A foofah money?

[Night Nurse]

Nuff a mi fren dem a fite widd dem man ovah money/spending.

One of dem husban sell di house rite out from anda dem but mi feel sey it was fi har fault still, sayka how shi gave di entire running a di bank book ovah tuh him. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70392-silly.gif[/img]

Mi tell har sey shi a eediat and fi har money and fi DEM money shooda separett. Shi sey dat is not how marrijj fi wurk an yadda-yadda-blah-blah-blah. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img]

What unnoo tink? Shood money mix up sayka unnoo marrid? Nuff man an oomanz have financial woes ennuh. But shi a tell mi bout dat nuh matta when peeple get marrid. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] A chroo dat?

MI? Tekk dat awwwn? Mussi mad! [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

Re: A foofah money?

mi nuh married but mi believe seh....

wi fi have wi jint account....an mi fi have wan "juss in case im stawt smell imself" account weh im nuh know bout..... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img]

[Nunya]

Re: A foofah money?

There should be at least three bank accounts...

[ILP]

Re: A foofah money?

well di current mr ilp ahn mi have the following:
1. di current mr ilp account
2. ilp account
3. wi mix up account

out of di mix up account comes di mortgage, gas, light, water, insurance, etc.
out of fi wi separate account come whatever wi feel fi spend it on. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

but wi juss doing a ting, suh wah wi a do might nuh guh suh...

[Phatty]

Re: A foofah money?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Juss_ILP</div><div class="ubbcode-body">well di current mr ilp ahn mi have the following:
1. di current mr ilp account
2. ilp account
3. wi mix up account

out of di mix up account comes di mortgage, gas, light, water, insurance, etc.
out of fi wi separate account come whatever wi feel fi spend it on. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

but wi juss doing a ting, suh wah wi a do might nuh guh suh... </div></div>

I agree [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

Re: A foofah money?

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[Boricua_papi]

Re: A foofah money?

Mi a chry dis mix up account wid mi ex wife. Cum tuh fine out dat shi spen awf alla di money inna it wen wi tallied di assets durin di divorce proceedings. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img] Neva again. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img]

[kingy]

Re: A foofah money?

seperate dem.

[applepie]

Re: A foofah money?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">There should be at least three bank accounts... </div></div>

ditto

[Nylah]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">One of dem husban sell di house rite out from anda dem but mi feel sey it was fi har fault still, sayka how shi gave di entire running a di bank book ovah tuh him </div></div>

she is an eeidat for true. If he could sell the house from right under her it isnt just cause her name isnt on the bank account but it also isnt on the mortgage/title.......othrewise how can he sell the house without her knowledge [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]

let her stay there with her "this is how marriage goes" [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]
if that is how its suppose to go, why is she complaining to you then.

u have joint accounts for your bills etc. and then keep separate accounts so that each has their discretionary funds to do as the like.

[Boopie2]

Re: A foofah money?

No way, that is why so many people fight over money. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]

[kia027]

Re: A foofah money?

interesting...

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the problem isnt the accounts but the fact that both parties have to be active in managing the accounts.

we pay bills together , we do we budget planning together..

when I was home (ie nat working outside jab) I managed the day to day accounts and we shared decisions on the investments.

Now we set time aside to manage it all and communicate

[twiney]

Re: A foofah money?

since we have 2 very different spending style I wouldnt want to mix up our money except for bills and so (i'm the bad one).

[kia027]

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btw mi couldn resist.. she didnt notice a for sale sign on the house?

[twiney]

Re: A foofah money?

mi no think so but if house going to buy all when mi no put dolla mi name haffi deh pon that mortgage ... mi nah stop him from sell if a fi him money alone buy it but mi need advance notice of what going on.