standing by your man/stand up your woman

**neutral** · 03-12-2008, 05:20 PM

Re: standing by your man/stand up your woman

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

No if your wife had the powerful position and hired a prostitute for herself and got caught. Would you still have her as your wife? Men can't take those things at all. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] </div></div>

It would depend on circumstances in our marriage,but if I was satisfying her sexually I would question if I could continue in the marriage.

My opinion is that women are not programmed to be as sexually promiscious as men.

**MarieK** · 03-12-2008, 05:23 PM

Re: standing by your man/stand up your woman

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Newtral</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MrsMarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Newtral</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: loops</div><div class="ubbcode-body">so whats the deal with men newtral. wouldn't you feel odd sticking your dick in a complete stranger? someone you've never even as much as spoke to? and paying for it to boot?
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my opinion on this is that men think ONLY about THEIR needs. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70390-shhh.gif[/img] </div></div>

And its no more than we evolved to do sexually,we are what we are. </div></div>

what would be your views on a woman who chooses to do the same. </div></div>

It`s not the same,both sexes are what we are for very different reasons,women didnt evolve to spread their seeds.
Nature intended the man to be hunter gatherers,and women to stay at home and nurture the children.
It`s us that has changed the rules,..and we have seen in cases like these that it just doesnt work.

Edited to add that monogamy is unatural,it work for some but not for others,we shouldnt condemn those that fail. </div></div>

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I cannot even comment on this

**evanovitch** · 03-12-2008, 06:17 PM

Re: standing by your man/stand up your woman

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Newtral</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body">It's easy to say what you would or wouldn't do in that situation because you are not going through it. Like Evan says who knows what kinds of emotions would take over that would make you stay and tough it out. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/ideathink.gif[/img] Women and men have been through worst situations and have stayed. </div></div>

I`m not saying I condone what spitzer did,but as a man I understand why he did it,and I think there is no way of empathising without coming across as a male chauvinist pig,..both sexes will always have a different opinion when it comes to men going with prostitutes. </div></div>

juss to be clear...u empathise wid him over an above sympathising... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

**neutral** · 03-12-2008, 07:05 PM

Re: standing by your man/stand up your woman

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: evanovitch</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Newtral</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body">It's easy to say what you would or wouldn't do in that situation because you are not going through it. Like Evan says who knows what kinds of emotions would take over that would make you stay and tough it out. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/ideathink.gif[/img] Women and men have been through worst situations and have stayed. </div></div>

I`m not saying I condone what spitzer did,but as a man I understand why he did it,and I think there is no way of empathising without coming across as a male chauvinist pig,..both sexes will always have a different opinion when it comes to men going with prostitutes. </div></div>

juss to be clear...u empathise wid him over an above sympathising... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] </div></div>

nothing wrong with that.

**mangoskin** · 03-12-2008, 07:12 PM

Re: standing by your man/stand up your woman

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Newtral</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I suspect that women who are married to powerful men such as spitzer will in the majority of cases stick by him,because a loss of power for the man also mean a drop in social class for the woman,they are not protecting the man,..they are protecting their position. </div></div>

yes and they have 3 daughters

**neutral** · 03-12-2008, 08:36 PM

Re: standing by your man/stand up your woman

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: mangoskin</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Newtral</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I suspect that women who are married to powerful men such as spitzer will in the majority of cases stick by him,because a loss of power for the man also mean a drop in social class for the woman,they are not protecting the man,..they are protecting their position. </div></div>

yes and they have 3 daughters </div></div>

I saw the wife standing by spitzer at the press conference and she looked like she was crying,she looked beaten,she looked like a pathetic figure who didnt want to be there and was forced to.

**seemiyah** · 03-12-2008, 08:46 PM

Re: standing by your man/stand up your woman

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: loops</div><div class="ubbcode-body">theres a big difference between deciding to work it out with your partner and possibly staying....but NO...i can safely say i'd not stand up there like a pathetic suckah and support him in this particular dark moment. That's a firm NOT

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Agreed. If she want to work it out after that's her business, but this sharing in the public humilation for a deed that was not your own and a wrong comitted against you is just hard to grasp.

**seemiyah** · 03-12-2008, 08:47 PM

Re: standing by your man/stand up your woman

yes she looked rougher than in the first press conference, she must have read the complaint.

**evanovitch** · 03-12-2008, 09:56 PM

Re: standing by your man/stand up your woman

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Newtral</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: evanovitch</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Newtral</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body">It's easy to say what you would or wouldn't do in that situation because you are not going through it. Like Evan says who knows what kinds of emotions would take over that would make you stay and tough it out. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/ideathink.gif[/img] Women and men have been through worst situations and have stayed. </div></div>

I`m not saying I condone what spitzer did,but as a man I understand why he did it,and I think there is no way of empathising without coming across as a male chauvinist pig,..both sexes will always have a different opinion when it comes to men going with prostitutes. </div></div>

juss to be clear...u empathise wid him over an above sympathising... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] </div></div>

nothing wrong with that. </div></div>

juss dat empathy has a personal experience element...sympathy is more abstract

**Boopie2** · 03-12-2008, 10:27 PM

Re: standing by your man/stand up your woman

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Newtral</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

No if your wife had the powerful position and hired a prostitute for herself and got caught. Would you still have her as your wife? Men can't take those things at all. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] </div></div>

It would depend on circumstances in our marriage,but if I was satisfying her sexually I would question if I could continue in the marriage.

My opinion is that women are not programmed to be as sexually promiscious as men. </div></div>

You act like women are saints, a woman will and does do the same thing but for different reasons.

X · 03-13-2008, 12:30 AM

Re: standing by your man/stand up your woman

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">k. everybody must by now know the whole eliott spitzer thing.

question for the women here: could you stand up there while he did the whole apology speech with a weird smile plastered on your face?

same thing with that guy in ohio or some place (there's been many).

question for the men here: what the hell would be going through your mind as you offer up your apologies for doing *that*dirty*thing?

assuming you hold some position of authority/power, etc. </div></div>

good question..
mi wanda di same bout the women..
Would they stand by if he was joe-smoo? Or do they stand by cause they have bagged themselves a "powerfullman" and the thought of loosing dat is unbearable.
Is it selfish greed/ambition or thoughtfullness for the "family sake".
Hillary Clinton for example, had an agenda. Her thing was simply ambition.

As for what would be going thru mi mind... hmmm [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] a bullet?

Would be interested to see a powerfull woman on the podium apologizing for cheating on her husband, and would be interested to see if the man would stand there.. looking like an ediot.

**Boopie2** · 03-13-2008, 12:32 AM

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That's the same thing as I said, I can't see a man taking it. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

X · 03-13-2008, 12:33 AM

Re: standing by your man/stand up your woman

..further to dat.. Every bady herso know shey women cheat as much as men (or even moreso). Especially women in positions of authority or in relationships where they are the higher earner.

question..

How comes unno NEVER ever get catch??!

**Suesumba** · 03-13-2008, 09:36 AM

Re: standing by your man/stand up your woman

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: xKs</div><div class="ubbcode-body">..further to dat.. Every bady herso know shey women cheat as much as men (or even moreso). Especially women in positions of authority or in relationships where they are the higher earner.

question..

How comes unno NEVER ever get catch??!

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we're like cats. we bury our dirt. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smirk.gif[/img]

**nattydreadgirl** · 03-13-2008, 10:09 AM

Re: standing by your man/stand up your woman

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: xKs</div><div class="ubbcode-body">..further to dat.. Every bady herso know shey women cheat as much as men (or even moreso). Especially women in positions of authority or in relationships where they are the higher earner.

question..

How comes unno NEVER ever get catch??!

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we're like cats. we bury our dirt. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smirk.gif[/img] </div></div>

and smarter [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70390-shhh.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img]

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