Epilogue for 'Stella' author

**blackberryrain** · 07-04-2005, 08:24 PM

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Originally posted by nattydreadgirl:
[qb] I know some divorces get nasty, and some of the participants will become vindictive or just down right evil. Somebody has to take the high road or be a bigger person.

In regards to him signing the pre-nup, if he honestly sign it because, he just loved T, why cry foul now? He is certainly not in a worse financial situation then when he met her. Of course he had become accustomed to a certain life style, however, this seems to be a lifestyle that was provided for by T, he was on the receiving end, even if he has issues with how much he was receiving and the reasons he was receiving it.

The lifestyle has run its season, get over it and move on! By the way, I would feel the same way if it was a woman crying foul after signing a pre-nup. [/qb]

exactly! I don't like gold diggers of either gender.

btw, I'm still tryin' to make that move ... maybe I'll know in the next coupla weeks [img]/forums/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

**777** · 07-04-2005, 08:33 PM

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Sweets gwan a b-b-q... [img]/forums/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]
She a celebrate pon the US side..
caz she know seh the USA a carry de swing tiday!! [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

**Boopie2** · 07-04-2005, 09:23 PM

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Originally posted by Tigrrr:
[qb] Boops, my boyfriend just left the room singing "I Am Woman Hear Me Roar" (honestly)! [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

Should *I* be concerned?

[img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [/qb]

No but when he starts sing 'OH MICKEY YOU"RE SO FINE YOU"RE SO FINE YOU BLOW MY MIND "HEY MICKEY" "HEY MICKEY!"

Or, "The Men all pause when I walk into the room the men all pause from the brides to the grooms.

That's when you become concerned [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

**Boopie2** · 07-04-2005, 09:41 PM

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Originally posted by nattydreadgirl:
[qb] I know some divorces get nasty, and some of the participants will become vindictive or just down right evil. Somebody has to take the high road or be a bigger person.

In regards to him signing the pre-nup, if he honestly sign it because, he just loved T, why cry foul now? He is certainly not in a worse financial situation then when he met her. Of course he had become accustomed to a certain life style, however, this seems to be a lifestyle that was provided for by T, he was on the receiving end, even if he has issues with how much he was receiving and the reasons he was receiving it.

The lifestyle has run its season, get over it and move on! By the way, I would feel the same way if it was a woman crying foul after signing a pre-nup. [/qb]

How are you going to know what the heck you are signing at that age? Many desperate people do desperate things when they are up against a wall. Reading so much of this I can see how he somewhat felt, knowing it isn't easy in Jamaica she made him sign the pre nup with not that much of a choice. His card was running out he couldn't work, she had promised to take care of him so shut up and take care of him now!

Reading it she claims it was his intent to gain his statues in the States. He says she was the one to bring up marriage when she was suppose to have a book promotion in Maui. Her friend told her it would be romantic if they got married in Maui. Point blank she is following friends advice probably the same so called "Friends" who told her to bring him here in the first place.

She went to Jamaica they had sex she came home went back to Jamaica then the next thing you know she is making all these promises to him and his parents. She was older and let what's between her legs control her mind and instincts. Then she tried to make the sex legit, she has money she could have had her long distance taste and left him right there. She didn't have to reveal that she was famous.

She saw a way to make him her boy toy and he saw a way to get out of Jamaica. She's going whacko because of all the negative publicity. He says he has proof of the harassment but most was too filthy to submit, but if pressured hw will reveal everything.

It's not the romantic movie, she didn't have to marry him. Now she's looking like a big idiot and can't take the heat.

**777** · 07-04-2005, 09:55 PM

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for the love of god..

**Boopie2** · 07-04-2005, 09:59 PM

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Originally posted by 777:
[qb] for the love of god.. [/qb]

What? Why keep checking if not interesting? [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

**777** · 07-04-2005, 10:00 PM

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me ooda like fe read, but it too long ma..

**777** · 07-04-2005, 10:05 PM

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I feel pretty...oh so pretty...
I feel pretty and witty and brite...

**Tigrrr** · 07-04-2005, 10:06 PM

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Originally posted by nattydreadgirl:
[qb] In regards to him signing the pre-nup, if he honestly sign it because, he just loved T, why cry foul now? He is certainly not in a worse financial situation then when he met her. Of course he had become accustomed to a certain life style, however, this seems to be a lifestyle that was provided for by T, he was on the receiving end, even if he has issues with how much he was receiving and the reasons he was receiving it.
The lifestyle has run its season, get over it and move on! By the way, I would feel the same way if it was a woman crying foul after signing a pre-nup. [/qb]

Natty, the problem lies in the fact that at his young age, had he not encountered Ms Mc and the allure of her romantically and/or financially, he would have spent the last 10 years building a life and a means for income for himself. By insisting he sign that prenup, she was basically buying his affection until SHE decided it was over. The gay thing tricked her before she could trick him.

What she had before meeting him is all hers. What she gained since meeting him from the book and movie of their romance - I feel she owes him. And basically the US government normally does also. Usually for us normal income folks, if we sponsor a person on a marriage Visa, we are expected to be financially responsible for that person.

I think prison is the only institution where you spend 10 years of your life and depart with $50 and a bus ticket. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/70361-embarassed.gif[/img]

And Princess, there are gradations of everything including sexuality. I agree that a person doesn't go to sleep straight and wake up gay, however the knowledge of sexual identity is individual. There is no "one size fits all" regardless of how many gay friends you club with.

As I said, I know gays who knew from their first sexual impulse that they were gay. I have also known others who had no preference, but responded to what they thought was normal (heterosexuality), then as they grew and matured were able to discern that their sexual preference was toward their same sex. For my close friend, I watched the process unfold over 3 to 4 years from questioning to realization. Her hetero lifestyle before that was not duplicitous or denial. She acted out of the norm until her true preference matured.

**777** · 07-04-2005, 10:10 PM

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Ok,...me gwan..unno deh pon the gay sintin again..

**Tigrrr** · 07-04-2005, 10:23 PM

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Sevensssssssssssssss.... Nooooooooooooooooo... Don't leave us................... [img]/forums/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

**777** · 07-04-2005, 10:29 PM

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me haffe tink bout it..

[img]/forums/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]

**nattydreadgirl** · 07-04-2005, 10:30 PM

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He wasn't to young or to naive to enter into a marriage with a woman 23years his senior! He had people advising him I am sure, and if he didn't and he was just going along for the ride, then hey the ride is OVER. And if he was in it for the Green Card, then he has obtain that also. He has definitely not left this relationship empty handed. Again, IMO, he needs to move on!!!!

Trust me, most people have their motives when they enter a relationship. Desperate, I don't really think so, they got married, he didn't have to marry her for a green card, it was not a life or death situation that he remain in the U.S...kissteet!!

By insisting that he sign the pre-nup she was being smart and protecting her assets from what is playing out in this drama today.

Yeah she made promises to him and his family and seems like she took care of him while they were married, so in my opinion she lived up to that end of the bargain. As for agreeing to sponsor him for the U.S. she did that also, he has stated and so has she, that she paid for his schooling and invested in his future by contributing to his business. He needs to pack his ish, and move on.

What pray tell has he lost? I am lost on that!

It is high time he bow out gracefully, it didn't work for whatever reasons, MOVE ON!!!

**777** · 07-04-2005, 10:34 PM

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unno noh have some fireworks somewhere fe watch??

**blackberryrain** · 07-04-2005, 10:42 PM

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lordy

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