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'bun fi bun' - wife claims my penis is small, cheats
Dear Pastor,
Sometime ago I wrote you about my wife and her immoral conduct. I told you that, from her actions, I suspected she had another man. You told me I didn't have any proof she was having an affair. I knew she was having an affair, I could not prove it. My wife saw your response and used it against me, so I backed off.
One day, circumstances caused me to go in her bag, at her request. She had a sudden 'women' problem, and she was in the bathroom. Her bag was in the bedroom, so I went to fetch what she wanted. To my surprise, I saw a pack of condoms in the section where she had her sanitary napkins. She could not explain how it got there. Until now, she has not admitted she has had extramarital affairs.
Pastor, I have known this woman from we were in high school. We went to see a family counsellor, but she told the counsellor I was lying, no condom was in her bag. I forgave her, but, since, I have found out the name of the man she is having the affair with. it is always coming up before me.
She is always complaining that my penis is too small but, when we were having sex, as young people she never complained.
My wife embarrasses me all the time. She tells her friends everything we do or say. I asked her whether she told them she was keeping a man with me.
Pastor, I want to know if it is because my penis is too small (according to her) why she is cheating on me.
I cheated back on her, but she doesn't know, and the girl didn't complain about the size of my penis.
B.D
Dear B.D,
Am I to understand this is 'bun for bun'? It does appear that way. You may have believed that everything was alright in the relationship, but it wasn't. You suspected she was having an affair, but you had no proof.
Frankly, I don't think this woman cared whether you found out. She went to the sessions to please you, but it meant nothing to her, and I won't be surprised if she is still having an extramarital relationship. You ought to know that having sex with another woman doesn't that the size of your penis is adequate.
The other woman might not tell you, because she really is not your woman. She acted like a substitute and a substitute, is not permanent. The truth be told, some women are not afraid to tell men whether they are small or large.
Women openly discuss with their friends, and even people they don't know, that size matters.
Some ignorant men curse their women and tell them they are too large.
Well, I get these letters all the time from young men who believe they are too small, and would like to get larger.
My answer to them is that they should go see their family doctor, who would advise them appropriately.
Let us get back to your wife, whose pack of condom did she have in her bag?
Do you believe it was a girlfriend's? I am afraid your wife is not interested in this relationship. You should be prepared for a break-up at anytime. If she stays with you. prepare to get 'bun' often.
Pastor
Dear Pastor,
Sometime ago I wrote you about my wife and her immoral conduct. I told you that, from her actions, I suspected she had another man. You told me I didn't have any proof she was having an affair. I knew she was having an affair, I could not prove it. My wife saw your response and used it against me, so I backed off.
One day, circumstances caused me to go in her bag, at her request. She had a sudden 'women' problem, and she was in the bathroom. Her bag was in the bedroom, so I went to fetch what she wanted. To my surprise, I saw a pack of condoms in the section where she had her sanitary napkins. She could not explain how it got there. Until now, she has not admitted she has had extramarital affairs.
Pastor, I have known this woman from we were in high school. We went to see a family counsellor, but she told the counsellor I was lying, no condom was in her bag. I forgave her, but, since, I have found out the name of the man she is having the affair with. it is always coming up before me.
She is always complaining that my penis is too small but, when we were having sex, as young people she never complained.
My wife embarrasses me all the time. She tells her friends everything we do or say. I asked her whether she told them she was keeping a man with me.
Pastor, I want to know if it is because my penis is too small (according to her) why she is cheating on me.
I cheated back on her, but she doesn't know, and the girl didn't complain about the size of my penis.
B.D
Dear B.D,
Am I to understand this is 'bun for bun'? It does appear that way. You may have believed that everything was alright in the relationship, but it wasn't. You suspected she was having an affair, but you had no proof.
Frankly, I don't think this woman cared whether you found out. She went to the sessions to please you, but it meant nothing to her, and I won't be surprised if she is still having an extramarital relationship. You ought to know that having sex with another woman doesn't that the size of your penis is adequate.
The other woman might not tell you, because she really is not your woman. She acted like a substitute and a substitute, is not permanent. The truth be told, some women are not afraid to tell men whether they are small or large.
Women openly discuss with their friends, and even people they don't know, that size matters.
Some ignorant men curse their women and tell them they are too large.
Well, I get these letters all the time from young men who believe they are too small, and would like to get larger.
My answer to them is that they should go see their family doctor, who would advise them appropriately.
Let us get back to your wife, whose pack of condom did she have in her bag?
Do you believe it was a girlfriend's? I am afraid your wife is not interested in this relationship. You should be prepared for a break-up at anytime. If she stays with you. prepare to get 'bun' often.
Pastor
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