Could she have missed out?

[7777]

Me friend see one guy inna de supermarket. Him a watch har and she see him a watch har, but she noh pay him noh mine..
She tek har grocies to the car, and the bradda fallow har and him come over to har, and she hi...
Him tell har seh she look like him sister, dats why him wayna look pon har face . Him ask har if she live inna de neighborhood etc, and she seh yes. him tell har seh him live a de bronx and him just work inna de neighborhood..
anyway...
long story shart..
Him ask har if she married.. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/blush.gif[/img]
Poor she noh know wha fe seh, she tell him "yes" when a noh even troo.. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]
The boy looked embarrassed, finshed the conversation and leff...

My question to you is..
Should she have just tell him the trooth?. could she have missed out on a possible mista right? was she correct in just "shooing him off"...
tell me, cus she a read de board...
What exactly happened here..

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: Could she have missed out?

Why oh why would she say she is married when she is not????? yes shi miss out...unless shi noh find him attractive

[Gen]

Re: Could she have missed out?

that depends.


Did she get a "stalker vibe" from him ? a gut instinct that something wasn't right about him ? NO

then maybe she missed out.


Yes ? then mek him galang guh stalk smaddy else

[7777]

Re: Could she have missed out?

she seh dat she notice de brother inna de supermarket, and how him look like har cousin husband..
Yes him did finnnnnnnne... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70371-jump.gif[/img]
The problem she said, wha dat him ask har if she married, and dat turn har off..
hence har answer of "yes" when it really is no..

Nope, she didnt say anything bout stalker vibes..

[Gen]

Re: Could she have missed out?

suh why she a tell him seh she married if she did find him attractive ? nuh bettah him be respectful and ask status before him start lyrics har .


yes tell har seh she miss out.

[honeyb85]

Re: Could she have missed out?

I dont think he gave her any reason to lie to put him off. Should be open and welcoming to new guys in all situations. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

[kia027]

Re: Could she have missed out?

but wait... unno madda neva teach unno fi noh meet man a street eh? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img]

u supposed fi meet man chru u fambly, church or friends so u can get de references in

[MarieK]

Re: Could she have missed out?

dat is stupid di brother wanna know if she married or not what's so wrong in that. Oh wait she watn wan man who nuh have no problem dipping into the forbidden pot? kissteet a eediat ting dat

[Nunya]

Re: Could she have missed out?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: 7777</div><div class="ubbcode-body">The problem she said, wha dat him ask har if she married, and dat turn har off..
</div></div>

Yuh fren soun fool...

[honeyb85]

Re: Could she have missed out?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body">but wait... unno madda neva teach unno fi noh meet man a street eh? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img]

u supposed fi meet man chru u fambly, church or friends so u can get de references in </div></div>

Dont have very big family, dont go to chruch and some of my friends bf's i wouldnt want to know there friends if they anything like them.
I not bothered about references i can make my own judgement. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img]

[seemiyah]

Re: Could she have missed out?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: 7777</div><div class="ubbcode-body">The problem she said, wha dat him ask har if she married, and dat turn har off..
</div></div>

Yuh fren soun fool... </div></div>

Dats funny... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] Anyway tell nuh mine cause him say she look like him sister and den a go look har dat sort a creepy she do di right ting. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img]

[sistactry]

Re: Could she have missed out?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: 7777</div><div class="ubbcode-body">The problem she said, wha dat him ask har if she married, and dat turn har off..
</div></div>

Yuh fren soun fool... </div></div>

a lot of women who no married feel, how should I put it, self conscious, like why u no married, because thats most mens reaction....but if me was she, me wudda say, separated or divorced, juss so me can get another word,

she go use de word married and a dehso argument dun,

Kia, u rite, but wha u fe do, a new times dem dis enoh,

[Suesumba]

Re: Could she have missed out?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Freaky_Gen</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
Did she get a "stalker vibe" from him ? </div></div> [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

valid:
he watched her in the supermarket;
followed her to her car;
claimed she looked like his sister --&gt; like you don't know what your own flipping sister looks like so you have to stare at smaddy fi determine if a really yu sista dat; [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]
asked her pointed personal questions;

[kia027]

Re: Could she have missed out?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SistaCtry</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: 7777</div><div class="ubbcode-body">The problem she said, wha dat him ask har if she married, and dat turn har off..
</div></div>

Yuh fren soun fool... </div></div>

a lot of women who no married feel, how should I put it, self conscious, like why u no married, because thats most mens reaction....but if me was she, me wudda say, separated or divorced, juss so me can get another word,

she go use de word married and a dehso argument dun,

Kia, u rite, but wha u fe do, a new times dem dis enoh, </div></div>

reach out and connect , join organizations and when in doubt get his fingerprint, ssn and id and do a search pon im

[Gen]

Re: Could she have missed out?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Freaky_Gen</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
Did she get a "stalker vibe" from him ? </div></div> [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

valid:
he watched her in the supermarket;
followed her to her car;
claimed she looked like his sister --&gt; like you don't know what your own flipping sister looks like so you have to stare at smaddy fi determine if a really yu sista dat; [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]
asked her pointed personal questions;

</div></div>


that's why mi nuh chat to stranger, cause the minute him follow me to mi cyar mi wouldan mace him [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

but some people nuh mind the stranger thingy [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70374-lipsrsealed.gif[/img]