Sex: serious questions

[Pepper]

Re: Sex: serious questions

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Gad_Bless_Pickny</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Bizi_fi_lyfe</div><div class="ubbcode-body">a long time u know de yute right??

cyaan memba exactly how de story go weh unu did hook up </div></div>

Mi know him from yard, know him mama, know him sister, know him anty, kno whim cousin dem, mi ana him go a di same school and fram dem time de him did a look mi, but mi neva interested.

Anyway mi buck up ova ya an him start look mi agen, but mi did a avoid him, cause him too cute and girly girly. Last year mi buck him up a one party after one lang dry spell (3 years without any) and decide fi tek him home and and have a one off experience, but since dat time wi a juggle.
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Oh yes, me membah dat tory. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img] Good fi you and him.

[Hush Darlin]

Re: Sex: serious questions

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Gad_Bless_Pickny</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Bizi_fi_lyfe</div><div class="ubbcode-body">a long time u know de yute right??

cyaan memba exactly how de story go weh unu did hook up </div></div>

Mi know him from yard, know him mama, know him sister, know him anty, kno whim cousin dem, mi ana him go a di same school and fram dem time de him did a look mi, but mi neva interested.

Anyway mi buck up ova ya an him start look mi agen, but mi did a avoid him, cause him too cute and girly girly. Last year mi buck him up a one party after one lang dry spell (3 years without any) and decide fi tek him home and and have a one off experience, but since dat time wi a juggle.
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u get addicted now

[mamatun]

Re: Sex: serious questions

To the sex, yes, because it's good, but I'm still not planning to spend my life with him, because I know him too well.

Last night while lying in bed, he asked me what was necessary for him to win my trust. I asked him, how can he expect me to trust him when he was right this moment lying in my bed with me instead of in his own with his baby mother. He said if that was the problem, we can live together. I told him that would even make it worse, because I would always be wondering if and where he was whenever he wasn't around. He said people can change, but I don't believe this.

Cho! Him nice, but him too complicated fi mi and mi hate stress!

Aye sah!

[Hush Darlin]

Re: Sex: serious questions

well u have complicated things and cause stress in your life by sleeping with him
is this the kind of relationship that is called Friends with Benefits

[mamatun]

Re: Sex: serious questions

As said before, I am enjoying the good sex, but not planning to settle down. There is no stress at the moment, as a matter of fact I am well adjusted and relaxed like I haven't been in a long time. Should it start to get stressy, I would unfortunately have to say goodbye to the relationship and chalk it up to life experiences. He knows this [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70456-eyebrows.gif[/img]

[Hush Darlin]

Re: Sex: serious questions

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Gad_Bless_Pickny</div><div class="ubbcode-body">As said before, I am enjoying the good sex, but not planning to settle down. There is no stress at the moment, as a matter of fact I am well adjusted and relaxed like I haven't been in a long time. Should it start to get stressy, I would unfortunately have to say goodbye to the relationship and chalk it up to life experiences. He knows this [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70456-eyebrows.gif[/img] </div></div>
ok
glad that you are happy
as u sey U (((((Gad Bless)))))) [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/laugh.gif[/img]

[kia027]

Re: Sex: serious questions

but will he be willing to accept that is is time to go when it is time to go? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

[Suesumba]

Re: Sex: serious questions

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body">but will he be willing to accept that is is time to go when it is time to go? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] </div></div>

... he's already scoping out a tree in which to hide and watch her as she takes another "drama free" lover. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70390-shhh.gif[/img]

[esp]

Re: Sex: serious questions

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Gad_Bless_Pickny</div><div class="ubbcode-body">As said before, I am enjoying the good sex, but not planning to settle down. There is no stress at the moment, as a matter of fact I am well adjusted and relaxed like I haven't been in a long time. Should it start to get stressy, I would unfortunately have to say goodbye to the relationship and chalk it up to life experiences. He knows this [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70456-eyebrows.gif[/img] </div></div>

A doan blame yuh wan bit.....Enjoy it yaaah mi dear....mek sure him wear boots dung to him toe nail pint doah [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

[esp]

Re: Sex: serious questions

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body">but will he be willing to accept that is is time to go when it is time to go? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] </div></div>

Good question...

[Bizzy]

Re: Sex: serious questions

Sound like u have it all planned out.

So tell mi sumting...yuh nuh waan nuhbaddi fi yuhself?? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

[mamatun]

Re: Sex: serious questions

To answer all the above.

I know him well, if and when it ends no matter how much him a burn him udda live with it and prably try find forgetfulness in some other woman/women, because him nah go want no baddy si seh him a run backa woman who no want him. Yuh si a di type a man weh woman look and him proud a dat.

Second, mi did have smaddy fi miself fi years. It was lovely in the beginning, but later a did pure stress and strife. Di way mi did stress out mi decide fi done wid man and di widout fi ova 3 years, but that did hard.

It hard fi live with dem and it hard fi live without them, so mi decide fi tek di middle way and keep a lover for the sex. Him have him own place of abode and me have mine. Him no have no key to my place and has been told that he should never turn up unexpected at di door, cause mi no open di door if mi not expecting someone.

As said before, we just a gwaan juggle till ......

Mi put all of dat to him and him agree, maybe because him believe seh tings and times will change one day. Well I can't see the future, but right now mi no feel so.

A have di best of both world. Mi no have no man a tell mi whe fi do, but one is available anytime mi need him for whatever. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/cool.gif[/img]

[Bizzy]

Re: Sex: serious questions

so weh u do when u want it/him an yuh cyaan get it cause him cyaan mek de time @ dat moment&gt;??? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/popcorn.gif[/img]

[esp]

Re: Sex: serious questions

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Bizi_fi_lyfe</div><div class="ubbcode-body">so weh u do when u want it/him an yuh cyaan get it cause him cyaan mek de time @ dat moment&gt;??? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/popcorn.gif[/img] </div></div>

Especially ah holiday time or some special event weh yuh decide fi bring ah partner?

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/popcorn.gif[/img] tambrind ball, lychee, june plum,common mango, starapple, rose apple an cane [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/popcorn.gif[/img]

[mamatun]

Re: Sex: serious questions

Can happen to the best of us. What do you do when you want it and your man is not around?

When I need him all I do is pick up the phone and brap a him dat. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70456-eyebrows.gif[/img] And if for some reason not able to mek it, it ogle means dat the next time we come together the pressure higher [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70371-jump.gif[/img]