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Secondary virginity.
What's past is past. No one can go back and undo the mistakes he has made. We all live with certain regrets. But the good news is that our past does not define us. Nothing that has happened to us or that we have done has to determine what our future will be like. Our present choices determine what our future will be, not our past actions. You can start fresh today.
A great place to start is to talk with a physician about your sexual history so that he or she can give you the proper health care or testing that you need. You're not a virgin anymore, but secondary virginity is about second chances. God allows U-turns! And you have the chance to make one right now. Make a commitment beginning now that you will not have sex again until your wedding night. What a special gift to give to your future spouse! The only way to have safe sex is to save sex for marriage.
And if somebody overpowers one person, two can resist him. A cord of three strands is not easily broken. (Ecclesiastes 4:12)
To help you with your commitment, tell your parents, a mentor, your significant other, or some close friends about your decision and ask for their help in holding you accountable to abstaining from future sexual activity. If they don't want to help you make healthier and wiser decisions in your life, then that lets you know just what kind of friends they are. Find people around you who will be supportive of this new decision and tell them about it.
The Crisis Centers
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Secondary virginity.
What's past is past. No one can go back and undo the mistakes he has made. We all live with certain regrets. But the good news is that our past does not define us. Nothing that has happened to us or that we have done has to determine what our future will be like. Our present choices determine what our future will be, not our past actions. You can start fresh today.
A great place to start is to talk with a physician about your sexual history so that he or she can give you the proper health care or testing that you need. You're not a virgin anymore, but secondary virginity is about second chances. God allows U-turns! And you have the chance to make one right now. Make a commitment beginning now that you will not have sex again until your wedding night. What a special gift to give to your future spouse! The only way to have safe sex is to save sex for marriage.
And if somebody overpowers one person, two can resist him. A cord of three strands is not easily broken. (Ecclesiastes 4:12)
To help you with your commitment, tell your parents, a mentor, your significant other, or some close friends about your decision and ask for their help in holding you accountable to abstaining from future sexual activity. If they don't want to help you make healthier and wiser decisions in your life, then that lets you know just what kind of friends they are. Find people around you who will be supportive of this new decision and tell them about it.
The Crisis Centers
Anyone trying it?
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