Its just wrong..........

[honeyb85]

This guy i know met a girl about a year ago, they got engaged quite quickly (after about 3months) The girl is about 8years older than the guy (hes only 19) He's a nice guy who likes to have a good time, has a really good personality and is not bad looking now the girl is the total opposite very quiet doesnt go out and nothing special to look at. They dont really have anything in common.
She said to him from the beginning that she didnt want to have sex before marriage and whenever he stayed over at her house he had to sleep in the spare room. Now that wouldnt be my choice but each to there own. BUT she has been engaged before and had sex before with THAT guy!!!!!
Well they got married the other day and guess they done the deed but to me this is all very strange and if i was the guy there is no way i would put up with that.

[Nylah]

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but u arent the guy.... so if he was okay with that waiting for sex what exactly is wrong with that?

[niceniss]

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if he thought the girl was "nothing special to look at" and boring then he wouldn't be with her now, would he? he waited and now he's having sex. a ur body or a her's? u gwine dictate what smaddy should do wid dem body?

[honeyb85]

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No and thats fine if thats someones belief but i dont really agree that have sex with one person then all of a sudden dont want to have sex until married when already have with another guy. Why was it ok to do it with him but not the person that planning on marrying.

[niceniss]

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maybe she wisen up and realized that she can't just be giving sex for free. everything in life has a price and value and maybe she just seeing hers. anyways, why is it ur business wha dem do? u did want him fi yuhself?

[Nylah]

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perhaps she learned some lessons the first time around and decided to do things differently in this relationship to make sure it doesnt end in divorce.

maybe the guy likes that she is so different from him and is quiet, etc. plus if they waiting for so long they obviously spent time getting to know each other better. Sex complicates things, so slowing down in that area was probably a benefit to their relationship.

it may not be for everyone, but obviously it was right for those two.

just wish them well.

[honeyb85]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Donnika</div><div class="ubbcode-body">maybe she wisen up and realized that she can't just be giving sex for free. everything in life has a price and value and maybe she just seeing hers. anyways, why is it ur business wha dem do? u did want him fi yuhself? </div></div>

boal. no i didnt. Just giving my opinion and asking others opinions too. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif[/img]

[niceniss]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

Sex complicates things, </div></div> not to mention expensive and risky. just fi likkle pleasure u could endup wid pickney or disease.
me no undastan why everybaddy think as u meet dem yuffi opin out u cratches otherwise u is a prudish weirdo. some man now think u fi sex wid dem and mind dem too. so costs and risks are urs only.

k, dat was on a tangent, but still... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img]

[Hush Darlin]

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Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder
to you she might not look al that and to him she is beautiful
plus beauty is only skin deep
she might not be great looking on the outside to you
but she can have a good heart, very loving and a wonderful person
and the guys see good quality in her
mi noh blame ar if she can hold out for marriage then there is nottin wrong with that

[Suesumba]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: HONEYB85</div><div class="ubbcode-body">This guy i know met a girl about a year ago, they got engaged quite quickly (after about 3months) The girl is about 8years older than the guy (hes only 19) He's a nice guy who likes to have a good time, has a really good personality and is not bad looking now the girl is the total opposite very quiet doesnt go out and nothing special to look at. They dont really have anything in common.
She said to him from the beginning that she didnt want to have sex before marriage and whenever he stayed over at her house he had to sleep in the spare room. Now that wouldnt be my choice but each to there own. BUT she has been engaged before and had sex before with THAT guy!!!!!
Well they got married the other day and guess they done the deed but to me this is all very strange and if i was the guy there is no way i would put up with that. </div></div>

were you interested in the guy and he rejected you for the *nothing special to look at* girl?

[turtledude]

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Why would they get married if they had nothing in common? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

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yu want im fi yuself no troo? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/popcorn.gif[/img]

[mountaingal]

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sue, turkle and tilly oonu no hear di ooman seh is not dat she want im fi harself? is just di paradigm is unfamiliar to her - the bride not being a virgin but insisting on no sex before marriage with the current beau.

some people find that hard to wrap their heads around...

[Hush Darlin]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: HemGee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
some people find that hard to wrap their heads around...
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mi granny always sey if you noh ha nottin good fe sey shet up u mouth
and mi tink dis is one a dem poas wha shudda neva been posted...well IMHO
de title alone speaks volume of jealousy

[Suesumba]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: HemGee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">sue, turkle and tilly oonu no hear di ooman seh is not dat she want im fi harself? is just di paradigm is unfamiliar to her - the bride not being a virgin but insisting on no sex before marriage with the current beau.

some people find that hard to wrap their heads around...
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so, why she so interested in what the woman chooses to do with her woo woo? maybe the question should be if she wants the woman fi harself [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]