On-line Flirting Tips

[Tropicana]

Well I made a few mistakes....first I told him that he resembled someone very good looking who is famous (which he does). But I make it a point NEVER to make comments like that to men who live in Toronto.

Turns out he does.

So far so embarrassing but......what followed is worse.

Him: Hey girl! How are you? I have a question. Do you know any hair stylists looking for a chair rental opportunity? I have a friend who owns a salon and she needs to fill a chair.

Me: No not really.

[QUOTE]Him: Well if any crosses your path, you can let them know its this salon in the _______ area[/QUOTE]

Me: Is it Black hair..I only ask as I see extensions.

Him: No, I think its very diverse in there. I'm going to check him out next week. I've known him a couple months now but have never been into the salon.

Me: Are you going to have extensions done?

Then the other shoe dropped:

Him: LOL! NO! LMAO. You know how many drag queens over the years have been trying to get me into extensions and wigs. LOL.

Me: Oh dear..

Me: Does that mean you bat for the other team?

Him: Oh yeah, I'm their star hitter. Full bottyman baby.

Me: Oh my gosh...where did you learn that expression?

Him: I have so many friends, who knows. I'm part Guyanese too so I have many friends from many cultures

Me: Oh ok...did you know that I am Jamaican?

Him: Yeah, that's why I said it.

[Tropicana]

Lessons learned...make sure he is not in your town and if he is make sure you are ready to own whatever you say.

Make sure he isn't a chi-chi man.

[Suesumba]

*smirk*

[Tropicana]

Yikes this should be in relationships.

From he said "Hey girl.." I should have realized.

[Tropicana]

Oh dear...same guy...he doesn't get it.

His email:

Hi it's _____:

What's going on, how are you?
So I got a new client and this is going to make you laugh. I'm going to be doing her events from now on.

It's called _________ ___________. It's like a Tupperware party where you order products but this is for sex toys. I told you! LOL.

I'm doing her marketing and I created a different type of event at a really cool bar. Check it out, here's the link;

______________________________________

Send me an email if you decide you want to come.

Thanks!
__________

My response:

LOL Hate to break it to you ______ but my nickname is Miss Prude City. There are 7.125 billion in the world and I am the last person on the planet who would be into something like that. So, alas you have picked the wrong person.

Better luck next time.

His response:

LOL, at the very least I hope you got a good laugh. Miss Prude City, LOL, that is funny.

I should ask your personal opinion then. Ever since I've taken on this account, I've been asking myself if I'm going to be promoting on my own personal channels.

I'm an________ _______so I should be using my own resources but on the flip side, I work with ________and have my own professional image to protect as well.

What do you think? Should I keep this kind of thing private? I can't make up my mind.

My advice:

Personally, I wouldn't touch it with a tuning fork but that's a call you're going to have to make for yourself.

His Reaction:

LOL, tuning fork. Good one. I guess we'll see where this goes.

[Suesumba]

did you initiate contact? because if he's gay - what's he doing on a heterosexual site unless he's bi? :curious:

[Tropicana]

No I didn't and it wasn't on a "dating" site. It was on a business site he contacted me.

I get all kinds of invitations for "networking".

If the person is somoene who sparks my interest they get my "Just want to make sure there are no misunderstandings. Are we meeting for business networking or is this a date?" Men always say "Good question." If they say networking and I am interested in them it's "Sorry wang ansah" and I decline politely. If it is someone who is not of interest in that way, I skip the question pre-screening question.

Just got an invitation today.He's taking me for tea and we'll network. No pre-screening question needed. He is of no interest to me and we've done this before.