[ ] "we're just friends with benefits"?

Note I have covered scenarios in which baggy gets dropped and baggy does not get dropped.

You would think if baggy gets dropped the man is attracted and one wouldn't end up in the "never attracted to you" or "just friends" piles but these days.
Men have even played these cards after a woman gets pregnant.

[missus_vegas]

if di baggy good and if yuh no breed den di man will stay

[Tropicana]

if di baggy good and if yuh no breed den di man will stay

Blugiant. I hope you are around. Need you to turn on the TV and watch the Bachelorette just this once. Desiree gave her heart to someone who didn't love her back and now she is devastated. Mi tink she did drop baggy and everything.

How can a woman prevent the same thing from happening to her?

[blugiant]

Blugiant. I hope you are around. Need you to turn on the TV and watch the Bachelorette just this once. Desiree gave her heart to someone who didn't love her back and now she is devastated. Mi tink she did drop baggy and everything.

How can a woman prevent the same thing from happening to her?

neva watch da bachelorette

su mii guess widd a name like desiree she iss a wannabee mzungu woo got rejected. dat doan sund rite cah den typa show a usuallee oyinbo ting.

tropi sund like yuh askinn wat oomen do so dem doan gitt hurt inn relationship. oww dat ole thyme chune go evereebadee play da fool sumtime so deer iss no advice peeps can give oww natt to gitt hurt cah part aff relationship.

tropi mii wance ask wan ooman out ann shi neva sed yess ar no. shi went ann ask da ooman woo shi always saw mii walkinn bout mii. mii cousin told ar wi ar furst cousin butt fram dat mii lost awl intarest inn ar.

yuh cood be attracted to da ooman att furst but ova thyme yuh see sum aff ar negative attreebutes dat doan mesh widd yuh soo itt bettar fe xxit stage rite

[blugiant]

if di baggy good and if yuh no breed den di man will stay

a wat yuh reallee seyinn vegas?

witch baggee good ann witch wan badd

[Tropicana]

neva watch da bachelorette

su mii guess widd a name like desiree she iss a wannabee mzungu woo got rejected. dat doan sund rite cah den typa show a usuallee oyinbo ting.

No she is a White girl who got dumped by a White guy.

tropi sund like yuh askinn wat oomen do so dem doan gitt hurt inn relationship.

Exactly. Who wants to waste months with a guy think things are going on nicely and then out of the blue, one of the cards that I mentionned up soh gets played. ESPECIALLY if de ooman did drop baggy. Can you imagine the humiliation.

oww dat ole thyme chune go evereebadee play da fool sumtime so deer iss no advice peeps can give oww natt to gitt hurt cah part aff relationship.

tropi mii wance ask wan ooman out ann shi neva sed yess ar no. shi went ann ask da ooman woo shi always saw mii walkinn bout mii. mii cousin told ar wi ar furst cousin butt fram dat mii lost awl intarest inn ar.

yuh cood be attracted to da ooman att furst but ova thyme yuh see sum aff ar negative attreebutes dat doan mesh widd yuh soo itt bettar fe xxit stage rite

But then why not say that. Say "I've lost interest"...not "I was never interested...I was never attracted to you" or some other garbage like that It makes a woman feel like a bleeding jackass and think she completely misread the signals. I makes one think they can't trust their own judgement or believe their own eyes and ears. Why can't people just be honest.

I am thinking at least if one gets straight answers up front, no one can come with foolishness later. They'll have to be more honest. "I lost interest because of ...whatever." or perhaps "So and so drop baggy and mi tek i' and now mi noh wan ave fe face your anger so mi going pretend tse nutten nevah did gwan or stawt between you and me. "

See what happens when people aren't honest:

http://www.jamaicans.com/forums/showthread.php?69229-The-Bachelorette&p=716475#post716475

[missus_vegas]

a wat yuh reallee seyinn vegas?

witch baggee good ann witch wan badd

well there is dis ooman on the internet mi no memba har name but she have a an internet radio thing called something or other uncut. she is jamaican. neways she say. if the something good and and u mek it quint di man will stay. and u have to be a freak in the bedroom. she say u cant be a "lady" in the bedroom u gotta freak it up. she kinda raw fi post on here so i wont even bother looking her up.

so in answer to tropi question....if these oomen di tun up di ting, the man would a never play ne a dem cards. him would have been trapped like fly on a fly trap

[Tropicana]

Her name is Tulips and Emperah says that the show is bogus.

Are you going to tell me that the reason the men are paying the assorted cards....

[ ] "misunderstanding"?
[ ] "we're just friends"?
[ ] "I was never attracted to you"?
[ ] "you were just a booty call"?
[ ] "we're just friends with benefits"?

is that either:

1. De ooman neva drop baggy?

2. She drop baggy but nevah gwan like freak?

3. She drop baggy and gwan like freak but she got pregnant?

[Tropicana]

So far no one has suggested any questions to weed out players. Are there no questions to wee out players?

[missus_vegas]

Her name is Tulips and Emperah says that the show is bogus.

Are you going to tell me that the reason the men are paying the assorted cards....

[ ] "misunderstanding"?
[ ] "we're just friends"?
[ ] "I was never attracted to you"?
[ ] "you were just a booty call"?
[ ] "we're just friends with benefits"?

is that either:

1. De ooman neva drop baggy?

2. She drop baggy but nevah gwan like freak?

3. She drop baggy and gwan like freak but she got pregnant?

yes to all!

thought dis was common knowledge

[Tropicana]

No it isn't

[Tropicana]

But wait not even one deghey-deghey question?

[missus_vegas]

But wait not even one deghey-deghey question?

Best time to get any secret out of a man is before his breathing goes back to normal.

[f0rTyLeGz]

But wait not even one deghey-deghey question?

Saw this and thought of you straight away

http://www.chicagonow.com/fanning-flames-since-1978/2013/08/the-things-that-keeps-a-woman-single/

[Tropicana]

My cute and cuddly centipede. How are you? I have mised you...bad...bad...bad.

Great article....I particularly like the part about the women that dress like sluts (my words not his....his were more graphic. )