Stalkers

[Nylah]

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[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] stop laugh after me tuffstuff [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

when I was in junior high, he would tell me who I was playing with at recess during the day. What we were doing. What I was wearing....... So it's either some one on the playground, or someone watching the play ground.

If I went to the mall after school, which shops I went into. Sometimes would tell me what I bought. Again, he would tell me who I was with and what I was wearing. He was obessed with how I dressed. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]

It was those kinda things that make you dismiss it as a silly prank at first but then starts to creep you out when you are older.

He then started telling me who I should be friends with and who I shouldnt talk to. They were always other boys.......

[diabolical_Tanya]

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[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img] Nylah [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img] glad it did not escalate...

I've had a few stalkers over the years [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] always some rejected male [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad.gif[/img]

One guy, we had dated for a bit and I was on the verge of ending it with him. One Saturday I went somewhere with girlfriends, don't recall where but know it was a daytime thing. I got home in the evening and my answering machine (before the days of cell and voicemail) was FULL and it was a 90 min tape. all the calls were from him where are you we need to talk blah blah AND he left a letter in my mailbox [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek.gif[/img] now this dude lived allll the way across town from me like 25mins drive [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] Soh di sunday mi a leff out fi goh a work (mi did do shift work ) usually mi leave at 6:30 but this day my sift was later so mi neva leave di house till 7:30. as mi walk out di door him cyar drive up, him have coffe from Tim's seh him did come fi drive mi goh a work [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] soh chroo mi nevah want him fi get bexer, mi goh inna di cyar, when mi tek di coffee di sittin cole soh till [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] come fi find out later on dat him did park up outside a mi house fram 5 a clack inna di mawnin [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img]

Mi did haffie call him madda an him fadda an mek dem talk to him....an dis was nat a pickney

[Nylah]

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Tanya man, that was a dangerous thing to do getting into the car with him [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] Thank God the man didnt try nuttin stupid that ends up on the 6 o'clock news..... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img]

but you see it - when you are in that situation you just try to do what you can to not make it escalate to something you truly cant handle.

My little stalker would tell me how I was the only one for him. And that we were gonna get married when I grew up. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] Adn how happy he would make me.

You just wonder what ppl are capable of when they start obsessing about another person.

[Jazz]

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Mi did have wan ah mi ole job... used to lef messages on mi work phone... like dis...

"I saw you in that little black skirt today and I loved the way it rode your round little Axx, your body is so nice and tight - if i could just hold you and get under there one day I would... an then it sem him get choke by the emotion of wah him woulda do mi an de call cut awf" [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img]

needa time mi go ah wan conference an afta mi done prepare wan speech fe de nex day mi go jump inna de pool - roun 2 ah clack de morning... quite a few of my co-workers were int ehre as well...

wen mi reach back ah de office dere was anedda message fram im ah talk bout mi inna mi bading suit an weh him woulda do an how mi baddy mek im hat an ray ray an agen it end wid wan choking soun...

at the same time wan neda maniga did ah get soem frightening calls...

"you Fat Witch - you are such a stupid hoe one of these days i'm gonan wring your stupid effing neck etc."

so dem call FBI an voice analyst... mi tell dem seh mi nuh ahveno idea ah who - de voice was not anyone that I had day to day dealings with... de odda lady seh she have an idea an go dem ah name...

anyway - turn out to be the VP of marketing for our technical division - him did ah mek both kind of calls - dem fyah him an dem stap... but for a while mi did ah walk an watch mi back caws mi nevva know if im did h go flip afta dem fyah him - it was not a good feeling.

[diabolical_Tanya]

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what makes people do these things?

[Nylah]

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lawd that's some scary ish Jazz.

that part about him making a choking sound cause he was "overwhelmed" is just down right nasty.

[Jazz]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

lawd that's some scary ish Jazz.

that part about him making a choking sound cause he was "overwhelmed" is just down right nasty. </div></div>

den him tun out to be big big VP - marrid wid pickney!!!

[blugiant]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Inspired by the Changing Numbers thread


Anybody have to change their number or where they lived due to a stalker?

I had a stalker who called my house all the time when I was younger but didnt have the good sense to realize that this ish wasnt right until I was older (and my parents found out [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img])

It started when I was about 14 years old. The guy would call and tell me what I did that day; what I was wearing; what he thought of me in the clothes that I was wearing; who I was with, etc.

I thought it was funny for the first couple of years and then realized that this guy was watching my every move all the time. When I told my parents they of course freaked and we had to change our phone number, and my mom decided to move elsewhere. (She wanted to move anyways).

The calls stopped after that and noone every approached me afterwards but I always wondered just how close to danger I really was...... </div></div>

iff a fimi dawta mii wood tekk sum thyme aff ann fallaw ar widd wan booknockular ann iff mii ketch dat eediat nuff sed. iff mii neva ketch mii wood mekk babylon putt wan tracea pon da phone

dat parsan sick

[Q3210]

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With the use of the internet many of the old time stalkers who used the phone lure dumb lonely victims to their lurid corner of the world.