New Year...New Topic for the Men: Would you date this self-loathing black woman?

[Tropicana]

The only thing that would make her even more self-loathing is if the weave was blonde.


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So how about it men. Would you date her? What if you were sure if she would ?

If I find more examples I will post them.

Disclaimer: The photo is from an ad for a dating site that appeared right here on Ja.com. Well at least she is not blonde or Asian...but I thought this would make an interesting discussion

[Emperah]

mi wouldan love smaddy fi come hexplain dis tuh I, smaddy come tell mi how di smaddy inna de pic become a self loathing blk ooman wid a weave dat is str8 yet de topic stawta is one a dem who brag bout having to str8'n dem hair ar dem cyaan be successful? Mi really need fi ovastand wah really a gwaan yah caz mi nuh get it.
Mi nuh kno if de OP nuh si harself inna dis ar wah, aye sah all in 2K14 de Iphoolishness still a gwaan

[Emperah]

Wondah if dis qualify as a self loathing blk

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ar dis

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wah bout dis

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[blugiant]

The only thing that would make her even more self-loathing is if the weave was blonde.


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So how about it men. Would you date her? What if you were sure if she would ?

If I find more examples I will post them.

Disclaimer: The photo is from an ad for a dating site that appeared right here on Ja.com. Well at least she is not blonde or Asian...but I thought this would make an interesting discussion

yess wen mii use fe date mii wood ave tried a ting. oww yuh aggoo tell fram a parsan pitcha dat dem self loathinn. mii judge peeps by dem action aftah mii gitt fe kno dem

tropi yuh kno wance a ooman luv a man shi will change certain tings fe tri fe impress imm

[blugiant]

Wondah if dis qualify as a self loathing blk

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ar dis

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wah bout dis

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da middle wan yess cah mii nuh like tattoo even dough tattoo inn afrikka lang beefore oyinbo

[Tropicana]

yess wen mii use fe date mii wood ave tried a ting. oww yuh aggoo tell fram a parsan pitcha dat dem self loathinn. mii judge peeps by dem action aftah mii gitt fe kno dem

tropi yuh kno wance a ooman luv a man shi will change certain tings fe tri fe impress imm

Disappointed in you blugiant. I thought you were more conscious than that.

Yes for sure if a woman is going to put in a weave down to her kimba and wear a Marilyn Monroe T shirt it says a lot about her mentality.

Not going to debate the discrimination against natural hair topic here. It is a fact. Whether one likes it or not, hairstyles do have an impact on career opportunities in certain careers and those who do not bother to pick up the phone or right a letter of complaint to try and put a stop to the discrimination have no right to criticize Black women who have to make tough choices to earn a living. Let someone else take the hit to their pocketbook. I have done enough and got no support from the Black community. The top of my hair is natural, the rest is wash and wear and I make no apologies for that.

There are 4 whole threads devoted to natural hair, war on natural hair, discrimination 'gainst natural hair, and natural hair care tips . This is about Black men choosing to date women who are clearly sell-outs.

[Tropicana]

Blugiant, the women in the photos you posted dress like sluts. I am surprised that that would appeal to you.

No woman who has self-respect would dress like that or wear clothes like that. The hair is not my cup of tea but at least it is Afro-centric. That is a different form of self-loathing unrelated to race.

[Emperah]

da middle wan yess cah mii nuh like tattoo even dough tattoo inn afrikka lang beefore oyinbo

Unless yuh have a convo wid har yuh cyaan look pan dese tree yasuh an cawl dem anyting, dat would be ignorant, yuh nuh tink suh?

[j-kid]

Di top wan inna har apartment doing art, an di bottom wan in beach wear pan di beach. Why yuh tink dem ah slxxs? Maybi smaddi else poas dem pics pan di net.

[Tropicana]

Art? What kind of art requires the painter to be topless?

On the beach with 3/4 of her boobs exposed.






What purpose dat serve boss? Fill me in.

[Emperah]

a wundah if she qualify as a self loather as well

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[j-kid]

1) A nudist artist, would sure qualify, or smaddi whe like fi feel free of restraints wen home.

2) Soh, wha fi yuh beach wear look like?
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Art? What kind of art requires the painter to be topless?

On the beach with 3/4 of her boobs exposed.






What purpose dat serve boss? Fill me in.

[RichD]

On the beach with 3/4 of her boobs exposed.






What purpose dat serve boss? Fill me in.

ketch man ....now you know end of discussion .

[Suesumba]

i wanna know if they would date a strong slack ooman - no mi mean slack.

[Tropicana]

ketch man ....now you know end of discussion .

I guess is her way of advertising she read fe