Marriage and the Condom

[Pepper]

Is it reasonable for a married woman to ask/tell her husband to use condoms?

I saw an acquaintance over the weekend. After the birth of her first child, she told hubby she is not going back on birth control pills, so he will have to use condoms. He agreed and they started using condoms. But of course, there were a couple of times when they rolled over in the middle of the night and nothing was used. This lead to a second baby.

I listened to her and shook my head....wondering...

How could she expect her husband to use a condom, isn't barrier free sex one of the benefits of marriage?

If she didn't want a baby, shouldn't protecting HERSELF been one of her top priorities?

How did she get him to agree to use condoms?

Is this more prevelant than I imagine? Are there lots of married people using condoms?

BTW, di second likkle boy was cute cyaan done. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70377-loveeyes.gif[/img] Now after the fact, she uses her own birth control.

[Kurlie]

Re: Marriage and the Condom

After the birth of my first son...the pills made mi sick and my ex-husband use condoms for birth control. I think he agreed to it for a different reason but dats a whole nedda story and thank God he did.

But she should not be the only one responsible for protection though, does he/did he want another baby? If not, he should have protection himself too.

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: Marriage and the Condom

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Pepper</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Is it reasonable for a married woman to ask/tell her husband to use condoms?

I saw an acquaintance over the weekend. After the birth of her first child, she told hubby she is not going back on birth control pills, so he will have to use condoms. He agreed and they started using condoms. But of course, there were a couple of times when they rolled over in the middle of the night and nothing was used. This lead to a second baby.

I listened to her and shook my head....wondering...

How could she expect her husband to use a condom, isn't barrier free sex one of the benefits of marriage?

If she didn't want a baby, shouldn't protecting HERSELF been one of her top priorities?

How did she get him to agree to use condoms?

Is this more prevelant than I imagine? Are there lots of married people using condoms?

BTW, di second likkle boy was cute cyaan done. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70377-loveeyes.gif[/img] Now after the fact, she uses her own birth control. </div></div>


My GF had a lot of problems with BC so her an hubby currently use condoms AND she got him to agree to go get snipped [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70371-jump.gif[/img]

[CeaBee]

Re: Marriage and the Condom

When i was breastfeeding my babies, i didnt want to use any hormonal type of bc...soh a condoms did haffi use.

[BlessedLadyOfZion]

Re: Marriage and the Condom

Condoms all the way [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70371-jump.gif[/img]

[sistagirl]

Re: Marriage and the Condom

Why you so excited about it Z? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[BlessedLadyOfZion]

Re: Marriage and the Condom

Cause I is[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img]

Mi juss hope mi nuh roll over an breed [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70384-praying.gif[/img]

[Suesumba]

Re: Marriage and the Condom

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Aynat_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">[quote=Pepper]Is it reasonable for a married woman to ask/tell her husband to use condoms?

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in these days of "hobbyists", DL-ers and the like yes.

[CeaBee]

Re: Marriage and the Condom

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: LadyZ</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Cause I is[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img]

Mi juss hope mi nuh roll over an breed [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70384-praying.gif[/img] </div></div>

keep a condom unda u pillow for emergencies [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

[BlessedLadyOfZion]

Re: Marriage and the Condom

Lord, de amount a sitten weh mi have unda mi pilla.. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/blush.gif[/img]

[sistagirl]

Re: Marriage and the Condom

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

I [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70384-praying.gif[/img] mi roll ova and breed [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70384-praying.gif[/img]

[annshan2]

Re: Marriage and the Condom

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: sistagirl</div><div class="ubbcode-body">[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

I [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70384-praying.gif[/img] mi roll ova and breed [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70384-praying.gif[/img] </div></div>

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[tuffstuff]

Re: Marriage and the Condom

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] sistagirl yu did take operation to turn round dat ting? what dem do? it painful?

wow, i guess i need to buy some trojan stock [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek.gif[/img]

[sistagirl]

Re: Marriage and the Condom

Very soon Tuff... very soon [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bannana_purple.gif[/img]

[Magician]

Re: Marriage and the Condom

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: LadyZ</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Lord, de amount a sitten weh mi have unda mi pilla.. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/blush.gif[/img] </div></div>

Beg yuh tell mi is wah yuh kip unda di pillow nuh Zed. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70384-praying.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/hungry.gif[/img]