"You don't have any nice friends?"

[Mutty]

There is a concept known as the LADDER THEORY. Basically, part of it states that there are some women who will relegate a man to "friend" status. This man has received this label because the woman knows full well he is NEVER, EVER going to get the goods. He might as well be gay. She will turn to him for advice when she's looking for a guy, when she has broken up with a guy, when she wants to know if she looks good in a dress, to help her build up her esteem or courage but he is NOT getting into her panties for one reason or another.

Now, if you were this guy and not gay, have an interest in her that she has already immobilized with the "I don't want to spoil the friendship" line, would you feel "a way" when she asks you to help her find a man? Would you look at her like, "wha kinna assness dat?"

[Bizzy]

Re: "You don't have any nice friends?"

LOL. So yuh couldn't just tell me u ain't know nobody instead of coming on here to complain? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img]

[Kurlie]

Re: "You don't have any nice friends?"

LOL.... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

a who do you dat Mutty?

[Mutty]

Re: "You don't have any nice friends?"

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Bizi</div><div class="ubbcode-body">LOL. So yuh couldn't just tell me u ain't know nobody instead of coming on here to complain? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img] </div></div>


Play wid fire.

[Mutty]

Re: &quot;You don't have any nice friends?&quot;

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MrsKurlie</div><div class="ubbcode-body">LOL.... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

a who do you dat Mutty? </div></div>

Bizi.

[Kurlie]

Re: &quot;You don't have any nice friends?&quot;

Hush...afta dat mi wooda cut off de friendship

[Mutty]

Re: &quot;You don't have any nice friends?&quot;

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MrsKurlie</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Hush...afta dat mi wooda cut off de friendship </div></div>

LOL!!!

Yes, it happens to women too.

[Kurlie]

Re: &quot;You don't have any nice friends?&quot;

a lie...tell mi one ooman dat happen to?

[Mutty]

Re: &quot;You don't have any nice friends?&quot;

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MrsKurlie</div><div class="ubbcode-body">a lie...tell mi one ooman dat happen to? </div></div>


Yes, some women get the "friend" label too.

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: &quot;You don't have any nice friends?&quot;

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MrsKurlie</div><div class="ubbcode-body">a lie...tell mi one ooman dat happen to? </div></div>Me [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img]

[niceniss]

Re: &quot;You don't have any nice friends?&quot;

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mutty</div><div class="ubbcode-body">There is a concept known as the LADDER THEORY. Basically, part of it states that there are some women who will relegate a man to "friend" status. This man has received this label because the woman knows full well he is NEVER, EVER going to get the goods. He might as well be gay. She will turn to him for advice when she's looking for a guy, when she has broken up with a guy, when she wants to know if she looks good in a dress, to help her build up her esteem or courage but he is NOT getting into her panties for one reason or another.

Now, if you were this guy and not gay, have an interest in her that she has already immobilized with the "I don't want to spoil the friendship" line, would you feel "a way" when she asks you to help her find a man? Would you look at her like, "wha kinna assness dat?" </div></div>

I had a friend who refused to be that friend. when I told him about my date he said "so wha wrong wid me? why you a tell me bout odda man?" aye sah, from desso me keep me mout shut and still behave platonic wid him widout mentioning other men. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[Mutty]

Re: &quot;You don't have any nice friends?&quot;

Dang. They took out the WHOLE thread. LOL!!! Ja.com Mods are great I tell ya.

[Mutty]

Re: &quot;You don't have any nice friends?&quot;

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Donnika</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mutty</div><div class="ubbcode-body">There is a concept known as the LADDER THEORY. Basically, part of it states that there are some women who will relegate a man to "friend" status. This man has received this label because the woman knows full well he is NEVER, EVER going to get the goods. He might as well be gay. She will turn to him for advice when she's looking for a guy, when she has broken up with a guy, when she wants to know if she looks good in a dress, to help her build up her esteem or courage but he is NOT getting into her panties for one reason or another.

Now, if you were this guy and not gay, have an interest in her that she has already immobilized with the "I don't want to spoil the friendship" line, would you feel "a way" when she asks you to help her find a man? Would you look at her like, "wha kinna assness dat?" </div></div>

I had a friend who refused to be that friend. when I told him about my date he said "so wha wrong wid me? why you a tell me bout odda man?" aye sah, from desso me keep me mout shut and still behave platonic wid him widout mentioning other men. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] </div></div>


I call the "friend" label the "kiss of death." You want to sex up the person, be with them, love them up, always in their company and they won't even let you sniff them. LOL!!!

[Bizzy]

Re: &quot;You don't have any nice friends?&quot;

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mutty</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Dang. They took out the WHOLE thread. LOL!!! Ja.com Mods are great I tell ya. </div></div>the thread is still there. the renkin post ain't [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img]

[Mutty]

Re: "You don't have any nice friends?"

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Bizi</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mutty</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Dang. They took out the WHOLE thread. LOL!!! Ja.com Mods are great I tell ya. </div></div>the thread is still there. the renkin post ain't [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img] </div></div>

What was 'renk' about the post? Two piece a breast? lol