Angry

[Boopie2]

Just called one of my friends to check on her and the kids, she says that they have no heat. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img] She was going to the rental office to complain, where is her deadbeat husband. Out of town with his other woman nice and warm. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img]

I told her that I would just come and pick them up so they could stay here, she says that she was taking the kids to take a picture with Santa and would come by this evening. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] Sorry but the last thing on my mind would be hauling kids in this cold and taking some stupid picture of Santa. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]

Santa's not helping her or the kids one bit. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] Last week I came 2 seconds from spanking the 4 year old. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img]

[Nunya]

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k.

[evanovitch]

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so Boops wen di husban is in town, him live deh wid dem [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] mi hope not given dat him ha outside ooman an obviously oblivious to di needs of him kids

[Boopie2]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: evanovitch</div><div class="ubbcode-body">so Boops wen di husban is in town, him live deh wid dem [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] mi hope not given dat him ha outside ooman an obviously oblivious to di needs of him kids </div></div>

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] The kids are with her 24/7, he exists with them Monday through Friday then he's gone, he doesn't provide a penny. his kids are afraid of him and doesn't like when he comes home they tell her he's always fighting with their mom. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70374-lipsrsealed.gif[/img] I was really p'd off when she took leftovers from our Thanksgiving dinner and making him a plate the next day. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img]

She doesn't drive so I try and help her out here and there, the last time it was raining buckets outside and she wanted to get medicine and food for the kids, he turned around and told her to call me to take her. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img] Kids or no kids I'm sorry his nasty butt would have been gone a long time ago. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70384-praying.gif[/img]

[Night Nurse]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: evanovitch</div><div class="ubbcode-body">so Boops wen di husban is in town, him live deh wid dem [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] mi hope not given dat him ha outside ooman an obviously oblivious to di needs of him kids </div></div>

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] The kids are with her 24/7, he exists with them Monday through Friday then he's gone, he doesn't provide a penny. his kids are afraid of him and doesn't like when he comes home they tell her he's always fighting with their mom. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70374-lipsrsealed.gif[/img] I was really p'd off when she took leftovers from our Thanksgiving dinner and making him a plate the next day. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img]

She doesn't drive so I try and help her out here and there, the last time it was raining buckets outside and she wanted to get medicine and food for the kids, he turned around and told her to call me to take her. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img] Kids or no kids I'm sorry his nasty butt would have been gone a long time ago. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70384-praying.gif[/img] </div></div>

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img] Cho, yaaah kanfyuuze me yaah man.

[Boopie2]

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What is so confusing? I said that when he is home (Monday- Friday morning) his kids are afraid of him cause he's always arguing with their mother. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img] He doesn't care about his boys, never takes them anywhere or does anything with them. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img]

[applepie]

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So he lives there Monday to Friday and is out of town on the weekends?.............Did she get the maintenance to fix the heat?

[Boopie2]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: applepie</div><div class="ubbcode-body">So he lives there Monday to Friday and is out of town on the weekends?.............Did she get the maintenance to fix the heat? </div></div>

They fixed it today. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70384-praying.gif[/img] Emotionally, I don't think I can take this. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70361-embarassed.gif[/img]

[Yvonne N.]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: applepie</div><div class="ubbcode-body">So he lives there Monday to Friday and is out of town on the weekends?.............Did she get the maintenance to fix the heat? </div></div>

They fixed it today. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70384-praying.gif[/img] Emotionally, I don't think I can take this. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70361-embarassed.gif[/img] </div></div>

You or her? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

Boopie, m'dear...apparently she's getting her needs met (deficient thought they may be)...

...she can proudly say, "I gotta man!"

[Boopie2]

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The only thing she's proud about are her kids, I worry about them all of the time. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70361-embarassed.gif[/img]

[UKBlackLady]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] The kids are with her 24/7, he exists with them Monday through Friday then he's gone, he doesn't provide a penny. his kids are afraid of him and doesn't like when he comes home they tell her he's always fighting with their mom. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70374-lipsrsealed.gif[/img] I was really p'd off when she took leftovers from our Thanksgiving dinner and making him a plate the next day. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img]

She doesn't drive so I try and help her out here and there, the last time it was raining buckets outside and she wanted to get medicine and food for the kids, he turned around and told her to call me to take her. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img] Kids or no kids I'm sorry his nasty butt would have been gone a long time ago. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70384-praying.gif[/img] </div></div>

Wow... How sad is this? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img] She obviously doesn't hold herself or her children in any sort of regard at all. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]

[phoenix]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Just called one of my friends to check on her and the kids, she says that they have no heat. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img] She was going to the rental office to complain, where is her deadbeat husband. Out of town with his other woman nice and warm. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img]

I told her that I would just come and pick them up so they could stay here, she says that she was taking the kids to take a picture with Santa and would come by this evening. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] Sorry but the last thing on my mind would be hauling kids in this cold and taking some stupid picture of Santa. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]

Santa's not helping her or the kids one bit. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] Last week I came 2 seconds from spanking the 4 year old. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img]

</div></div> How is your getting mad helping your friend? It sounds like this is wearing you out. You obviously care about your friend, but it sounds like you need to treat yourself to a break from her, her kids and all their drama.

[BlessedLadyOfZion]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

Santa's not helping her or the kids one bit. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] Last week I came 2 seconds from spanking the 4 year old. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img]

</div></div>why were u gonna do that?? especially wid de kinda work yuh do yuh supposed to have all kinds a patience an tolerance an ting. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bubble.gif[/img]

[Suesumba]

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Boopie's friend sounds like she's got all her ducks in a row as Shandra pointed out [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/whatever.gif[/img]

[Boopie2]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: LadyZ</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

Santa's not helping her or the kids one bit. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] Last week I came 2 seconds from spanking the 4 year old. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img]

</div></div>why were u gonna do that?? especially wid de kinda work yuh do yuh supposed to have all kinds a patience an tolerance an ting. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bubble.gif[/img] </div></div>


I have all the patience and tolerance in the world, these kids are like my nephews, I am their aunt. I had treated the whole family out for lunch, the 4 year old was being very bratty and disrespectful towards his mom as well as myself. He had done almost everything under the sun including fighting with his older brother. Any time a child stands up in your face wanting to go toe to toe with you then he or she needs discipline. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70456-eyebrows.gif[/img]