Makeover

[Phatty]

Ever since me have mi baby mi nuh feel like miself. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/dizzy.gif[/img] I want a makeover and I want you guys help to do it. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/helpsmilie.gif[/img]
I have a closet full of clothes and they belong to a girl that was two sizes smaller a year and 10 months ago. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img]
My hair and make-up doesn't feel as right anymore. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/1teeth.jpg[/img] I feel seperate from myself. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/scareyuh.gif[/img]
So where do I start with this makeover?

[BlessedLadyOfZion]

Re: Makeover

Excercise, diet, lose weight.

Or just throw out all the old clothes and go on a shopping spree for things in your new size an work it [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bannana_purple.gif[/img]dat mi do [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/whistle.gif[/img]

[Suesumba]

Re: Makeover

what's your lifestyle like?
what kind of clothes do you like?
have you accepted your new size?
do you like your new size (bodies change)?
what's your hair like now?


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[Phatty]

Re: Makeover

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">what's your lifestyle like? <span style="color: #FF0000"> </span> Very busy. I am up by 7am and in bed after midnight. Being a working mom has sucked up all my time. I feel there is not enough hours in the day.
what kind of clothes do you like? <span style="color: #FF0000"> </span> I love to be comfortable, but when it comes to work I really love being professional
have you accepted your new size? <span style="color: #FF0000"> </span> No. I've been Yo Yo dieting
do you like your new size (bodies change)? <span style="color: #FF0000"> </span> No
what's your hair like now?


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[Suesumba]

Re: Makeover

k. here's my diagnosis. you don't need a make-over. you need rest. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img]

try the diet/exercise thing weh Zed seh [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif[/img]

[ReggaeGirl2000]

Re: Makeover

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">k. here's my diagnosis. you don't need a make-over. you need rest. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img]

try the diet/exercise thing weh Zed seh [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif[/img] </div></div>

Agreed [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

[Blackstar*]

Re: Makeover

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">k. here's my diagnosis. you don't need a make-over. you need rest. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img]

try the diet/exercise thing weh Zed seh [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif[/img] </div></div>People pay $200+ for that kind of advice. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[Phatty]

Re: Makeover

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: BlackStar</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">k. here's my diagnosis. you don't need a make-over. you need rest. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img]

try the diet/exercise thing weh Zed seh [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif[/img] </div></div>People pay $200+ for that kind of advice. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] </div></div>

Truword [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/ideathink.gif[/img]

[Phatty]

Re: Makeover

Thanx peeps tell you wat happen in a month [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img]

[Suesumba]

Re: Makeover

phatty, fi real, you need smaddy fi help you out if you don't. those are some long hours. never mind the stress on your body, what about your mind?

[Phatty]

Re: Makeover

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">phatty, fi real, you need smaddy fi help you out if you don't. those are some long hours. never mind the stress on your body, what about your mind? </div></div>

Trust me i've thought of that almost a million times. My mother helps out, but only when i'm off to work (when daycare is closed). When I walk in the house she automatically places my baby in my arms. So I play with him a little. Get him ready for bed, put him down to sleep. Then, I straighten up, clean where I can do laundry, or whatever there is to do that I missed doing in the morning. I often eat dinner at midnight so I know that's where my weight gain comes in. There are times where I realized that I haven't eaten all day trying to fit things in. Sometimes i'm so tired I don't move from my desk at work when breaks come. I can't tell the last time I went to the hairdresser, I've been wearing wigs. Which is so not like me. That's why I asked for advice to try and feel like myself again. I haven't felt like myself since i've been preggers.

[Suesumba]

Re: Makeover

i'm not a religious person, but you're in my prayers. it sounds so daunting. you seem pretty strong though.

Sue wonders how phatty could get in touch with safe/sane mothers in a similar situation so that they could swap baby watching time so that they could offer support to each other and get in a bit of hair and nail work [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

[BlessedLadyOfZion]

Re: Makeover

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img]phatty