Which is stronger/more important to you?

[Night Nurse]

To Love or to be loved?

Wen mi tink bout peeple whe a kill demself and a fite ovah man/ooman, mi haffi wanda a wat triggah di fite/anger.

Is it because dem love dem or need to be loved by dem? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

Re: Which is stronger/more important to you?

In this case it's to love. If you loved yourself enough, you would never think about taking your own life(or others for that matter) because you are no longer loved by your SO.

Clearly, she needed to be loved by him.....

[ILP]

Re: Which is stronger/more important to you?

BLICE is wah you have inna fi you cup dis mawnin, cah you is mighty deep [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70374-lipsrsealed.gif[/img]

mek mi ponder dis one while mi gone running ahn den a likkle more while mi at pilates ahn den mi will get back to you.

[Night Nurse]

Re: Which is stronger/more important to you?

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[Nunya]

Re: Which is stronger/more important to you?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: BlakICE_Queen</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
Wen mi tink bout peeple whe a kill demself and a fite ovah man/ooman, mi haffi wanda a wat triggah di fite/anger.

Is it because dem love dem or need to be loved by dem? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] </div></div>

Neither [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70392-silly.gif[/img]

[Night Nurse]

Re: Which is stronger/more important to you?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: BlakICE_Queen</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
Wen mi tink bout peeple whe a kill demself and a fite ovah man/ooman, mi haffi wanda a wat triggah di fite/anger.

Is it because dem love dem or need to be loved by dem? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] </div></div>

Neither [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70392-silly.gif[/img] </div></div>

Dis yah kwestion was nat fi di likes a yuh. Mi nuh tink yuh andastan dose tings. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/iluvu.gif[/img]

[Nunya]

Re: Which is stronger/more important to you?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: BlakICE_Queen</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/iluvu.gif[/img] </div></div>

Dis mean yuh looking fi kill me, doan? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/whatever.gif[/img]

[Stormmey]

Re: Which is stronger/more important to you?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: BlakICE_Queen</div><div class="ubbcode-body">To Love or to be loved?

Wen mi tink bout peeple whe a kill demself and a fite ovah man/ooman, mi haffi wanda a wat triggah di fite/anger.

Is it because dem love dem or need to be loved by dem? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] </div></div>

They were already insecure and needy, dangerous combination!! You have to love yourself stop depending on others for your happiness. Never allow yourself to be defined by another person...at least I don't.

[Yvonne N.]

Re: Which is stronger/more important to you?

I prefer to be in the role of loving others.
That's what I have control over.
It takes nothing from me... to love, to wish someone well, to have goodwill for...to <u>not</u> kick to the curb...to chastise...to look out for...to love...however love is defiined.
However, nobody can be forced to love me.
That's entirely out of my control...and not my desire.
If they love me, that's pleasant..but if not...then that's their choice...
I prefer to love...and to love freely... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif[/img]

[BND1999]

Re: Which is stronger/more important to you?

i think both are important...

and it depends on what kind of love we are talking about...

its wonderful to feel love for a lover.. friends.. family.. to give... esp someone you feel "in love" with... you feel like you are full.. enriched.. and it feels good to give of self..

but sure it feels good to be loved and cared for as well.. no matter how much you love yourself... are solid within... there is a great feeling inside to feel appreciated and loved..

unrequited love is painful for anyone.... its not the need to be loved. but its the sadness of not having the love returned the same way......

fortunately love and time heals all.. and there is more than one love for all of us

[Jazz]

Re: Which is stronger/more important to you?

I'll give my love only afta mi si seh dem love mi...
and I make sure hole back some... it's important to mi dat dem love mi stronga dan how mi love dem...

anytime mi si mi ah love out ova sumaddy - mi jus pull back an rein miself in...

fram mi ah likkle pickney my madda always tell mi seh - mek sure dem love u more dan how u love dem - dat always stick inna my head and it's served me well over the years - nuh si no reason fe change now.

[niceniss]

Re: Which is stronger/more important to you?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jazz</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I'll give my love only afta mi si seh dem love mi...
and I make sure hole back some... it's important to mi dat dem love mi stronga dan how mi love dem...

anytime mi si mi ah love out ova sumaddy - mi jus pull back an rein miself in...

fram mi ah likkle pickney my madda always tell mi seh - mek sure dem love u more dan how u love dem - dat always stick inna my head and it's served me well over the years - nuh si no reason fe change now. </div></div>

LOL!

a true ting you a talk dough, oddawise all sorta advantage might get tek a u. me prefer meself ova anyman and me naw fight nobody fi him affections caw dat impossible. if him feel di need fi deh wid smaddy else den a time me look elsewhere.

[Compry]

Re: Which is stronger/more important to you?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: BlakICE_Queen</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/iluvu.gif[/img] </div></div>

Dis mean yuh looking fi kill me, doan? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/whatever.gif[/img] </div></div>

BOAL [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

I read the initial post and was getting all serious thinking about it. This killed it. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

Anyway ICE, they are both important. If both people give love without expecting anything back, it's a wonderful thing.

[Bandana]

Re: Which is stronger/more important to you?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jazz</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I'll give my love only afta mi si seh dem love mi...
and I make sure hole back some... it's important to mi dat dem love mi stronga dan how mi love dem...

anytime mi si mi ah love out ova sumaddy - mi jus pull back an rein miself in...

fram mi ah likkle pickney my madda always tell mi seh - mek sure dem love u more dan how u love dem - dat always stick inna my head and it's served me well over the years - nuh si no reason fe change now. </div></div>


Sometimes I wish my Mother had told me these things [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img]

I think I have given a lot more love than I have gotten in my life time. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img]

I pray the next love I have will love me the same, not more, but just as deeply as I love them!

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70384-praying.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/blushing2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70384-praying.gif[/img]

Until then, I am done giving love out freely. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]

And I certainly ain't gonna fight to give it... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70392-silly.gif[/img]

[applepie]

Re: Which is stronger/more important to you?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jazz</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

fram mi ah likkle pickney my madda always tell mi seh - mek sure dem love u more dan how u love dem - dat always stick inna my head and it's served me well over the years - nuh si no reason fe change now. </div></div>

same advice mi granny use to give.