Epilogue for 'Stella' author

[Caligirl2002]

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Originally posted by neutral:
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Originally posted by BlueAngel:
[qb] yes mi see look at the way he hands are. they have that homoishness to it. You know the cocking of one's fingas. I see it I see it.

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Yeah,I see what you mean,..dead homo giveaway,....and look at those eyes,....he`s got two of them,and a nose in the middle of his face.

All classical signs of a homo. [/qb]

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[BlueAngel]

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Nope not joking about the hands.
But are you joking about the colored contacts and the "lil richard" look??? yuk I wonder what Terry started to think then? I am sweating just for her. I feel soooo sooooo I don't know? I am angry. Sisters united this down low business has got to come to an end!

Come on now you bunch of dirty soh an soh's how dare you drag us into your dirty little lives. Is bad enough we have some many battles to fight. We have to battle our men too. Say it anit sooooooooooooo.

Where is my bokkle of acid? Some disintegration of scared body parts will be history tonight.

[Snuggles]

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maybe its a CHOICE, on his part!

[Guest]

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Originally posted by ep.:
[qb] Life is like a box chocolates........ [/qb]

There you go! You never know what you're gonna get!

[NapiHead327]

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But what about the shower scene and the scene where she cried after doing the do? All that was fake???

How many women watched that movie and wished they could recreate that shower scene or cry after doing the do??? Dang, now what do we have to strive for? [img]/forums/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]

[BlueAngel]

Re: Epilogue for 'Stella' author

Originally posted by neutral:
[qb]

Originally posted by BlueAngel:
[qb] yes mi see look at the way he hands are. they have that homoishness to it. You know the cocking of one's fingas. I see it I see it.

[/qb]

Yeah,I see what you mean,..dead homo giveaway,....and look at those eyes,....he`s got two of them,and a nose in the middle of his face.

All classical signs of a homo. [/qb]

Neutral I am not kidding and sorry to step on your toes but I am angry and this foolishness has got to stop. Our sisters are out there dying, because these men choose to drag us into their livestyle. Just be and and do what you choose to do and leave us out of the equation. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

[Guest]

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Originally posted by NapiHead327:
[qb] But what about the shower scene and the scene where she cried after doing the do? All that was fake???

How many women watched that movie and wished they could recreate that shower scene or cry after doing the do??? Dang, now what do we have to strive for? [img]/forums/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img] [/qb]

Yeah that one got yah too didn't it? Datz all mi seem to be remembering... [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[NapiHead327]

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Originally posted by BlueAngel:
[qb] yes mi see look at the way he hands are. they have that homoishness to it. You know the cocking of one's fingas. I see it I see it.

I wonder what Star Jones is thinking now! [/qb]

You are so freakin' ridiculous!!!! [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

You know you're wrong for that one, but oh so right at the same time.

[NapiHead327]

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Originally posted by blackberryrain:
[qb] In the old pics he looked aiiight to me (if you like the type), but in later pictures, when he started with the colored contacts and the "baby hair" brushed onto his forehead (ala Little Richard) my eyebrows raised a little ... [/qb]

No she didn't bring up the baby hair!!! [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[NapiHead327]

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Blue Angel, Dahlin', go have a stiff drink...since you can't get a stiff (shut yo mouth!).

[BlueAngel]

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Originally posted by NapiHead327:
[qb] But what about the shower scene and the scene where she cried after doing the do? All that was fake???

How many women watched that movie and wished they could recreate that shower scene or cry after doing the do??? Dang, now what do we have to strive for? [img]/forums/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img] [/qb]

Now Nappi what would you do? Fraud! Fraud!

But memba that part was just to spice up movie. I wonder if he really rocked her world in real life. But these down lowers is soh them flex. Rocking bout worlds. soooo wrong.

But life should not be a box of chocolate. If I marry a man I want a man not a man who wants another man. She should be one to sue him! I hope she does. Big fraud. I am sorry Terry I have feelings for you but I really prefer men. Then she would have written another book and another sort would be flocking to JA. We cant win. Ok I am done venting. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/mad.gif[/img]

[blackberryrain]

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you know, somebody alluded to this in the other thread but Terry seemed to be very pragmatic about the whole situation. although i doubt that she anticipated the whole business about him being gay. here's an excerpt from an interview with her a few years ago ..

McMillan cautions against assuming that Stella's story is a thinly veiled autobiography.

"A lot of people think that Stella is just about my meeting Jonathan, and it wasn't. First of all, the way Stella meets Winston [the younger man in the book] is not the way it happened for Jonathan and me. In fact, I think our meeting was more exciting, but I'm not telling how. And a lot of the problems that Stella had with Winston's parents didn't happen to me, but you have to throw all that in to make the story.

"For me, Stella is not so much about an older woman and a younger man. It's about a woman's right to choose her own course of happiness," McMillan says. "The book was a way to fictionalize and give myself permission to seek this happiness. It enabled me to say, `Forget what other people think this is my life and I have a right to live it the way I see fit.' I was hoping that by seeing that on paper, it might empower other women to think about their own situations."

Now, McMillan's situation is blessedly comfortable. She and Plummer, a pet groomer who hopes to open his own business--an upscale doggie hotel--live in an art-filled, pastel-hued manse in Danville, Calif., that McMillan built five years ago. In addition to McMillan's son Solomon, a gifted high school track star and straight-A student, they share the home with a menagerie that includes a cat, three dogs, 30 tropical fish and 40 exotic birds.

Married in 1998 after a three-year courtship, McMillan says that she and Plummer are enjoying the marital ride for as long as they both shall love, which she says may not be for the rest of their lives.

"You know I married a younger man and I just doubt seriously that he and I will be married for 20 years," she says. "Jonathan knows that. I told him, `Let's just do this until our time is up. And if our time isn't up, fine, because I'm not anticipating anything.' But the bottom line is I'm not going at this like some lovestruck teenager. What we have now is cool, but I'm almost 50 years old and I know that things change. He could end up boring me to death or I could shrivel up and all of a sudden he may not find me attractive. We don't know, but so far, so good. We're moving into six years, and all I can say is it's been six good years. So I'll take these six years because that's longer than a lot of folks' marriages."

source

[evanovitch]

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Originally posted by NapiHead327:
[qb]

Originally posted by BlueAngel:
[qb] yes mi see look at the way he hands are. they have that homoishness to it. You know the cocking of one's fingas. I see it I see it.

I wonder what Star Jones is thinking now! [/qb]

You are so freakin' ridiculous!!!! [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

You know you're wrong for that one, but oh so right at the same time. [/qb]

chile di bwoy look funny...u can seet eena him ...alll dem pink lip deh ...cho....is plenty people u can look pon, lissen to an know seh dem an t'ree dolla bill a fren [img]/forums/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] is juss like dat guy whe always deh pon BET wid him gospel show an choir...juss him tawking voice is enuff fi me know seh him not walking a straight line... [img]/forums/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img] eida way, mi can undastan har being hurt but memba seh, dem deh togedda long before dem married...so fi har now seh him juss married har fi green card is not right....him come up yah widdout it an dem did a live widdout him having it...so why dem married after juss deh togedda...

[NapiHead327]

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I'm POSITIVE I don't have to worry bout that w/my Honey Bunny. He has one preference - ME!

[jamaica_dreamin]

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I hope the prenup holds up. Even if he was in denial re his sexuality in Jamaica, 10 years is a long time to live a lie. Also, I would immagine he did some "experimenting" before he realized / decided that he he is gay thus he was unfaithful.

It sounds as though he is making a decent living. He has already benefited $$$ from the marriage.

I cant immagine he'd be sent back to Jamaica after being in the US legally for 10 years. I also think that would be cruel since he is now known to be gay.