Question for the men about Bawlie-Bawlie Women

[Tropicana]

This is inspired by tonight's episode of The Bachelor. I missed most of it but I turned it on to see a woman bawling and freaking out because she did was not getting enough attention from el bachelor.

So how would you handle it if you were out an a woman started bawling because you weren't paying her enough attention.

[Emperah]

Tell har shes a big ooman, stop friggin crying and stop de dyam foolishness

[blugiant]

Tell har shes a big ooman, stop friggin crying and stop de dyam foolishness

tell ar fe putt ar bigg ooman baggy on cah mii doan mess widd likkle gurl

sum ooman use tears fe git sympathee butt mii will watch dem bawl ann natt gitt affected by itt

[Tropicana]

Man oh man....Jamaican men are just so sensitive and understanding.

El Bachelor was very understanding, listened to her, reassured her calmly, said he understood she was going through a hard time and it wasn't easy......but ended by saying "I am a father and I just can't afford to risk having this king of drama around my daughter." He said he was sending her home and not waiting for the rose ceremony.

Now that sounds so much better than put on you and behave like a grown "donkey" ooman.

[blugiant]

Man oh man....Jamaican men are just so sensitive and understanding.

El Bachelor was very understanding, listened to her, reassured her calmly, said he understood she was going through a hard time and it wasn't easy......but ended by saying "I am a father and I just can't afford to risk having this king of drama around my daughter." He said he was sending her home and not waiting for the rose ceremony.

Now that sounds so much better than put on you and behave like a grown "donkey" ooman.

soo yuh want wan senseative, undertandinn ann saft man woo calm da da madd ooman dunn ann dem dump ar. itt natt reallee bout yuh issues. itt bout fimi issues dat y mii affii dump yuh cah aff yuh drama

tropi wan maddar wass threateninn fe commit suicide cah ar husband divorce ar leff fe a youngar ooman. imm leff ar da house ann was payinn child support ann alimony butt shi wood still affii go wukk fe keep da house ann maintain ar life aff leisure. mii told ar dat iff shi waan fe saddle ar yuths widd guilt fe gitt bakk att de man woo leff ar by killinn arself fe go ahead cah dat typa guilt trip iss y imm proably leff ar. shi later tank mii bout wat mii sed enliten ar

[Tropicana]

Okay here is how Juan Pablo handled it.

What tremendous sensitivity. So what do the men think of how he handled it. I will try to find the first part. This is the next day after she flipped out.

He strats talking to her right after 1:00

[Tropicana]

soo yuh want wan senseative, undertandinn ann saft man woo calm da da madd ooman dunn ann dem dump ar.

itt natt reallee bout yuh issues. itt bout fimi issues dat y mii affii dump yuh cah aff yuh drama

Dump me? How me come into dis? Mi have much too much pride fe gwan soh in public. A calm exit and bawling in the car all the way home maybe but no I woudld not let a man see me that upset.

tropi wan maddar wass threateninn fe commit suicide cah ar husband divorce ar leff fe a youngar ooman. imm leff ar da house ann was payinn child support ann alimony butt shi wood still affii go wukk fe keep da house ann maintain ar life aff leisure. mii told ar dat iff shi waan fe saddle ar yuths widd guilt fe gitt bakk att de man woo leff ar by killinn arself fe go ahead cah dat typa guilt trip iss y imm proably leff ar. shi later tank mii bout wat mii sed enliten ar

Why would you datea a woman who was so unstable?

[Tropicana]

Still waiting for the men to tell me what they think of sensitive and gentlemen and what you think of Juan Pablo and how he has handled things.

[Tropicana]

Okay men what do you think of a woman bawling because you didn't kiss her? Turn-on or turn-off? How appealing and attractive is that? How would you handle it?

It happened on The Bachelor tonight.

[Tropicana]

She tried to kiss him and he didn't want to kiss her and she started bawling. He sent her home.

[Xavier]

She tried to kiss him and he didn't want to kiss her and she started bawling. He sent her home.

The video is not longer there to see how he handled it however based on your description it sounds like there are deeper issues. Again I don't watch the show but if he is out on a date with her and this is being filmed he must be paying her some attention. I don't mean to sound insensitive but, maybe she is crying to get some type of leverage on this "reality/game show".

Back to your original question on how man should handle a woman crying. I think it all depends on the situation but in general, a hug or pat on the shoulder, try to figure our if you said something to trigger the crying (apologize or clarify), listen to what the crying lady is saying, see if you can fix or just listening helps. These are not steps as things may happen in a different order depending on the situation...

[Tropicana]

I agree Xavier, it should be handled with sensitivity.

This is the girl freaking out:

Xavier, here again is how he handled it...starts at 1:10

[Tropicana]

Okay what about this. It happened on the Bachelor. Juan Pablo had decided that he was kissing too many women and he wasn't going to do that any more. So one of the blondes who said in advance that she was determined to get him to kiss her...really turned up the heat. She did gwan flirty-flirty and sex it up until he kissed her.

Well apparently next week, in typical trashy blonde behaviour, she is going to pull an even worse stunt.

Clare Crawley seems sweet, don’t get us wrong. She’s beautiful, totally into our boy Juan Pablo Galavis, and is clearly alluring enough to nab not just the first 1-on-1 date of the season, but also the first and last kisses! But something’s awry in Vietnam, as something leaves her in tears! So, what is it that has Clare bawling in the Episode 5 Bachelor promo?Well, as we predicted, it looks like Clare sneaks out to Juan Pablo’s hotel room. We can see El Bachelor slide open his door and look kind of confused. Another scene shows the pair making out in the water at night,



which doesn’t make sense, considering the previous moment involves plenty of formal wear at the group date after-party. So, what gives?
According to Reality Steve, Ms. Clare pulls a Courtney Robertson of sorts, stealing Juan Pablo away to go be one with nature. But unlike the gorgeous Season 16 model/winner, Clare keeps her suit on. Based on how into it Juan Pablo seems when they’re in the water, it seems like he was pretty stoked about swimming with Clare’s fishes.
However, in a later snippet from the promo, it’s obvious that she’s sobbing over something and Juan Pablo says that “whatever happened happened” and Clare says “that wasn’t my intention.” We’re guessing — and RS says he has a feeling as well — that one of the girls saw or found out about Clare’s sly move and told Juan Pabs that it hurt her feelings and wasn’t cool. Clare ends up ruining her gorgeous red dress by crying all over, but is it all over for her? (See what we did there? Journalism.)

So guys, if a woman threw herself at you and and then bawled when she found out you weren't that into her, what would you do. How would you handle it?