She Nuh Easy

[Pepper]

Me was chatting with a co-worker odda day.

The conversation turned to relationships. She said her husband has been messing up, so she put him on ‘corrective plan’. (that’s the term we use at work when someone is one step from getting fired) I laughed and told her she was too funny.

She said, no. I gave him a performance appraisal, based on what he agreed to do when we got married and compared it to what he has done. I sat him down, wrote it all down, graded him on the key aspects of his performance. Showed him where he fell short, offered him suggestions on how to improve and told him he has one year to correct the problems or I am leaving. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img]

I looked at her and realized she was serious. She said, its just like when you accept a job offer. You agree to some KPI’s and if you fall short, your manager will usually work with you to help you improve your performance. Marriage is the same thing.

This is an interesting approach. But still she nuh easy at all. Her husband called her a b.buster. She said, life is too short to be unhappy, so him have di year fi set things right. They both work here, so it will be interesting to see what happens. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/popcorn.gif[/img]

[RichD]

Re: She Nuh Easy

so she nuh haffi go thru the appraisal process too?

[Suesumba]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body">so she nuh haffi go thru the appraisal process too? </div></div>

first thought that came to my mind. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek.gif[/img]

[Pepper]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body">so she nuh haffi go thru the appraisal process too? </div></div>

Please, if yuh see him and see har. Him will nevah get dat lucky agen in life. All him do is [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70377-loveeyes.gif[/img] when him see har.

Him is a computer nerd, and almost looks like the PC guy in the Mac PC Commercials. Although the PC guy is better looking and in better shape.


She is simply gorgeous. All now me nuh know how him get har.

But to ansah, she nevah say nutten bout him having any issues.

[RichD]

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so him haffi jus tek di crap if him want to keep her ?

dem have kids?

[diabolical_Tanya]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body">so him haffi jus tek di crap if him want to keep her ?

dem have kids?

</div></div>

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bubble.gif[/img] desperate times call fi despreate measures [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bubble.gif[/img]

[RichD]

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so you saying him mus tek di crap?

[diabolical_Tanya]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body">so you saying him mus tek di crap? </div></div>If him noh like di crap or noh want di crap him noh haffie tekkie. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bubble.gif[/img]

Him need fi grow some balls or tek what him deserve.


Personally, I could not be with a wimpy man, or a "yes dear man" because mi know mi woulda tek him tun door mat an den hate him fi it [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img]

[Pepper]

Re: She Nuh Easy

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body">so him haffi jus tek di crap if him want to keep her ?

dem have kids?

</div></div>

No kids.

Me nuh know bout fi har crap. Membah a fi har side me a hear.

[RichD]

Re: She Nuh Easy

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Pepper</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body">so him haffi jus tek di crap if him want to keep her ?

dem have kids?

</div></div>

No kids.

Me nuh know bout fi har crap. Membah a fi har side me a hear. </div></div>

im callin what she is doing crap....she coulda stay pretty likle more mi woulda run her if she did come to me wid dat.

[Mutty]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Pepper</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
She is simply gorgeous. All now me nuh know how him get har.
</div></div>

Probably the size of his hard drive.

[Pepper]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

im callin what she is doing crap....she coulda stay pretty likle more mi woulda run her if she did come to me wid dat. </div></div>

OIC

Well dem still togedda. She said they sat down and went through the entire performance review. So him nevah stop har. Well if me and har still wuk same place, me haffi mek sure find out if him move from unsatisfactory to meets requirements.

[Pepper]

Re: She Nuh Easy

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mutty</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Pepper</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
She is simply gorgeous. All now me nuh know how him get har.
</div></div>

Probably the size of his hard drive. </div></div>
Only you would come up with that. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif[/img]

[Jazz]

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If he does not "improve" does she strike u as the type of person that will follow through on her threats to leave him, or is this just a bargaining tactic?

[Pepper]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: natJazz</div><div class="ubbcode-body">If he does not "improve" does she strike u as the type of person that will follow through on her threats to leave him, </div></div>

Based on what me know from har work ethic. YES.

And based on how she spoke during our chat, YES agen.